Ladies: Giving out your number?
Another question I had about how normal or regular this is. Last night I went to our local place with a couple friends and one of the dancers came up to me at one point, recognizing me as someone who had bought a couple dances with her last Friday as well. We talked a little while and I got a couple more dances with her and then later on toward the end of the night, I got a half hour in the VIP with her. All great fun.
When we were in the VIP we were chatting a bit and she asked "so now is this going to be your regular Friday routine now?" So I said something like "you're making me strongly consider it" and she mentioned that she always works Fridays there and usually Saturdays too unless something comes up. I said I'd definitely have to come see her again and then she said "Before you leave, let me give you my number and you can text me anytime to see if I'm working that day."
Do any of you ladies do that? I'm assuming she's doing it to try and keep a regular thing going, I was just surprised she'd suggest that. Of course, who knows whose number it actually is, haha. :D
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jordancage
When we were in the VIP we were chatting a bit and she asked "so now is this going to be your regular Friday routine now?" So I said something like "you're making me strongly consider it" and she mentioned that she always works Fridays there and usually Saturdays too unless something comes up. I said I'd definitely have to come see her again and then she said "Before you leave, let me give you my number and you can text me anytime to see if I'm working that day."
Yes it's her number, but it's a "work" number. As in a disposable cell phone. And yes, based on the above conversation she's trying to keep you coming to see her. Why are you surprised? You're spending money, she wants that money. Pretty simple.
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What other reason would she give you her number?
Of course dancers date guys they meet in strip clubs, but I think she was leaning towards you checking in with her to make sure she was around to collect from you every Friday night.
Nothing wrong with that.
It's very rare that I give out my number but if I do it's because I'm doing business.
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No I would give out my number to all the hot men I met and wanted to date. After all isn't that why strippers work? seriously though I had a work number I gave to customers, usually to let them know when I was working.
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JayATee
Yes it's her number, but it's a "work" number. As in a disposable cell phone. And yes, based on the above conversation she's trying to keep you coming to see her. Why are you surprised? You're spending money, she wants that money. Pretty simple.
They're either a prepaid number, a skype number, google voice number...
Some dancers may write down the name of the club.
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Jordan, the sun rises in the east and sets in the west; the tides run on a predictable schedule; water is wet; and some dancers give out cell numbers to guys who have already spent some money on them.
It is completely normal and doesn't mean anything. And if you start receiving texts like these...
"I miss you."
"I really miss you."
"I want to see your face."
"When are you going to visit me again?"
...or any number of other variants of these, you can be sure that at least another dozen guys received the same generic texts. And the skilled dancers will try to personalize them in some way that makes you feel special. It is all part of getting you back in the club with your wallet in hand.
Now some of the girls here have talked about having special work numbers, but plenty of dancers are not as sophisticated and give out the numbers to their real life cell phones. Either way, you are getting the number for one reason: so that you will come back in and spend more.
In any event, good luck.
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i dont understand this post. isnt it obvious why she gave you her number?
she asked you if youre going to be a regular, you say yes and she gave you her number....
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jordancage
When we were in the VIP we were chatting a bit and she asked "so now is this going to be your regular Friday routine now?" So I said something like "you're making me strongly consider it" and she mentioned that she always works Fridays there and usually Saturdays too unless something comes up. I said I'd definitely have to come see her again and then she said "Before you leave, let me give you my number and you can text me anytime to see if I'm working that day."
Do any of you ladies do that? I'm assuming she's doing it to try and keep a regular thing going, I was just surprised she'd suggest that. Of course, who knows whose number it actually is, haha. :D
It is not rocket since!!!... there is nothing hiden in the message:) she like to have you as a regular, that si what she said nothing more nothing less. Have fun next time you go and see her
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I haven't met a dancer in the last two years who HASN'T given me her number to try and get me back in the club to spend more $$$ on her.
Consider it a marketing tool.
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lopaw
I haven't met a dancer in the last two years who HASN'T given me her number to try and get me back in the club to spend more $$$ on her.
Consider it a marketing tool.
I wish normal girls would offer me their number just as easy :)
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I had two dancers give me their phone numbers.
The first girl, I was too intimidated to call her. I didn't know what to say to her. Later, she told me, "You should say hi and ask me how my day is, etc." It can't be that easy. I never called her.
The second girl, I was too intimidated to call her. She called and texted me multiple times. She was serious about meeting me away from the club. It was the best day of my life.
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So did you meet up with her?
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Wayne Root
I had two dancers give me their phone numbers.
The first girl, I was too intimidated to call her. I didn't know what to say to her. Later, she told me, "You should say hi and ask me how my day is, etc." It can't be that easy. I never called her.
The second girl, I was too intimidated to call her. She called and texted me multiple times. She was serious about meeting me away from the club. It was the best day of my life.
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I personally would never give my number out. I have a set schedule, they know where to find me. :)