If Your Loyal Regular offered you monthly......
Sooooo... I have a very loyal regular that I also see OTC mostly now. Sweet guy, spoils me all the time, yada yada....
So recently he asked how much would I need monthly to stop dancing. He already pays for my car payments so I guess he's taking the next step.
And I DO NOT do extras with this guy--made that clear to him.
In all honesty, I'm not going to stop and depend solely on this guy for my financial needs so of course I'll keep dancing buuuuut
How much would you say is a decent amount monthly for you to "SUPPOSEDLY" stop? I wish I could say $20,000 but I know that's not going to happen lol.
-LX
Re: If Your Loyal Regular offered you monthly......
$400 a shift times 4 shifts weekly: $1600 a week. I would tell him that's what you're making stripping full time and you don't want to lower your standard of living. If he really pushes I'd knock it down to $1k a week but nothing less than that.
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I guess it depends on what you make weekly, but Id be expecting at least $2K a week. In the corporate world you should always ask for more than you really want when negotiating salary so you can get as close to your goal as possible. So I say add 50% per week extra and let him try and bring it down from there.
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Just be careful if you do take the money and continue dancing, my friend did this and her customer hired a private investigator to check up on her. He found out that she was still dancing, got extremely pissed off and she had to cut contact with him and lost a huge amount of her income. It might be more profitable to keep things as they are if possible.
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Cam on the side.
I'd aight with 3Gs a week. But monthly, I think between 12-15 is reasonable if he can't do 20 a month.
Start high, see what he says. You never know.
Re: If Your Loyal Regular offered you monthly......
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Originally Posted by
siliconedoll
Just be careful if you do take the money and continue dancing, my friend did this and her customer hired a private investigator to check up on her. He found out that she was still dancing, got extremely pissed off and she had to cut contact with him and lost a huge amount of her income. It might be more profitable to keep things as they are if possible.
I completely agree.
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No less than 10000 monthly!
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I agree with the others that warned against not really quitting. I'm in the same kinda situation. I really did knock my days down but told him I worried about being completely dependent which is why I didn't want to stop completely. If you do quit or knock your days down I suggest finding something productive to do like school or finding a new job so you REALLY could quit dancing without regs help. I also agree with how another poster calculated the amount. Average out what you make comfortably for a month and use that amount.
DON'T actually get yourself into a situation where you are 100% dependent on a customers money OTC and can't easily go back to dancing (if you have a lot of regs you depend on you may lose them when you quit...)
Think carefully with this one!
Re: If Your Loyal Regular offered you monthly......
My worry would be if something happened to the regular that meant he would stop paying. And i wouldnt like to ever be financially dependant on a single man ever again personally. Hypothetically though, id tell him i would knock my nights down to maybe two a week and do fridays and saturdays in the club, and if he wanted to support me id want at least 3 months pay in advance at a time of at least 20-25K each payment. Otherwise id be too concerned about the what ifs etc.
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I dunno, I'd do it. I don't have regs like that because of my bf(been together forever). But If I was in your situation.. Why the hell not? I'm in school full time and if somebody was willing to pay me 6 figures to NOT WORK, that's a no brainer to me. So what if it doesn't work out. Make him feel bad responsible for you not working and milk it and when it ends (which these situations inevitable do) ..just start dancing again? I don't understand how quitng doesn't allow you to ever dance again? Even if you plan on going back use him for a two month vaca then tell him you don't like the arrangement and want to work again.. that's the benefit of dancing, you arent resigning from some office position that you can't return to, you can always start dancing again.
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I wouldn't go by a weekly amount. I would suggest $10,000-$15,000 in advance per month. That way if he falls off with keeping up the arrangement you can just go back to dancing within the week and you'll also be financially set. It should always be paid forward or you'll end up without cash flow at an inconvenient time.
Weekly sounds like he can get sloppy and waste your time telling you "oohh how about I get that too you next week". If it's a month in advance than you can just relax all month long.
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Theyre always strings in this situation...
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Originally Posted by
siliconedoll
Just be careful if you do take the money and continue dancing, my friend did this and her customer hired a private investigator to check up on her. He found out that she was still dancing, got extremely pissed off and she had to cut contact with him and lost a huge amount of her income. It might be more profitable to keep things as they are if possible.
Re: If Your Loyal Regular offered you monthly......
I say if he pays more than 10k per month then I would stop dancing, get a regular job and SAVE SAVE SAVE! that way if he ever decides to stop paying then you at least have a good savings to live off of. If he is paying less than 10k per month then I'd switch clubs and pray like hell he never goes to that one.
Either way if he does give you an allowance then I would still have him continue to pay my car note aside from the monthly pay.
Re: If Your Loyal Regular offered you monthly......
That's a really sweet deal on the surface so I'd personally recommend honoring it by not dancing. However, cam your ass off if you want, start a web site, get a reg. job, or go study, whatever fits however much $$ he's going to be giving you. And I would 2nd the advice to save save save. LOL at 10k/month, that's understandable for super career strippers to demand that much, and I understand why you might want to haggle etc, but even if he just gives you 4k/month... You can hopefully save 2k of that and could potentially earn 1k+ on the side, either through alternative sex work like domming or camming, or through a "straight job" while fleshing out your credentials.
Essentially, he's giving you free time, which is arguably more valuable than money. But of course you want to make sure you still have your stripper supplies ready (license, shoes etc) in case of emergency...
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Isnt meeting OTC doing extras in some way/shape/form? Anything over a lapdance and the communication to get u that sale is considered extras right? You are certainly doing extra, meeting this dude OTC and should definately be entitled to EXTRA MONEY g/f! This is a tricky situation, like he is setting u up. I dunno if I would tell him "I will quit dancing" Maybe something along the lines of " I love dancing and I dont want to quit, but I would love to have more time for ______________ (insert hobby here). I absolutely love ___________________(insert hobby here) but I never have enough time anymore. If I could take off a few nights a week Id love to ______________________ (insert hobby here) more often! I am a bit of an artist myself, so I always use that as my excuse. I love to work on my art and would love more spare time to do so :)
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Not to say I dont believe you, that's not what I'm saying but btw this guy must be a serious moron if he gives somebody that kinda money and he's not even getting no ass.. Just goes to show how stupid men can be, and this is luckily a positive outcome :)