Customer fetish requests?
Last time I was at the club this really cute dancer (white) who was hard core flirting with a table of black guys, and it was sexy as all get out. I suppose you could say I have a interracial cuckold fetish and wanted to get a private dance and ask her to tease me about black guys having bigger dicks, being better sexually, etc. But didn't know if that was cool to ask or not, so I passed and have regretted it ever since!!
So, my question is... Would that have been out of line to ask? And in general, is it cool/not cool to make fetish requests in a private dance?
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pjay
Last time I was at the club this really cute dancer (white) who was hard core flirting with a table of black guys, and it was sexy as all get out. I suppose you could say I have a interracial cuckold fetish and wanted to get a private dance and ask her to tease me about black guys having bigger dicks, being better sexually, etc. But didn't know if that was cool to ask or not, so I passed and have regretted it ever since!!
So, my question is... Would that have been out of line to ask? And in general, is it cool/not cool to make fetish requests in a private dance?
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Talk to your dancer about it before you get back there - just in case she's uncomfortable or something. Don't blindside the poor thing with your fetish request! That said - even when I HAVE been blindsided, I have never had a problem with fulfilling a reasonable fetish request. Yours sounds simple and easy to work with. I'm sure if you chatted with a dancer at the club about it - she'd be more than happy to oblige, or help you find a girl who will.
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Originally Posted by
pjay
Last time I was at the club this really cute dancer (white) who was hard core flirting with a table of black guys, and it was sexy as all get out. I suppose you could say I have a interracial cuckold fetish and wanted to get a private dance and ask her to tease me about black guys having bigger dicks, being better sexually, etc. But didn't know if that was cool to ask or not, so I passed and have regretted it ever since!!
So, my question is... Would that have been out of line to ask? And in general, is it cool/not cool to make fetish requests in a private dance?
Yeah just don't blindside her with the request. Maybe bring it up before the private dance, and try not to be creepy about it. LOL. The thing that I've found with women and fetishes is that guys are just way more "pervy" than girls. Our minds can come up with scenarios that turn us on that most girls would never think of in a million years. Sometimes even the most sexually open girls will be taken aback by the fantasies of the average guy. So yeah, just see if she's into indulging your fetish while you guys are chatting first.
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Thanks for the replies. Yeah I wouldn't have blindsided her, I just really didn't know if it was 'normal' to make fetish requests like that. I didn't want to be disrespectful or anything, but if it's not not showing a lack of ettiquette, I will hope to see her again one day soon :)
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Be careful how you phrase your question. If you make it sound like a requirement for you buying a dance, well of course they'll be into it before you've bought the dance. Once back there it is another story.
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like the guys who are into latex or they themselves use toys they shouldnt be using and they tell me about it.. thats extra $$$!
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You could simply start with " Do you ever cater to fetishes in your dances ? " . Then she could say no if she doesn't or ( if she's like me ) , charge you more a little more for the request. It just depends. You'll be much better off buying a normal dance and just letting her do her thing for one and then maybe asking. Dancers don't like " will you do this or this or this or this " types of conversations with people who haven't purchased anything. So ... tip her a decent stage tip or buy a dance first for sure.
Re: Customer fetish requests?
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Originally Posted by
pjay
Last time I was at the club this really cute dancer (white) who was hard core flirting with a table of black guys, and it was sexy as all get out. I suppose you could say I have a interracial cuckold fetish and wanted to get a private dance and ask her to tease me about black guys having bigger dicks, being better sexually, etc. But didn't know if that was cool to ask or not, so I passed and have regretted it ever since!!
So, my question is... Would that have been out of line to ask? And in general, is it cool/not cool to make fetish requests in a private dance?
I'm a fetishist and the club I work at knows this, along with most of the girls. Usually they will let me know if there's a customer with a fetish request. The way my regulars found me was by politely asking girls if there was a dancer who knew anything about kink or fetishes. The girl would then either tell me or give him my stage name (I'm okay with this.) I explain to the customer that I only do non sexual fetishes - examples- humiliation, degradation, shoe fetishes, light beating. I will only do this if they are willing to pay me for a VIP area (champagne room, half hour, hour area etc.) Or if they tip me a little extra for single dances.
Now as far as asking, get a feel for the girl and ask if she or anyone there is interested, or surprisingly, ask the bouncers if they have anyone who is into non sexual fetishes. Chances are, if you do it nicely and not in a creepy way, they will ask around for a girl who is interested.