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If you frame it as an Audi for "this summer" you're selling yourself short.
How long have you known him? Are you sure it's his dealership? He can probably hook you up with a demo if it is, especially for a short term situation.
But like I said, I would be asking for a car forever, not just the summer.
Sounds like a waste of time to me- he has said Audi IF you are my GF, and for summer only? Why not lease the car you want- then it's tax deductible.
I think she is saying she wants one BY summer. Maybe you could work the angle that if you had one, you could come see him all the time etc
Ok BY summer, I picked up FOR summer earlier in the thread and ran with that. OP is that what you meant??
Non-chalantly keep reminding him that you need an Audi by June.
ask him. he had no problem asking you to be his girlfriend..
sorry to be blunt... but this sounds stupid.
Getting a customer to buy your car makes good business sense and I've done it and I stand behind that.
To the OP: If you think you can get it from him then you probably can. From what you're saying he wants a relationship so in my experience the best way to deal with a guy like this is to be his girlfriend, but be very busy so you only have time once a week to see him. And maybe just for lunch, so you don't miss work. And explain that you have a 90 day rule not to have sex with him because you got hurt too many times :-)
Just turn up the charm for a couple weeks and try to make him feel special with texts and calls, even if you want to barf.
Get him talking about his work and how many cars he has, and likely he'll say he has XX many hundred cars or whatever, then remember that number. Ask how many cars they can sell in a year and remember that too.
After a couple weeks, just break it down for him that you need a car and you cant live anymore without a car and life sucks carrying groceries and a cab driver molested you etc. Just lay it on thick so he gets it that you need a car and the issue isn't going away. Then, remind him of how many cars he sells in a year and how many cars he has on the lot, and say "How can I look myself in the mirror when I still take the bus, when my boyfriend has XX hundreds of cars at his own dealership?"
If he won't give you a car at that point then you're not getting one later, so forget it.
If he starts talking about a lease or a loaner that is an excellent start. I wouldn't demand a clear title to the car right away, but get him used to covering your expense first.
[QUOTE=LuvlyDancer;2334773]Getting a customer to buy your car makes good business sense and I've done it and I stand behind that.
. And explain that you have a 90 day rule not to have sex with him because you got hurt too many times :-)
Smart!
Just turn up the charm for a couple weeks and try to make him feel special with texts and calls, even if you want to barf.
life sucks carrying groceries
and a cab driver molested you etc.
"How can I look myself in the mirror when I still take the bus,
If he starts talking about a lease or a loaner that is an excellent start. I wouldn't demand a clear title to the car right away, but get him used to covering your expense first.[
If he won't give you a car at that point then you're not getting one later, so forget it.
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I nearly died of laughter with everything I bolded. Lol seriously this killed me!
I think this guy is probably full of shit but it doesn't hurt to try. I try to google his name and see if anything racy pops up. Backround check perhaps? This guy could be a control freak but if not hell get your Audi! Still a loaner or lease fuck him. He should pay for the car outright if he has money like that. I just wouldn't want to be tied to some guy for 36 months that I don't even like. Even if it's in your name if he doesn't get what he wants he could still try and make you pay for it. I would just becareful on how things go but the advice so far sounds spot on to me.
I nearly spit my drink out at "How can I look myself in the mirror when I still take the bus?" Hilarious.
Cab driver molested you OMG that made me lol for real. I was in ocean city, Maryland by myself and wanted to go out drinking and meet some cute guys so of course I call a cab. Weirdest cab driver ever! After some small talk (where you from, etc) he asks me to fool around or something weird like that! I was stunned at the next street I was like OK I'm good here I gotta go. I was so fkn scared!
AS IN, don't count on it/ stress yourself over a car that you probably can't afford in the first place plus with upkeep (Audi owner), none the less trying to get it from a customer. If you can , cheers, if not... Get a car anyways on your own not having to depend on a customer.
[QUOTE=Lady Xplicit18;2334991]AS IN, don't count on it/ stress yourself over a car that you probably can't afford in the first place plus with upkeep (Audi owner), none the less trying to get it from a customer. If you can , cheers, if not... Get a car anyways on your own not having to depend on a customer.[/QUOTE]
THIS.
Shes a stripper! If she gets a car herself she still depends on customers to pay for it. This is about using your assets in the most efficient way.
Why is it more honorable to pay for a car after she strips for the cash, if she can get the same money from the same guy -just for going out for lunch?
Women have been leading men on to get rich quick since the beginning of time. The system is older than dirt. Don't be a player hater.
I've hustled well over $400,000 from different guys, why? Because it's easier than going into the club to get the money. Work smart not hard.
Nobody is going to build you a statue in the parking lot of the club just because you work "hard".
I think the point is she doesn't want to be his yet this seems to be the direction that he is pushing it, if you find it easier to hustle OTC I would appreciate a comprehensive guide on how it's done....
As far as honourable goes.... honourable schmonorable! I believe that she would be able to achieve her goal ITC with less fuss than trying to work this guy OTC (and by the wayside I make money OTC so obviously I don't have a moral weigh in on OTC activity- I just prefer the path of least resistance to money and I don't see an angle here).
you dont have to be his gf ive had guys like that you tell him ill be with you but tell him you love your independence and want to live on your own..tell him i would love a audi and i would treat
you like a king make him believe its real when its not its all a game
^^ Your signature is really big. I find that distracting. Also I think you should invest in a photographer instead of doing the self-shot iphone thing.
Why are you advertising your prostitution services to dancers on here?
its calld a signature it goes on all the things i write and i love my signature it seems to be working just fine and if you didnt notice i didnt say anything n my post of coming to see me..
Just my 2 pennies I think when he said "if you'll be my gf" that's when he laid his cards on the table.
He wants on ongoing sexual relationship, then you get the car. He probably won't accept less.
But give it a try if you want. I liked the whole carrying groceries/molested bt a cab driver bit. If anything works that could do it.
Where is the OP? We need updates!
^^^Are you asking me if I am advertising myself as a prostitute? or VanessaLondon?
Look, there is nothing wrong with giving it a try, why not! but I think he is saying he wants sex for the car (and someone else made good points earlier about him making her pay it off down the line/not having the title in her name etc). Too hard.
IMHO you're definitely better off with a loaner or a lease car than actually being given ownership / title. With the first two options, the gov't can't consider the value of the car as additional 'taxable income' - where in the latter case it certainly could.