Just got hired as a waitress but having trouble figuring out an excuse
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You can't tell them honestly that you're a waitress? Cos honestly, waitressing is PRETTY innocent if you compare it to stripping.
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Even regular bars/restaurants close at 2am.
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Tell them you're bar tending at a night club. Or tell them you're waitressing. Are they really that conservative if they're cool with you guys living together? They probably don't care that much...
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A good excuse for waitressing? I don't understand why you need one? You're a waitress at a bar. What's the problem?
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If you really think they're going to be so against you even waitressing at a strip club and you're living under their roof, perhaps you should either reconsidering the job or move out.
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Most religious people I know wouldn't allow a couple to live together unmarried. I agree just tell em you waitress but you'd probably still have to lie. Lying will just make it harder to deal with later on.
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Night shift at Walmart or something, or waitressing in a diner? But yeah I have to agree with the other posters, if you're living with them pre-marriage, I doubt waitressing will be a big deal to them
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yes like sabrina mentioned....theyre double standard christians if theyre letting you "live in sin". just say it's a night club.
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Re: Just got hired as a waitress but having trouble figuring out an excuse
You are a waitress, at a club :) If they are the type to keep asking questions till they get enough info "which club, where, who with, what kind etc?" just say its a normal night club, i may be wong but it seems unlikely that they are going to turn up at your club, so just mention one and say it has sister clubs and you have shifts in all of them, that way, if they are being nosy about where you'll be just say you never know till you get the shift rota weekly, and if they continue to ask, make it up as you go along.
When i was dancing in my home town as far as my close relatives were aware i took photo's in nightclubs all over town, it was paid hourly plus commision (which was why i earned good money ((lol)) i moved about according to which clubs had big nights on or had booked photographers. I finished at about 4am and would get picked up by my mum or dad from the centre of town away from the strip club and no-one was any the wiser!
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GlitterBexie
You are a waitress, at a club :) If they are the type to keep asking questions till they get enough info "which club, where, who with, what kind etc?" just say its a normal night club, i may be wong but it seems unlikely that they are going to turn up at your club, so just mention one and say it has sister clubs and you have shifts in all of them, that way, if they are being nosy about where you'll be just say you never know till you get the shift rota weekly, and if they continue to ask, make it up as you go along.
When i was dancing in my home town as far as my close relatives were aware i took photo's in nightclubs all over town, it was paid hourly plus commision (which was why i earned good money ((lol)) i moved about according to which clubs had big nights on or had booked photographers. I finished at about 4am and would get picked up by my mum or dad from the centre of town away from the strip club and no-one was any the wiser!
That is by far the best lie I have ever heard for dancing. If only I had heard this years ago before all my other lies lol
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Tiabambina
That is by far the best lie I have ever heard for dancing. If only I had heard this years ago before all my other lies lol
lol thanks, it coincided nicely with the whole "everything being put on facebook" thing, plus, my friends at the time had actually done it and had taken me along a few times before i started dancing so i knew more or less what i was talking about. My bag of dance clothes etc was just "a pair of heels and a change of clothing in case someone drunk spilled a drink on me, or in case we had to move to do the VIP area and look smart for corporate types" which was easy to believe as i used to go to work in jeans and ugg boots etc. I HAD to have make up, hair and tan done because i needed to look nice cause "its commision based on who buys the photo keyrings so i want boys to think im pretty and i might make a sale" and i finished late because "clubs dont close till late and we have to take all the camera and photo equipment back to base and lock it all away, cash in our money and sort out who needed to be in which club for the next event" but of course, "where i was going to be" could change at any time" so i could never be pinned down to an exact club. lol it was a helluva story, cause at the time i was 20, but had pretty over protective parents, they wouldnt let me get taxi's in case i got murdered and raped so they always dropped me off and picked me up. After id worked out a place far away enough from the club for it not to be obvious id come out of there if i was ever later than i anticipated, but close enough so that the bouncers from my club could radio up to the club opposite where i was going to be waiting and doormen there would watch out for me coming up the road and keep an eye on me if my mum/dad was ever late it was simple, cause i was always safe after leaving the club.
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You could say you work 3rd shift at an hotel
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I would say I work at Denny's. They're open 24/7 and it is a family chain. If they ask you which one, it's easy to lie. If they ever try to "stop by" you can say you "moved to a different one".
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I would say Waitress at a club. Chances are the conservative family won't be hitting the clubs, right?