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If you don't have a LOT of experience as an escort, you should absolutely, not ever consider going out of the country with a client. NOT EVER.
I know you're all glassy-eyed over the idea of making 40k for a few sucks and fucks, but let's do a reality gut-check, shall we?
Do you have any clue how to screen a regular, local client? How about someone from another country? (Answer: No.)
Have you ever been to these destination countries on your own? (Answer: Probably not.)
Do you know the laws in that country? (Answer: No.)
What would you do if you were in a strange country, knowing no one, and your passport/ID/phone/computer was taken from you and you were held and abused as a sex slave? (Answer: Be abused.)
How would you get off of that luxury yacht or out of that hotel if they didn't want to let you leave? (Answer: Whatever they make you do.)
Do you REALLY know what "Kinky sex" might mean? (Answer: Could be light spanking OR could be tying you up and pissing in your mouth, etc)
If such an opportunity really did present itself to you, how would you get the 40k home exactly?
If your friend really knew anything about such things, why isn't she driving a Maserati and living in a mansion? Why is she still working with you?
Sure, such "exotic fantasy weekends with rich, Middle-Eastern Gentlemen" may occur, but your friend probably just read about it on the internet.
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Behind Door Number One: win a beautiful, all-expense paid trip to lifelong white slavery!
Behind Door Number Two: same thing as above except you buy your own ticket to lifelong sexual servitude.
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It does happen, and girls come back happy they did it. HOWEVER, there also a lot of shady types they want to do very bad things.
I can remember hearing Kacey Jordan on Howard Stern talking about going to Dubai to see a prince over there. Got close to 30k if I remember right.
Unless it's a booking through a major agency with plenty of girls that have done it. The post above has a LOT of great points, except the options of kinky, she was a little soft, on what kinky could mean, can get a lot worse than pee, more like bolt cutters.
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Seen it, done it bought the teeshirt....
Dubai and Bahrain are frequent holiday spots for wealthy Saudi men and others. They leave their families, wives and their Koran/ book of Islam at home. Now Islam teaches family and Alah above all. No drinking ect. UNLESS you are on vacation/hoiday. The drink swear chase women many times the only women available are Tai slave/hookers. Unprotected sex and STD's are the norm. If you should get pregnant t5hey will kill you and the heir the the wealth at the same time. You would be considered dirty or unclean and second class in their world. Russian women are fetching the highest $$ these days. US women would bring the same $$ but are few and far between.
Dont do it unless you wish to gamble with your life.
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Jenni
If this girl knows how to nail down 40k in a weekend why is she working at the club? Or anywhere for that matter?
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Originally Posted by
kissykins
It does happen, and girls come back happy they did it. HOWEVER, there also a lot of shady types they want to do very bad things.
I can remember hearing Kacey Jordan on Howard Stern talking about going to Dubai to see a prince over there. Got close to 30k if I remember right.
Unless it's a booking through a major agency with plenty of girls that have done it. The post above has a LOT of great points, except the options of kinky, she was a little soft, on what kinky could mean, can get a lot worse than pee, more like bolt cutters.
Yikes! Holy crap! Ok, that sounds way way WAY less interesting now.
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Have you read the book My Life In A Harem? It's a true story from a girl who was an escort and her agency contracted her to go to Dubai or something to party with a Saudi prince. She made a TON of money but her book shows the true side of it - lots of unprotected rough sex, mind games and her not knowing when/if she'd ever get her passport back.
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Iv'e heard of playboy playmates, pagent winners and top name porn stars doing this..I don't think it would be a good idea as a "regular" escort..be careful! Those girls had a big name agent booking them and these were legit Middle Eastern rich guys. No offense , but I wouldn't use thedirty.com as a a legit site for anything...it's like a lower form of TMZ (and they aren't trust worthy either!) they'll take any story that sounds crazy
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I think you're better off visiting Dubai, Quatar etc on vacation (via a travel agent) and snagging a customer or two while you're there. You may not get 40K for a weekend but you may be able to negotiate an arrangement. I've friends who've gone that route.
However it may not be smart engage in sex work in countries where women don't have many rights.
...And that porta-potty thing is horrible. If one had to equate the money to the stress of the experience (foreign country, passport confiscated until trip's end) 40K isn't nearly enough to have sex with multiple partners (are condoms being used?), be physically abused and repeatedly ejaculated, vomited and defalcated on.
Talking strictly numbers, if you break it down into hourly pay for 3 days that's only 550 per hour. Many escorts make that without having do those things.
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Yes holy shit, you need to go on thedirty.com. Just search the term "porta-potty".
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Never ever travel to the Middle East to do sex work. As a female, you are a second class citizen and you have no rights - none whatsoever! There are many stories in European newspapers of women who travel to Dubai or Abu Dhabi and encounter horrendous situations. If you ever do have the opportunity to snag a wealthy Saudi prince and he asks you to travel and you agree, I would suggest you meet him in London - most of these Middle Eastern men have second homes in Knightsbridge anyway. At least prostitution is legal there and working girls have every right to legal interference if something goes awry.
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I totally agree with ConchCutie .. there are high end agencies who have these "middle eastern" connections already and more often send the girls to Europe to meet with these wealthy Arabs. As someone from London originally I have witnessed it myself - MANY of them have homes in Knightsbridge, Mayfair etc and they have a lot of money to spend on the right entertainment.
My cousin has worked out in Dubai for the past 6 or 7 years and it is no place for a young western woman to go - there is strong possibility you may never come back. There are no "women's rights" as such in those countries, and frankly if they're paying you, then you may be their property in their eyes.
A great example of this is if you read Kola Boof's book on her experiences with Osama Bin Laden - granted we are talking the head of a terrorist group and she was not in Dubai - but she was kept for months and months. It's an extreme case but an eye opening story about how things are in other parts of the world.
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Fuck That!
I just read "the dirty". So vomited and shitted on? Sleeping with a man and his four sons? Doing orgies with them? Being beat up? Ohh but I have a house paid for and my college bills too? It doesn't seem worth it. As many of these women don't even make it back alive to enjoy their accomplishments. Many of those men have issues with woman as it is so now you're going to go with ones that have money? That's a recipe for disaster. Some that are raised here in the US have some of those ingrained ideas and thoughts. Not all but some. It's more on a cultural level that they are raised with this view. So yeah I would pass on this unless life just isn't worth living.
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Please dont freelance in an Arab country while visiting. The laws there are very different than here. You could be put in prision or put to death
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I wouldn't do it.
Honestly, that 40k is not worth it. If you were going to be set for life, like literally never have to work a day in your life again, then I'd say MAYBE consider it. I still wouldn't do it because I KNOW it would fuck me up, and it's just not worth it.
What can you get for 40k?
A decent car...but not even a great car. Most new cars retail for $25,000-$35,000 so you wouldn't be in the market for a luxury fully loaded BMW fresh off the lot. On the flip side if you wanted a car for 40k you could finance it, sure you'd pay interest and finance fees, but you'd still have your dignity and safety. No creditor is going to shit on you, abuse you, or worse because you can't make a payment.
A year or two worth of school at a good University. Again, financial aid is great for this. Not a feasible reason to justify being a human toilet, essential sex slave, and so forth for two days (if they let you go).
A crappy condo or town house (if you're lucky). You might get a handyman special house in a shady neighborhood. Honestly, my condo sold for 70k and it's only 1700-1800 sq feet, so 40k won't get you a great condo let alone a nice house. It has an attached garage, but I sure wouldn't let someone gangbang me, shit on me, and make me have sex with animals so I didn't have a monthly payment due.
A shopping spree. Sure, I've gone on a 5k shopping spree with a sugar daddy and it was exhilarating. I never touched him though, or vice versa, it was a long story but it wasn't about sex. He was disabled and very rich from his accident, just wanted a lot of platonic companionship at night (watching movies, cooking him dinner, cleaning his house).
40k cash, so maybe a year off work. 40k isn't a bad living, but you won't be living like a king either. You can afford to take about a year off work, and trust me you'll be bored and you won't be able to go party every night with 40k, that's a middle class budget. If you spend too much too soon you'll be eating ramen noodles until you find a new job.
So now that we've done that let's look at what you could lose:
Your life. Nothing is worth that, my fiance is a member of the United States Military and I still can't stomach the idea of him dying for our freedom overseas...and that is a 'righteous' cause to some. Your life is definitely not worth 40k.
Your sanity. You could literally suffer from PTSD and panic attacks so badly afterward that you might go insane. This isn't a wild conclusion either, it's a pretty distinct possibility. You could literally go fucking insane and want to kill yourself/harm others.
Your freedom. If you get caught evading taxes (try explaining that one to the IRS) they will arrest you and fine you heavily. Also, if these people decide not to let you go then you could become an eternal sex slave.
So all of the things I listed: crappy condo, shopping spree, year off work, tuition are not worth your freedom, sanity, or LIFE.
DON'T DO IT.
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ConchCutie
I would suggest you meet him in London - most of these Middle Eastern men have second homes in Knightsbridge anyway. At least prostitution is legal there and working girls have every right to legal interference if something goes awry.
It's not legal in London , that I know of ?
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Everyone just needs to stop hating and open their eyes to the heartless bastards who are doing these things. So a warning to all women, if you are offered a job for $60, 000+ to be a server at a nightclub or a hostess at a hotel for a short period of time, thats’ not what your going there for. You will be used abused and discarded when they have had enough of you. Please bring some light to this situation and stop being so hard on us.
^so when they post job ads like this on craigslist about working as a server in Dubai this is what they really mean??
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Never go to the Middle East for "work".
Never.
Arabs with money fly out to party.
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This post is all sorts of fail. You are out of you mind for even considering this. I mean with all the FREE resources online you should know better. Geez!
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^ tough crowd bro.
I love the name of this thread it amuses me