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Bachelor parties
I'm not sure if this is the right room but I've been working for just under a year
A few guys have asked if I would do a bachelor party for them. Since I was giving them a dance and still working a tip I lead them on. Some guys want me to show up to a party while other guys asked if I would travel with them. I never went through with it but I think it could be a great way to make a lot of $. any and all info would be great
-$$$$$
how much should I charge and how should I structure the rates? by the hour? flat fee? flat fee + hourly?
-Extras
How do you handle extra services at the party? Should I be discreet? will the men want to sneak off with me or should I be straight up and give them all rates up front? will it bother the guys to know if I've already serviced 2 or 3 guys or should I not worry about that?
-Safety
obviously this is the biggest issue. How do I ensure safety?
do I hire security?
is there a way to spot safe or unsafe situations?
how do I make the extra services safe? I don't want guys watching or trying to join in. The thought of the guys turning in to an out of control mob is terrifying but I might just be overly worried
Anything else?
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Re: Bachelor parties
I think that you'll find answers to so many of your questions in the "Private Party" section.
(Just from what I've read, many dancers have posted that they always hire security.)
Good luck!
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thanks but this is the only thread i found
not really much info :-(
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Re: Bachelor parties
ALWAYS hire a bouncer. You won't need him in most cases but the few you will you will appreciate having him. As for extras I never did those and would never.
Basically for me I would strip (sometimes with a costume they requested)then do things like various games, private dances. It varied on what the guys wanted because some just wanted a strip and no games, but others wanted things like whipped cream shots (sprayed whipped cream on my nipples), lingerie show (I would change into an outfit someone got to take off), private dances (often after the show)or photography (rarely did this one and would never do it now). I also did feed the kitty but I picked up the money with my thighs (you need strong muscles to do this without your crotch touching). They were never allowed to touch me.
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Re: Bachelor parties
A lot of girls work through agencies, that way they handle booking the parties, advertising you, and providing security and a driver. On he other hand, they take a cut of whatever you make. If you decide to do it yourself, and especially if you're planning to offer any kinds of extra's, you will HAVE to have a bouncer with you. It might be unlikely that the guys will turn into a mob, but you never know. It only takes once.
I'm going to move this thread to the Private Parties forum so that hopefully you'll get more responses... most people in the Newbie forum are just starting dancing and have no experience with parties. Also, there's a thread in the Other Work forum that talks a bit about about parties and escorting:
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...ests-escorting
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I've been doing parties for a few years now, with a few different agencies. I don't know where you live, but here in the NJ/NY area, it's common for agencies to charge around $200-250 per girl for one hour, and each girl gets $150 of that. Make sure the guy throwing the party understands that this is just the base rate to get you to show up-tips are absolutely necessary for you to give a good show! I and the other girl usually bring a few hundred singles with us and right before the show, ask the guys if they want to buy singles. This definitely encourages tipping.
As far as extras-some girls do them at parties, some don't. I would DEFINITELY be discreet if you are, and charge whatever you think you are worth. If extras are what the guys are going to the party for, I doubt they will care if you've serviced other guys before them.
And absolutely you need a bouncer, since is this your first party and especially if you think it will be an extras-type party. Do you know of any guys who would be willing to do a side gig? The bouncers at one agency I work for get paid $50/party, I can't imagine you don't know ANY guy who you trust, who couldn't use an extra $50. I usually tip them 10-20 as well, if they are on top of things. Safety is 100% more important than money.
If you really want to start doing parties (and not just this one gig), I would really recommend at least starting with an agency. They will do all the legwork for you and help you get started, as well as provide security (and the gigs, of course!). Good luck!
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great info sugar
I don't want to get involved with any agencies. I'm just thinking about earning some great $ if a good opportunity comes up. The last thing I want is to show up to a party in the middle of nowhere full of arabs or whoever (bouncer or not). I was thinking I will only go as entertainment and not an escort. if the right guy and the right price comes up I'll take it. I want to cherry pick great opportunities and great $ and having an agency sounds a bit like having a pimp (not that i would know lol)
I was thinking about trading service for security. I'm not sure how to approach anyone on the subject (they always approach me) but it would be great if I could find a guy who did a good job and didnt cost $. Anyone worked anything out before?
Also i was thinking about what to do if they would like an extra girl. if i can get these guys to pay say $150 and i can get one of our lesser earners to do it for $100 then thats money for the bouncer or some extra $ for me.
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Well, if you're really not looking to do parties steadily, than I suppose you don't need an agency. But keep in mind, TONS of guys will want to book parties with you and then bail at the last minute. An agency that takes a deposit really cuts down on the timewasters. But I suppose you could always take your own deposit.
Trading favors for security doesn't sound like the best route..what if the guy decides you weren't "good enough" at your services or whatever? Really, even $25 is worth it for your safety.
Most parties request 2 girls. So yes, you can charge $150 per girl, keep your $150, give her $100 and use the other $50 towards security/tolls etc.
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lol "good enough". It's usually the highlight of the guys life but regardless I wouldn't be offering service up front, that would just be crazy. Theres something really hot about having a guy there to protect me just to get some of my attention. omg I'm so bad
What kind of games are you guys organizing? sounds like a great way to get tips and also keep the show interesting
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I would recommend getting some way to take credit cards and taking a deposit..