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Re: The VENT Thread, post about things that piss u off :)
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Originally Posted by
heavymetalgirl
That sucks, and I hate it when they want fetish in a group show. I have clearly stated that I only do fetish in exclusive, and it's like talking to a brick some days :(
What pissed me off today was some asshole stopped a show with me because he said my boobs were too small.....well he should have read my f*cking profile first, which clearly states that I'm petite with an A cup. I'm halfway to my goal for a BA, and it can't come soon enough! Major frustration today.
What an asshole sorry he did that to you. Hope it gets better for you and you make that goal quickly.
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Re: The VENT Thread, post about things that piss u off :)
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Originally Posted by
Sunnylexie
A spiteful fuck left me a 1-star rate for not doing his fetish in a group show, which brought my rating down to "good" instead of excellent. Exactly what I needed during an already slow contest time, to complement the plummeting fav count. Seriously, I lost over 400 subscribers in just a few months. Guess my time's come and I've got old and ugly all of a sudden.
Sorry you had that happen some guys are just so spiteful and mean i wish they couldnt rate unless they are in for over 5 mins atleast. Not really enough time to really rate a show under that anyhow, would cut down on the shitty men who rate out of spite.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Ugh I'm doing really bad this morning. fuck this shit
Why do these guys go on camsites if they ain't got no money? that is like going to the strip club and u ain't got no money?
Like what the fuck is this shit?
Excuse my venting but for fucking real. What the fuck is this?
All I am getting is timewasters trying to get free attention from me without doing fuckshit for me. Trying to fucking negotiate my prices down (which I rarely get anymore but still what the f???). "I don't have much time today" after I tell this loser that keeps coming in to go private. Ok so u got time to sit and stare in free over and over but u ain't got no time for private?? These fucking idiots think I seriously wanna see them or fuck them or even like dick at all. Camming has made me really fucking asexual and unless u paying me I really can't be fucked with you and your bullfuckingshit. Money is the only thing that makes me wet and like your dick. Fuck this shit
I definitely have a castration fetish I wanna try out in real life.
I really wish women would stop bending over backwards to please these losers for free in free chat whether it be streamate or chaturbate. They really fucking enable these dipshits and their worthless piece of shit behavior. Stop pleasing these losers and they ain't even paying you. It makes these losers think we are here for free.
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Re: The VENT Thread, post about things that piss u off :)
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Originally Posted by
Genoveve
If it makes you feel any better I can almost guarantee you that he was a troll who took you into that show just to insult you like that. If he was actually *that* particular about boobs he would have done more research about yours(like reading your profile) before he took you private.
As far as bad ratings, anytime I get guys who leave me a 1 after going pvt for like 40 seconds or who leave me a 1 after they were rude and I had to boot them I have those ratings removed. And it's funny because those are also the only guys who leave 1s, I don't think I've ever had a guy who stayed in a show for a few minutes engaging with me who left a 1, 1s are always done purely out of spite.
Thanks, Genoveve. I agree too, probably a troll. And today is equally as bad as yesterday. Ugh!
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Re: The VENT Thread, post about things that piss u off :)
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Originally Posted by
Chellyinparadise
What an asshole sorry he did that to you. Hope it gets better for you and you make that goal quickly.
Thanks so much, Chelly! I don't know what I'd do without all of you awesome ladies.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
SO FUCKING BAD TODAY! I HAVE DONE NOTHING! AM GOING OUT OF MY MIND!
why is it soooo quiet!?
xx
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Re: The VENT Thread, post about things that piss u off :)
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Originally Posted by
Genoveve
As far as bad ratings, anytime I get guys who leave me a 1 after going pvt for like 40 seconds or who leave me a 1 after they were rude and I had to boot them I have those ratings removed. And it's funny because those are also the only guys who leave 1s, I don't think I've ever had a guy who stayed in a show for a few minutes engaging with me who left a 1, 1s are always done purely out of spite.
Same here. It's ALWAYS the ones who think they're above asking questions or reading show descriptions. I wish one day they electrocute their dick while grooming their pubes because of not having read the manual for the trimmer.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
This day sucks total ass!! WTF
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Having the worst time too. WTF is going on it's May???!!
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
I've jumped site to site over the years, but always end up back on my home site of Cams.com/StreamRay because its where I end up making the most (despite the obnoxious cut) and I like the private based part.
I recently signed up to Streamate and have been split camming on both while my boyfriend is at work (2pm-11pm wed-fri and then in the am on weekends)
Idk why but today is dead as f? Cam is a little busier but on Streammate it seems that as I'm typing hi to the guests they leave. My whole screen is just line after line of
_fstupidusername_ has logged on
_fstupidusername_ has logged off
I'm going to try to pull through and stay on til 11 tonight when the boy gets home and then hop on to chaturbate for a short couples show. We are not a full time or even part time cam couple, we go on maybe 1-2x a month although we did broadcast regularly when we first started. I just get irritated by planning a show and having freeloaders not tip to goals because other couples are full on having sex in free chat...but i guess even if I make $5 giving head its $5 more than I had...
Good luck ladies<3
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
I just wanted to update I did end up logging in tonight/this evening and it was better and I ended up with (to me) a decent hourly average... It just goes to show sometimes "sticking it out" really doesn't help matters. Just quit and try again later is my motto.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
So, is this what camming has become? Logging on, staying your hours, bored outta your mind and just waiting...waiting for SOMEONE, ANYONE who actually has money to spend on a show?! I sit for hours...just hoping I can make enough to cover my bills. Dealing with assholes and beggars for free all day. Watching names pop in and out of my room for hours, no one speaking unless it's to beg for freebies. This isn't fun. This isn't enjoyable. I can't sit and look thrilled when it's this boring day in and day out. Is it time to move on? Is cam dead for the majority of us? Is there a special trick that I'm missing? Do I just need to switch up my hours? Find a new site? I need to figure something out because this is becoming intolerable.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
SoloDesire
So, is this what camming has become? Logging on, staying your hours, bored outta your mind and just waiting...waiting for SOMEONE, ANYONE who actually has money to spend on a show?! I sit for hours...just hoping I can make enough to cover my bills. Dealing with assholes and beggars for free all day. Watching names pop in and out of my room for hours, no one speaking unless it's to beg for freebies. This isn't fun. This isn't enjoyable. I can't sit and look thrilled when it's this boring day in and day out. Is it time to move on? Is cam dead for the majority of us? Is there a special trick that I'm missing? Do I just need to switch up my hours? Find a new site? I need to figure something out because this is becoming intolerable.
I have been thinking the exact same thing this week. You took the words right out of my mouth! I've tried mixing my hours up the best I can, but it doesn't seem to matter. I've tried changing my room around - again, doesn't help. I have a different job at home, and I'm relying on that salary completely right now. I hate that job so much...it's the worst job I've ever had in my life dealing with idiot doctors, but at least I know I'll make money when I log in for my scheduled hours. I can't rely on camming to pay my bills.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
I don't think it's us.. I think guys these days like gold shows and similar + token sites. They are either getting broker or cheaper. Or they like showing off how much they pay you.
Hoping we get through these times as I don't wanna do goldshows or token sites as my primary source of income anytime soon.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
My 2 cents; the token sites have ruined this business. 10 years ago, indie was the major money maker and guys wouldnt complain abt how much they would spend and you could decide if you would do a show without audio or with, with was a plus and you could charge like double. Nowadays, you offer, hd cam (in the past we didnt have that), audio ( you didnt have to), simple shows and guys would pay anything just to interact with a girl on cam. Now? Well, try to offer everything you can and even then guys will not pay or complain about your rates. Ridiculous!
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
SylvySinclair
My 2 cents; the token sites have ruined this business. 10 years ago, indie was the major money maker and guys wouldnt complain abt how much they would spend and you could decide if you would do a show without audio or with, with was a plus and you could charge like double. Nowadays, you offer, hd cam (in the past we didnt have that), audio ( you didnt have to), simple shows and guys would pay anything just to interact with a girl on cam. Now? Well, try to offer everything you can and even then guys will not pay or complain about your rates. Ridiculous!
I agree! in 05 I was offering the same rates as I do now and back then had no HD - had a mediocre webcam, no audio and much slower broadband! Now they want it all for nothing.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
I think stuff like gold shows/token sites have trained guys to be cheaper but honestly I don't think it affects the fetish market much. I splitcam a few private sites+ chaturbate and hardly anyone on chaturbate is a fetish guy and if they are it's usually a more common or mild fetish. No extreme bdsm guys on token sites far as I am aware of. So it doesn't explain why or if the submissive guys have gotten cheaper. I really haven't been in the biz long enough to know if sub men have gotten cheaper but just thought I'd offer what I know about token sites.
All my extreme humiliation clients are definitely Indy or private site guys.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
As for those i think the economics have a lot of to do with it. People are spending less and less on luxury, i know i do. I used to go to restaurants 4 times a week, nowadays i go only on weekends and try to cut some extras back. I think a lot of ppl are doing the same.
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Re: The VENT Thread, post about things that piss u off :)
These time wasters on these sugar daddy sites who are full of shit, and intentionally don't have a photo up because they plan to message you with "Text me at _____ for a photo." Nope! I am not about to give out any phone numbers right off the bat like that. Or they ask you to email them another pic. Nope. I have a perfectly good photo up on MY profile, unlike you. I am not playing this "Send me more photos, and text me" BS.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
maddiebabe
I don't think it's us.. I think guys these days like gold shows and similar + token sites. They are either getting broker or cheaper. Or they like showing off how much they pay you.
Hoping we get through these times as I don't wanna do goldshows or token sites as my primary source of income anytime soon.
Gold shows and token sites have ruined it for private based sites. There's too much free nudity and even cocksucking going on. And the guys are able to chip in a few measly bucks to get it going.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
Mare
Gold shows and token sites have ruined it for private based sites. There's too much free nudity and even cocksucking going on. And the guys are able to chip in a few measly bucks to get it going.
I totally agree.
Otherwise, if that's not the reason, someone please explain how I only have a handful of guys who sit in my chat on SM at any given time.
Yet I have over 1000 guys sitting in my room on CB ALL the time! Not spending of course.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
LetsGetHazey
I've jumped site to site over the years, but always end up back on my home site of Cams.com/StreamRay because its where I end up making the most (despite the obnoxious cut) and I like the private based part.
I recently signed up to Streamate and have been split camming on both while my boyfriend is at work (2pm-11pm wed-fri and then in the am on weekends)
Idk why but today is dead as f? Cam is a little busier but on Streammate it seems that as I'm typing hi to the guests they leave. My whole screen is just line after line of
_fstupidusername_ has logged on
_fstupidusername_ has logged off
I'm going to try to pull through and stay on til 11 tonight when the boy gets home and then hop on to chaturbate for a short couples show. We are not a full time or even part time cam couple, we go on maybe 1-2x a month although we did broadcast regularly when we first started. I just get irritated by planning a show and having freeloaders not tip to goals because other couples are full on having sex in free chat...but i guess even if I make $5 giving head its $5 more than I had...
Good luck ladies<3
I tried cams.com for one hour & the guys on there (IMO) assholes. Even the ones with money were expecting freebies.
That is what happens to me on SM too. They come in for less than a fucking SEC & leave. :(
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
SoloDesire
So, is this what camming has become? Logging on, staying your hours, bored outta your mind and just waiting...waiting for SOMEONE, ANYONE who actually has money to spend on a show?! I sit for hours...just hoping I can make enough to cover my bills. Dealing with assholes and beggars for free all day. Watching names pop in and out of my room for hours, no one speaking unless it's to beg for freebies. This isn't fun. This isn't enjoyable. I can't sit and look thrilled when it's this boring day in and day out. Is it time to move on? Is cam dead for the majority of us? Is there a special trick that I'm missing? Do I just need to switch up my hours? Find a new site? I need to figure something out because this is becoming intolerable.
So I posted on another adult directory site asking if camming was dead & all I got were other cam girls telling me I'm doing everything wrong, they are busy, camming is just changing, you can't just sit there anymore & expect guys to give you money, etc.
While some of the advice was ok, it didn't help me at all, like talking on CB & the guys don't say a word back unless they are trying to get sex talk for free & I'm talking EVEN the guys who have clearly spent tokens on other models.
These girls really made me feel like shit, like it's ALL me.
I even told them other girls are complaining, but they just ignored that part.
Oh & that if all I do is concentrate on the negative, that's what I'll get. I'm soooo sick of people who think they know how energy works when they don't b/c they just blindly follow "The Secret."
If I'm NOT making money day in & day out & guys are being assholes, for me personally I can't be positive. Maybe some of you can, but I can't. That's not who I am as a person.
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
maddiebabe
I don't think it's us.. I think guys these days like gold shows and similar + token sites. They are either getting broker or cheaper. Or they like showing off how much they pay you.
Hoping we get through these times as I don't wanna do goldshows or token sites as my primary source of income anytime soon.
It's not just that, I think the guys love hurting us. There's a few who don't & respect us, but the rest like knowing we are desperate to make money, or they think this isn't our only source of income or they are just morons (most are) & think they should get everything for free.
I've said this before & no one seems to agree with me, that the SITES ruined the industry by advertising that they can talk to the girls for FREEEEEEEEEEEEE. If a guy sees free, why would he expect to pay??? I certainly wouldn't, would you?
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Re: The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
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Originally Posted by
heavymetalgirl
I have been thinking the exact same thing this week. You took the words right out of my mouth! I've tried mixing my hours up the best I can, but it doesn't seem to matter. I've tried changing my room around - again, doesn't help. I have a different job at home, and I'm relying on that salary completely right now. I hate that job so much...it's the worst job I've ever had in my life dealing with idiot doctors, but at least I know I'll make money when I log in for my scheduled hours. I can't rely on camming to pay my bills.
You are lucky you have another job. I am ill from mold poisoning & so my brain doesn't work anymore. I make mistakes all the time, so I can't even do admin work online anymore <sigh>