Difiiculties with the law of attraction at work.
The law of attraction and me being a money magnet-thread has inspired me so much, I have gotten so much amazing information and advice out of it...I have been working with the LAO for quite a while now (before reading the thread too) and it has helped improve many areas of my life but yet somehow I can't seem to make it work for me at work! I come to work with an amazing feeling and I actually stay positive until the end (sometimes I make all my money in the last hour). I even stay positive when I hardly make any money, I dont complain, I try to be grateful for whatever I have and get. When I am in the dressingroom I listen to my iPod instead of the girls etc. I do affirmations and I believe...I really do! Yesterday I even went to a Abraham Hicks meditation group before work...I do everything "by the book" but in the month that I have been working now the most I made in one night was 350 pounds, last week my average was only 100 pounds a night. Yesterday too...and I was really feeling amazing after the meditation...so...I am confused!
Maybe I am focusing too much? It seems so easy for everyone else that has been replying to the thread...what do you think I am doing wrong? Any advice will be very much appreciated!
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Sorry to hear that honey. Personally I think Law of attraction is great but it has to be used in conjunction with great sales technique so perhaps that is what you need to work on. Things like getting a guy to buy a string of dances, up selling etc...
Also even if your frickin buddha it's still difficult to make loads of money in a very empty club. Perhaps what you've been working on will help you maximise your sales when the club gets busy. Would be good to know more info- is the club busy? are the other girls making lots of money?
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I really liked the part of the LOA thread that said thinking positively, being confident, and believing in yourself and in your future wellbeing is like planting seeds, and you never know how long it will take those to germinate, start growing, and producing fruit. As long as you're not going empty handed, it seems to be working out great! I really like LOA because it's helped give me a little swagger, which can be all the difference in standing out (not just in stripper world, I mean anywhere). I should add that I mean polite swagger - I can't stand ego trippers.
Anyway - keep it up girl! The world can use more positivity, and so can your customers. That's how I've been getting customers to want to stay with me - they act so surprised that I'm nice and happy, like they are expecting the girls to be bored/irritable/distracted. But that's my personality, some girls are more sexy, some are more "partying," just be you and smile because you know you're at your best.
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Holly_V
Would be good to know more info- is the club busy? are the other girls making lots of money?
To be honest my club isn't very busy, it is open 7 hours but only has about 4 hours of business, it closes at 4AM and even if a guy wanted to pay for an hour at that time there is no way they will stay open even 10 min late...it's quite a small club, dances are STRICTLY airdances...and the other girls aren't making steady big money either...but it happens every now and then that someone gets "lucky".
I probably do need to work on my sales technique, I am not horrible at it but I am sure I could be better...I do feel I am doing the best I can though...I recently purchased the strip and grow rich programme but I don't think it is helping me much yet, I read a lot of motivational books etc...
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camille27
so if you write "increase income every week", your brain is going to think of ways you cn do that, and for the millionth time, that might be to go to the bookstore and pick up a book on sales. i don't know how many times i can say this.
Thank you...I will try this affirmation instead of focusing on exact amounts! Is there any book on sales in particular that you would recommend? I will get one as an ebook to read at work.
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Keep up with the work, and hustle hustle hustle! Get some new gorgeous outfits, learn new dance moves, and try to enjoy it as possible.
Things will eventually come your way, you just gotta keep with it, link up the positivity with all these other things that comes with the job!
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To be honest my club isn't very busy, it is open 7 hours but only has about 4 hours of business, it closes at 4AM and even if a guy wanted to pay for an hour at that time there is no way they will stay open even 10 min late...it's quite a small club, dances are STRICTLY airdances...and the other girls aren't making steady big money either...but it happens every now and then that someone gets "lucky".
switch clubs. There is no reason to stay at a club that is dead where someone MIGHT make money "every now and then" when they get lucky.
I don't know why girls will stay at a club that is dead when it is likely that there are other options in your city. If there aren't, travel. Part of this job is knowing when to call it quits at a club. We are not paid to be there (or if we are, it isn't enough to keep me there) and it seems stupid to stay and waste your time at a club that you openly acknowledge has little to no business and an average night has you leaving with 100 pounds for 7 hours of work.
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Thank you all, I dyed my hair to a nice blonde color yesterday and then went in to work thinking about all the reasons why I wanted to have a good night instead of focusing on making money..I had a great night, top-earner PLUS I actually had fun, all costumers were nice and really easy to sell to. Dont know if it had to do with my hair or with my mindset, but it doesnt really matter...!
About switching clubs, I only just moved here 1,5 months ago, I have had a look around and I ask around a lot about the other clubs but it honestly seems to be the same more or less everywhere here...the good thing about my club is that the housefee is low and you only have to pay if you make 5 or more dances, management is also really great and professional...there is one club close by that apparently gets busy but the housefee is much higher and you have to pay no matter what, so it could even out unless its not a GREAT night every night there, I might try there once I feel that I maximize my sales every night in my current club, if I cant be the best where I am at now I will probably have a hard time anywhere. I cant really travel to other cities because I have a 1 year old and I need to get back home quick so I can get a few hours rest before she wakes up.
I am going to take 6 days off now and I will pick up where I left it when I go back to work next time. Thanks again.
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luscious sadie
switch clubs. There is no reason to stay at a club that is dead where someone MIGHT make money "every now and then" when they get lucky.
I really agree with you but when I wrote get lucky I meant making abig amount of money like 800+ pounds, I didnt mean get lucky and make money in general...that would have been horrible! I think the girls normally make somewhere between 100-400 (on some shitty weekdays it could also be less), it is not THAT dead, it is possible to make some money most nights but it is not a place with a lot of BIG spenders...for the north of England where the cost of living isnt that high it is still OK money. In the UK at this moment this seems to be the norm...
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I now exactly what you mean carialis! Same situation re clubs too haha weird. Don't have much to add but I'm going to keep up with this thread.
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cortigiana
Did you seriously believe you'd make money by thinking happy thoughts /:O
Your mood def affects your earnings.
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cortigiana
Did you seriously believe you'd make money by thinking happy thoughts /:O
Fuckin troll!!
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You girls are such an inspiration to me!
I've learned so much lurking in these forums (sorry I don't post much, i'm more of an escort for 6 years than anything else and you ladies seem to know way more than I can contribute!)!!
ANyway, I need to find this book on audio. I've been searching for ages - that and 'how to get any man to do anything you want' by mr x. Also, the price by natalia and I need to finish think and grow rich!
If any of you know where to find these audio books, links are very appreciated!
I notice that I can go periods of time taking the steps that Genoveve recommended, as well as using affirmations - but unless I keep reading and refreshing myself on the subject, my old habits sneak up on me as if I've forgotten all the things I read.
Sorry to hijack your thread, although I hope this isn't considered that.
(see, i'm so nervous posting here among you intelligent ladies! :) )
Cyn
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camille27
handwriting goals just sinks into your brain and now your brain starts to find ways to achieve those goals. so if you write "increase income every week", your brain is going to think of ways you cn do that
great advice here girls but make sure you're not wasting your time on hoping, wishing or mind tricks. what camille suggest is better than nothing but theres much better methods
all the best