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Re: Why are so many wealthy white men not attracted to women of color?
Vixenluv, u said ur tired of people w preferences. Be happy u don't have them, bc u will be more likely to find someone right for u in life, with any relationship. I can find attractive people in all races, I enjoy being open minded, makes life a lot easier and fullfilling. U can't change other peoples opinions but we can rise above ignorance. If someone doesn't like me bc of my race, I don't want that person anywhere near me. As far as customers go there's nothing u can do about their racism. If older white men dont like u,
screw them, let them miss out. I wouldn't want that negativity around me anyway.
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Why are so many wealthy asian men not attracted to latina women?
I had a profile up on some dating sites and I got very very few messages or profile views. Some guys didnt even respond to my messages So I decided to do a little experiment and put up a picture of a young asian girl with brown hair and big boobs. My profile views have skyrocketed and Im getting all kinds of messages. When I look at these guys profiles alot of them either say flat out I only am attracted to asian girls/i dont date outside my race/no latinas/etc. It seems like these guys only want a young asian girl. And even if they do get a latina woman, she looks very racially ambiguous and its obvious she has some asian in her. I hate asian men.
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Re: Why are so many wealthy white men not attracted to women of color?
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vixenluv
and to any white folks reading this and thinking all black women are angry. kiss my ass.
Sounds like you are though...
Please don't kill me for suggesting this, but maybe you've got such a hostile vibe, it scares people off?
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Maybe it's because the majority of the sugar daddy pool are white men, but I have a problem believing that not one single wealthy white man would not be interested in being a black lady's SD. Unfortunately they all aren't going to look hot like Naomi Cambell's billionaire. Gosh, that is one good-looking married billionaire. So, let's look at Naomi: She's had good as well as plenty of bad press. She's a model, so her body looks good. Her hair is done OK - she could use a better weave/wig or better hair care though. As a model, she's been around to many places, so on the surface she seems "cultured." She may not be the best example but maybe ladies can learn a thing or two. She met Vlad at a film festival. As an escort, I've actually been surprised the few times I've met a white man and he likes Hip Hop culture, or likes going to the urban strip clubs. They're out there, but I think all that should really matter is that there is a man out there, regardless of race, willing to spend plenty money (que Plies song) on us.
Editing the post to say I see you said majority, but I'll guesstimate 60%. :)
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I find that a lot of old white guys love 'em! My friend is a black girl and her 'specialty' are old white guys. I also know a super rich, super old man with a black wife..
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Just in case you see this, OP, the next time SD4M has an event in New York, I would be there if you could. It's like shooting fish in a barrel to find white men that like Latinas and Black women. In fact, it's the norm more than the exception. HTH!
Oh, and if you check my posts, you will see that I am half Black and 99% of my custies were white. IMHO, I like it when guys (not men) put those kinds of things in their profiles (regardless of who it is excluding) so I can block them and move on. If you have any kind of intelligence, you don't need to express yourself that way to get what you want.
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First of all I don't think that's true. I am a blonde white girl with big boobs and a tight body and I get passed over for latinas, and black girls all the time. People just like what they like. Second, even if it were true, why do you care? Are you really into old white men, or do you just think they are the only ones with money? They aren't. And if you're only interested in old white men then aren't you being just as prejudiced as you say they are? If the old white men aren't working for you then don't worry about it, just change your marketing. It really doesn't matter why, it only matters how you're going to make money a different way.
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As a young black female who has been dancing for three years, old white men are my money maker! Its the idea or stigma that black women are abrupt, rude and demanding. Women of color lack class, so you just have to push harder in getting across the pleasant image white men want of black women.
I noticed when escorting, when I did a boudoir photo shoot with pure elegance my white cliental skyrocketed! But in the same sense I've seen white males prefer the stereotypical black chick over me plenty of times. I more insecure competing against mixed girls then white blondes, just my two cents!
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Well, there are several white successful men (celebrities, Wall St. dudes, GOP politicians, etc) that are married to black women. A bit offtopic, but it shows that the white, wealthy dudes also go for the black ladies too.
http://hiphopwired.com/2011/01/06/do...r-sides-30097/
That list forgot one of my favorite couples; David Bowie (my hubby and I are obsessed with his music) and his wife, Somali supermodel, Iman.
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I personally have no problem getting wealthy white men, in fact all 3 of my boyfriends were lol.
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Pretty sure it has much more to do with culture than it does with skin color? People of similar cultures have no issues co-mingling. That and class level. Its all about how you carry yourself- from how you speak, to your mannerisms, to how you dress. Like attracts like in that case. If you want to attract a put-together man, then be put-together yourself and there should be no issues.
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i find the opposite is true, except with very old white men..i mean back when they were growing up we had segregation so that's how they still see it.
find your niche, why does it have to be old white men? a lot of different kind of men don't like my type either, but instead of it making me feel bad and insecure i move on and and hustle the guys who do like me.
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You know white men arent the only ones with money. There are plenty of black men, especially of African and Carribean descent who will SPEND. Go to places like Houston or ATL and you will see:) Granted as Ive mentioned in past threads i will not work at a black club (cant dance and only have a bubble butt lol), but Ive had an african sugar daddy or two before who truly spoiled me and I didnt have to do anything at all with them.
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Older white men do like black women. Sorry but they do.
Now when you look ethnic like me then you can complain because I get insulted, called names, turned down etc.
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Ive actually found the opposite true.
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I have actually found the opposite to be true. The white men that I've experienced as SDs have all appreciated my skin tone and texture equally, if not more, than men of other races. They loved my hair (naturally curly or blown straight), too. Oh, and I've found them to be most generous as well.
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What I've gleaned from my experience in the adult business is it has many niche markets. If you do it well with the right amount of spice & panache the customers do spend generously. Black women are "exotic" and therefore do not have mass appeal, BUT have a very dedicated following. It is truly is about creating regular business. The issues that hinder our "market" are the negative stereotypes, so we do have to work a little harder and be creative.
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Jeez, that chick looks rather low rent with her bra strap showing under her clothes. Bad model choice.
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agreed. they could've picked a WAY better model to represent that site.
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JEEZ Very bad model choice... Now this is where Im going to have to call foul! lol I mean jeez, on all the sugardaddy sites, they show upscale ladies looking all hot and refined... they couldnt take a cue from that and have a hot, refined looking upscale black woman represent?! blaaah them.
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In reality, I'm a thick light brown skinned black chick with a pretty face, bit tits, and a girl next door attitude and I've attracted White Old Farts on those types of sugar daddy sites. I didn't have tons knocking on my inbox but they did message me and I went out on a few dates leaving with cash in hand without doing anything. It's usually the white men who like women of color but a lot a bere not into going public with it, especially the baby boomers. However, most of them like them pretty, in shape with long hair extensions black girls like someone mentioned. It's hard in this society as white women have dominated the industry and a lot of people are brainwashed when it comes to true beauty. Good luck and don't give up! There are tons of guys who date interracially. My husband is Caucasian so I know first hand. I know England is big on the sistahs so maybe try outsourcing to internationals? I'd put more professional looking pics up, weave it up and try, try, try again. We are still in demand.
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This is offensive -true beauty....? What is beauty...? It's in the eye of the beholder. everyone is attractyed to what they are attracted to. Some are willing to pay for it. Look at the way you articulate yourself....white women, what's true beauty -your just as racist if not outright wo. I'm Native American & Eauropean & very, very offended by your statement. What's wrong w/ you? Grow up!
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I didnt read that to say that white women are true beauty, but that because white women dominate the beauty industry, people are brainwashed when it comes to beauty and that it can be found in other races as well. I dont see that as a racist statement, just an observation that beauty is not equally represented and accepted in society.
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Are you into them? Many White men think we're not interested or only interested in Black men