Never trust a car dealer/salesman. He is probably hustling you. Once he's dipped his wick - it's game over }:D
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Never trust a car dealer/salesman. He is probably hustling you. Once he's dipped his wick - it's game over }:D
I can't speak for her but I'm 90% sure she was speaking to vanessalondon
^Good
So how did it go ?! Did you get your wheels ? ;)
Yes ... everything that was already said. A car lease for an Audi is only $400-$500 a month ....just keep in mind that weekly outings might not be worth that amount to you unless the dude really doesn't annoy you or you actually enjoy him or something. Lets say each outing takes 3 hours ... that's 12 hours a month .... only $33.33 an hour if your lease costs $400.
Just keep in mind that 33 an hour might INITALLY feel ok to you .... but it probably won't over the long term and especially if he wants "affection".
Im too practical :D As much as Id love an expensive car, the maintenance on those things are expensive as well. I drive a hokey kia suv, and the wheels alone on that thing are mind boggling. A friend of mine owns a 80k bmw, she blew a flat and the replacement wheel was about $500. There was some malfunction with the convertible top, and that was close to $1k to fix.... Someone accidentally broke the cupholder in her car, and it was $200 to replace, she decided to screw it, that cupholder would just have to stay broken. Its been 2 years, and shes probably put the equivalent of the cost of a car, into taking car of this one. Shes now so fed up, shes getting ready to sell it and get something more practical.
I have an expensive car on my wishlist, but Im second thinking it myself here....would be a nice ride, but I know I would not be able to afford it, nor would I want to put my money into a car...my kia is challenging enough as it is. I need to replace all my tires due to wear and tear and jeeez, the pricetag is killing.
Anyway, yeah, I think if the guy can be so bold as to tell you what he wants, you shoudl be bold and tell him what you want to. If all you want out of him is a car, then better to know that its not going to happen and not bother yourself with trying to deal with him, than spend a bunch of time and effort into him, only to find out you dont get the car anyway.
Thats kind of how Im looking at my boob job situation. Im saving up to buy my own, but if yet another guy comes along saying hed love to buy them for me, he better pay up or gtfo, cause I cant stand empty promises and Im not down with the dangling carrot thing.
^ Same ! I'm totally a cheap car fan just because I feel like luxury cars are just too damn much for me to handle ( though I love to ride in them if others own / maintain them ). I drive an economical car and tires / repairs are sooo easy to deal with!
If she wants a LUX car though and has the chance, she should go for it !
Wow when Carmen does the math on it.... taking the time to hustle the "free" car does not seem worth it, depending on what you make itc. Many girls make $50-$100 per hour or more. But if you usually make $30 or less per hour you might feel differently.
Plus ....the fact that this guy owns a car dealership makes me think he's slicker than 20 strippers put together. He's probably used the "free car" stunt on strippers before to get what *he* wants.
Well I think the OP is long gone :'( We may never know if she got her car.
But this has been an interesting thread. I know my experience with cars and money has been partly luck. I was just lucky to cross paths with the kind of men who have been in the position to spend five and six figures on me.
At the same time, I'm convinced I brought something to the table in terms of negotiation and strategy that helped me to get what I want. If I have time it might be worth discussing in another thread. I don't know if I can provide a detailed manual but I can give a rough outline of the steps to take.
The thing with sugar-dddies is that even when you aren't dancing, they are still a good stream of income. I had to stop dancing 3 years ago for health reasons. If I hadn't had the help of wealthy men I never could have opened my law practice when I graduated. Hell, I wouldnt have had a car to drive to court in anyway!
And I didn't get what I have by taking a defeatist attitude like some of the posters in this thread. If I went into this saying "nobody's going to buy me a mercedes" or "nobody would give me 100K just for asking", then right now my life would be pretty shitty. I literally started out from "0" and in a relatively short period of time (8 years) I have bought a condo and started my own business.
Lots of years ago I went to a Dancerwealth seminar -- back when Adam was still running the program. It was the most valuable afternoon of the entire decade of my 20's. The best thing he said was 'small commitments lead to big commitments', a tried and true sales technique. I have lived by this motto when I am dealing with sugar-daddies. Start them off with a small commitment and there's no telling where it will go.
Sure some men will laugh and say no. It's happened to me. And then I moved on to the next one who was richer and more generous and got what I wanted. Some wells can be tapped and some can't, it's never personal and moving right along is what earns money.
Back when I was dancing, even when the club was slow and the other girls were bitching I was making money. Of course there were some slow times for me too, but for the most part if there were customers in the club I was earning. But I never NEVER forgot the big picture, and I was constantly focused on finding that big fish. Directing the conversation to what his job is, and understanding a little bit about business to know if it's worth working on. Anyone I met who could potentially have a net worth over a million dollars, they were more than a customer to me. In the long run it paid off.
Suppose you're 56 and a rich guy, you earn $800k a year, so $33,000 monthly after taxes (don't forget - no mortgage to pay). Your wife is fat and bitchy but you can't get divorced or else you have to give her half your wealth. You can easily give some girl $1000/ week without anyone noticing or caring. You may not even want to fuck her, you just want someone in your life to pay attention to you. You can be that girl. It happens. Happened to me. Several times.
Luvly,
If you want to start your own thread with some tips I think we would all appreciate it immensely!!
I just got rid of a loser bf & I've got to start spending my free time more productively....
[QUOTE=LuvlyDancer;2337379]Well I think the OP is long gone .....................
Suppose you're 56 and a rich guy, you earn $800k a year, so $33,000 monthly after taxes (don't forget - no mortgage to pay). Your wife is fat and bitchy but you can't get divorced or else you have to give her half your wealth. You can easily give some girl $1000/ week without anyone noticing or caring. You may not even want to fuck her, you just want someone in your life to pay attention to you. You can be that girl. It happens. Happened to me. Several times.[/QUOTE]
This was a regular of mine too a tee. He started to become very unreliable and then shortly after that he divorced said wife (whom he had no sex with in 11yrs!!!!). My mind boggles staying with someone who you have a very poor relationship with for the sake of money, I KNOW it happens every day- I am a realist, but seriously?
If you start a guide/even a bit of a bio of your experience (it sounds like you are a all chips in type of girl and that would make for good reading) PLEASE message me, would love to learn. Especially as I have a new regular who has just started OTC (but I don't think his income is like Mr Black Amex above).
nevermind
I'm late to this thread, but I'd like to know how things ended up for the OP. I thought hustling a customer who wants a [sexual] relationship was nearly impossible, but LuvlyDancer gave great advice. (LuvlyDancer - I sent you a private message with some questions btw!). A customer at a new club I've started dancing at has fallen head over heels in love with me and although I haven't known him very long, he told me today that he just made an offer for a red Camaro convertible for me. :) I didn't ask for it, and that's not the car I would've initially wanted, but I have no car right now and I'd more than gladly accept the gift. I hope he follows through and doesn't use this as something to dangle in front of my face to try to get sex, 'cause that ain't gonna happen! But the Camaro sure would be nice.
Try this,
Tell him your giving him a free lap dance and isolate him.
Get him really horny by grabbing his thing. Stroke it.
Tell him he can touch you.
And tell him if he is generos he can get more later.
And just flat out tell him you need a car.
That's how I got my ford focus.
:)
Hope that helps. :)
This bubbles is quite the character. A view at her other posts will show how different this poster is.
This is the best answer.
I've seen guys loan cars to girls, short term.
I've heard of cars being given as gifts but it either required full sex OR the car was old-ish anyways & the guy was passing on a bunch of expensive repairs along with the auto (in this situation the girl is doing a favor by taking a clunker off the guy's hands rather than let him store & dump $ into a depreciating asset.)
Most comic point- pricey autos as gifts (Audis, Beemers, imports) bite back with pricey ongoing repairs and needs. That high end gasoline, those expensive parts.
My advice- have Daddy buy your groceries & dinners out so you can always make your car payment on time.
Yea, like to see Luvly Dancer come bk, but doesn't look like it :(