Calling out while on cam? =(
So my Husband and I are getting ready to get on SM in about an hour and I wanted to see how many couples were on. I will not call out any names here but when I clicked on one couple starting a gold show they were sitting there bashing another solo girl model on the site. She was also on. I really couldn't believe they were doing it! And of corse some of the members starting chiming in bashing her too. =( Just think its pretty sad. We have had some members come in our room before and drop some names but I usually reply with "Yes! She/or they are great! So many beautiful people here!" and they usually shut up once they realize I'm not going to down others.
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It just makes them look trashy and bad, and probably gets more traffic to her room ! Even bad publicity is usually good in this business lol. Seriously it just makes them look like haters and I doubt it helped them make any more $ to bash another model
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Exactly. It just really surprised me. I mean, we rarely check out other rooms unless to see how couples are fairing in their Gold Shows. (we just got enabled) so I checked it out to see if tonight is ganna be another slow one or if folks were meeting their goals. But it did kinda shock me. =P
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some of those guys just love the drama and 9 times out 10 those are the types of guys that don't spend money anyways. i think that it is tacky and classless to sit in ur room when ur trying to make ur money and ur trash talking other models on the site. it is only hurting ur business cuz the money spenders don't wanna hear that drama. also shows how insecure u are as a performer as well, must make themselves feel better by putting other models down. also they are giving her that free advertisement too, that draws traffic to her room so when they don't realize that they just sent some of they're own money spenders to the other performer's room. smh. good for you for not lowering urself in that way. that's the type of shit that ppl do in stripclubs. the drama was part of the reason why i am glad i am making money from home wrking online. oh well, some ppl never grow up, they are only hurting themselves in the long run anyways.
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bubblegumbitch
some of those guys just love the drama and 9 times out 10 those are the types of guys that don't spend money anyways. i think that it is tacky and classless to sit in ur room when ur trying to make ur money and ur trash talking other models on the site. it is only hurting ur business cuz the money spenders don't wanna hear that drama.
if only everyone knew this - Ill seriously see the same handful of SM and MFC and lol even F4F notorious twitter drama starters constantly starting twitter BS and wll send ther 'fans' after other models over perceived to nonexistent slights... then after spending 2days ranting on twitter about they will start complaining about it being slow. but of course it is never their fault and itll restart again a few days later.
like, gurl, come on. some will go too far and reveal their rival's real names and locations or post screenshots - like jesus fucking christ, go read like the wikipedia entry on marketing haha. just stfu, post some affiliate links, wash your dildos and sign onto your cam accounts already. lol srsly though.
insecurity isnt sexy. if youre feeling bitchy (we all have our waves of it) keep it offline or among friends. for the love of god just dont attach it to your model acct - esp when it is completely moronic stuff (unless rules are being broken 9 times out of 10 it is utterly moronic) making it public is so... when has "so and so is so fat and ugly and cheap, amirite guise lololol" ever been hot IRL? why would it suddenly be online? lol idgi.
camming is becoming more and more competitive - and ppl who cannot deal with competition well are just getting uglier and uglier. you can even see it happening here almost daily too - all it is is a great way to shoot yourself in the foot and give your competitors an edge in the process. just up your own work ethic if youre threatened instead of attracting waves of ppl who will just sit (not paying) listening and RTing you bitching and moaning abt ... nonsense.
you also attract the worst customers and fans - like the worst. only the most dim-witted and cheapest customers hang onto camgirl drama - Ill see them on twitter trying to be the big man of camgirl drama, send @s to other camgirls abt such and such, like theyre "in the know" about the most petty nonsensical crap, it is so stupid... and the worst kind of customer (freeloaders, lbr) to enable.
it is just taxing to witness though. like their raging insecurity is contagious and hearing them prattle on is going to infect you too. basically - blech. sorry OP.
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Originally Posted by
roast
if only everyone knew this - Ill seriously see the same handful of SM and MFC and lol even F4F notorious twitter drama starters constantly starting twitter BS and wll send ther 'fans' after other models over perceived to nonexistent slights... then after spending 2days ranting on twitter about they will start complaining about it being slow. but of course it is never their fault and itll restart again a few days later.
like, gurl, come on. some will go too far and reveal their rival's real names and locations or post screenshots - like jesus fucking christ, go read like the wikipedia entry on marketing haha. just stfu, post some affiliate links, wash your dildos and sign onto your cam accounts already. lol srsly though.
insecurity isnt sexy. if youre feeling bitchy (we all have our waves of it) keep it offline or among friends. for the love of god just dont attach it to your model acct - esp when it is completely moronic stuff (unless rules are being broken 9 times out of 10 it is utterly moronic) making it public is so... when has "so and so is so fat and ugly and cheap, amirite guise lololol" ever been hot IRL? why would it suddenly be online? lol idgi.
camming is becoming more and more competitive - and ppl who cannot deal with competition well are just getting uglier and uglier. you can even see it happening here almost daily too - all it is is a great way to shoot yourself in the foot and give your competitors an edge in the process. just up your own work ethic if youre threatened instead of attracting waves of ppl who will just sit (not paying) listening and RTing you bitching and moaning abt ... nonsense.
you also attract the worst customers and fans - like the worst. only the most dim-witted and cheapest customers hang onto camgirl drama - Ill see them on twitter trying to be the big man of camgirl drama, send @s to other camgirls abt such and such, like theyre "in the know" about the most petty nonsensical crap, it is so stupid... and the worst kind of customer (freeloaders, lbr) to enable.
it is just taxing to witness though. like their raging insecurity is contagious and hearing them prattle on is going to infect you too. basically - blech. sorry OP.
"WORD" lol
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I have witnessed a girl on SM talking trash about me and a few other girls in her room....I lost all respect for her! That's low and pathetic in my book to talk trash about girls in the same damn business as you...To me, anyone who does that is insecure and is obviously not happy with themselves to stoop so low...Let em hate!
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I've largely stopped going into other girls rooms, although I'll still do it on occasion...I find that half the time, I see crap like this and it just brings my energy down, which I do not want!!
The drama is just such a ridiculous thing - I don't understand why anyone would do this!!! Especially when it takes time away from earning MONEY! Nine times out of ten, guys want to see a girl that looks like she is happy and flirty and having fun in her room, not bitching and whining. C'mon, if guys want to see a woman bitch about the same other woman over and over again, I'm guessing they would log off and talk to their wives......
And even when I do see a model doing something that I find appalling - wonderful examples include, but are not limited to, full nudity and fucking in free chat, smoking crack on cam, being too drunk to stand, being just a general scruffy fucked-up mess, doing drugs on cam, sitting with their pet next to them as they masturbate, sitting with their BABY next to them as they masturbate..... - I'm not going to say a word. For the really bad stuff, I'll shoot off an e-mail to SM about it. Some of these girls are vicious, and I don't want to tweet/post about model x, and then find out that she is psychotic, and starts a vendetta against me - getting fans to send hate mail, trying to post my real info, keeping eyes on my room for the slightest transgression....why would you bring that down on your own head???
The guys that love the drama, imho, are the ones that want "friends". They are lonely guys that want to feel like they are part of something by being involved in all the drama. And that doesn't pay.
Like I always say, I'm here to make MONEY, not friends. And not enemies, either.
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I know, it is messed up, and if a member mentions another model in my room, I just tell them to not mention other models in my room! Another member will usually chime in and say "Yeah, that is messed up, man." (Hm. . seems to only happen in party chat, lol).
By the way, it's nice to see couples on here! I am going to go into that realm of camming, and I am glad to hear that you aren't into the name calling. I've noticed that the few couples on SM tend to be quite competitive, and it eases us up a little to see there are some nice ones out there. :)
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BabyLove1981
So my Husband and I are getting ready to get on SM in about an hour and I wanted to see how many couples were on. I will not call out any names here but when I clicked on one couple starting a gold show they were sitting there bashing another solo girl model on the site. She was also on. I really couldn't believe they were doing it! And of corse some of the members starting chiming in bashing her too. =( Just think its pretty sad. We have had some members come in our room before and drop some names but I usually reply with "Yes! She/or they are great! So many beautiful people here!" and they usually shut up once they realize I'm not going to down others.
There's a lot of miserable and disrespectful fuckers on SM. It's a damn shame. That's good that you didn't join in on their badmouthing though. I would've told them not to badmouth my fellow cam girls. Not only is it disrespectful to those models, but it's disrespectful to YOU, because by mentioning those other models by name, they're really just advertising them to the other people in the room. Even though they're negative comments, now guys are probably gonna remember that model's name, and they may be curious enough to go look for her room just to see what it's like in there.
And I think a lot of guys who badmouth models are just butthurt that those models kicked them (or banned them) from the room for being fucktards. You've got to be a real dumbass to manage to get yourself banned from models' rooms constantly on a daily basis...lmao.
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roast
reveal their rival's real names and locations
I really wish that people could do jail time for shit like that, but they'd probably just lie and say it was unintentional. Or even worse, law enforcement not wanting to help out an adult performer (which would be fucked up). A person working from the comfort of their home should be able to work without having to worry that their life and safety is in jeopardy.
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TheBrownFox
I really wish that people could do jail time for shit like that, but they'd probably just lie and say it was unintentional. Or even worse, law enforcement not wanting to help out an adult performer (which would be fucked up). A person working from the comfort of their home should be able to work without having to worry that their life and safety is in jeopardy.
TY for saying that. I have heard some models say.."I have her information" I know one model where they threatened her child and her in free chat. I will never forget what was said and glad I screen capped it for her. "I will come to your house and you will fuck me, you are recognizable with all your tattoos." she ignored..then "Your kid will know you are good" She went off, she will never flaunt her safety on cam bc its illegal to wave a gun..(i think) but she pulled out her bat that she has hot glued nails on. Her statement was "Obviously you dont know me asshole". I logged in the room after I capped it and closed my eye to calm her down. She stopped camming and called me. I told her I took a screen shot of the person. I emailed it to her, she emailed it to sm support and that persons account had already been closed. They told her they couldnt give any information on a closed account. It is sad.
I also watch another friend and one night I was logging off and she was on so I popped in to say goodnight. She was telling customers there is a cammodel war. The person was trashing her with eye closed. It was pissing her off to the point she couldnt hustle her shows bc every time she did something sexy they trashed her.
Who ever is doing this needs to stop. Girls are constantly questioning who is watching me? :( We shouldnt have to work like that.
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temptingmodel
Who ever is doing this needs to stop. Girls are constantly questioning who is watching me? :( We shouldnt have to work like that.
oh, I know whos watching me....::)
Half the world.
Welcome.
but talking trash and calling people out while on cam is one of the most horrible things...
this girl needs to be bitch slapped.......
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A jealous cunt is a rotten cunt. I cannot believe that some bitches are taking their insecurities out to the extreme. This is just as bad as horrible or jealous friends you come out to telling everyone what you do for a living, and trying to destroy your reputation or future.
This really bothers me because it is not high school, or a popularity contest. It is how we live, it is how we feed and support ourselves. How can anyone fuck with that lightly? I am pissed to hear of so many savage and disgusting people, especially when they are people who work in a judgmental, taboo industry. We all need to stick together and be supportive. When a knife goes in, in this industry, it's a lot worse. It fucks with personal privacy and can lead to potential stalkers and the dangers that entail. It can fuck with someone's food money, surgery money, rent, anything vital and important in our lives. It can fuck with our social lives....
I just don't see how people can be vindictive and hurtful for such shallow and petty reasons. I think a lot of these people, if not all of them, have serious brain malfunctions.
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SweetPinkCupcake
I know, it is messed up, and if a member mentions another model in my room, I just tell them to not mention other models in my room! Another member will usually chime in and say "Yeah, that is messed up, man." (Hm. . seems to only happen in party chat, lol).
By the way, it's nice to see couples on here! I am going to go into that realm of camming, and I am glad to hear that you aren't into the name calling. I've noticed that the few couples on SM tend to be quite competitive, and it eases us up a little to see there are some nice ones out there. :)
Thank you! We haven't been camming too long (since this past October) but its been fun! Except for all the bullshit freeloaders. And yes!!!! Competition is CRAZy for couples. lmao. We are just here to make money thats it. The only time I have ever talked to other cammers is when I joined here. lol When we first started it was on LJ and we held the #1 spot for couples in the 69's game for 6 pay periods straight. Once we won the 3rd time, all the sudden everything changed, (guest remarks that is)..Guests were coming in saying REALLY nasty stuff. And some would even go as far as to say "Go to such and such couple room, they are better". We even had a fellow couple come in and say "I can't belive you have won again, congrats" Come about Jan we went to 2nd place and it's lowered since. Which was fine for us. Were not the new hot couple anymore & I mean yeah, the x-tra money for winning was a great bonus, but we were still making the same. Now when we log on we have at least one guest say "hahaha no more 69's game for you" Hell, we didn't even know what the hell it was until we got kicked out of it the first time we cammed because I popped my boobies out for a tip. (I didn't know any better lol)
lmao! I used to smile and not say anything, now I tell them with my bitch voice, were not here to play games dumbass were here to have hot sex while members watch!
Or when they say "your a ugly hillbilly pig" I respond with "Well, so was your mother but it didn't stop her from having YOUR UGLY FACE. =P
Oh! And come see us sometime to say hi! lol SexyGaCouple4U on SM and SexiGaCouple4u on LJ =)
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People that say these things wont get very far.. it only makes them look bad.