For those who do massage - why is it that guys think they always know better than us?
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So I took the plunge and set up a free website from an escort server even though I'm not offering full services. I decided to offer sensual massage with a happy ending. I display my number and an email address on my website. Traffic has been a little slow of late so I decide to place a discreet ad on Craigslist under therapeutic services. A few genuine calls came in and then I received one which really took the biscuit. He calls and starts stuttering and jibbering, so I ask him firstly, how I can help and what is he interested in; he tells me first off how he is looking for a regular meet and ask me what I offer. :-\ Uhmm, so I ask him if he saw my website, he says no he saw my ad on CL. I say to him well fine, no problem - what service is he interested in since I offer sensual massage? He says he's not sure!:confused: So I give him my website address and he asks if I have any pictures and what would I wear during a massage :-\ At this point I know he's probably a timewaster after a quick wank so I say to him pictures will be up on website in a few weeks once I choose a proper photographer and advise him to call back in a few weeks when he is sure he wants to book. Then after all that the arsehole has the nerve to email me this crap:
It's Jay who rang you today I am off now but before I go... I looked at your site. Escorts are
hookers. My advice is to stay the massage side of prostitution
because, generally, hooking fucks up women's heads. You don't need a
professional photographer - a friend is fine. Save money, make money.
And you need to develop a much better phone persona. You can develop
from what you already have but it needs to focus on nailing the
punter. Drawing him in. This is a business and, again my advice, make
it temporary. There are better things to do with your working life
than wank men off for money. You also need to know exactly where you
intend to drawn the line on what you will do...men will always want
more and try to take it. My advice - you'll get sick of me - is keep
your knickers on and your tits out. Naked invites boundary disputes.
They will want to wank you, lick you...it goes on and on. I know this
field because I was a journo for 30 years and anything I touch I take
an interest in. Jay
What makes him so qualified to tell me how to run my business?
How do you ladies brush off these jerks and not let them get to you?
And most importantly, how do you all avoid timewasters and pricks who call? I want to give all potential callers the benefit of the doubt that they could be potential clients but then when do you draw the line? I don't want to develop a rep for being rude on the phone but neither do I want to spend half an hour giving in to some jerkoff fantasy to free phonesex.
Re: For those who do massage - why is it that guys think they always know better than
I don't give out my number anymore.
It's easier to click delete on someone who asks unwelcome questions off the bat (aka, incriminating ones.)
Just ignore him. I know you just want to give him a piece of your mind but really it's not worth getting worked
up because there's SO much of that out there.
My advice (if you wanted it):
Do what you want, even if it means emailing the guy and telling him to shove the condescending crap where the
sun don't shine. I do think he had some good points but it's not his place to tell you-- especially after being a fucking
weirdo on the phone. But as far as my experience, I'd stay away from craigslist unless you're looking for a sugardaddy
who's wanting that type of experience, and also, don't give out your phone number (and dear God, please tell me it's
a hobby phone and not one linked to your real name?)
Re: For those who do massage - why is it that guys think they always know better than
Thanks for the advice - good to hear it. 'm seriously finding Craigslist is the dregs - only idiots, timewasters and weirdos so far - no real business coming from there. It's a pre-paid cell I have. What I don't get is why he's telling me to sell myself more on the phone? Is this a hint that he wants phone sex? Surely if a man calls he knows what service is on offer right? Why should I tell him about what I offer on the phone? Sounds creepy to me!