Originally Posted by
loveshooks
This thread took a bit of a tense turn, but I'm gonna jump in anyway for a sec...
OP, you must have the patience of Job, cuz I could never spend 20 mins trying to haggle with and convince a guy to book a show my way. Seriously, I'd spend so much time talking to losers that I'd never get anything productive finished. I look at it like the guys who message me wanting to get 'creative' ::) with payment are the equivalent of 'ass bb/what's the biggest cock u'v had/show pussy then private' losers on free chat sites, only messenger losers will steal a hell of alot more of your time, if you let them.
This is simply my perspective (we all do things differently and that's cool), but spending time trying to haggle and convince these guys to book a show is totally counter-productive. More than anything, these guys want our attention, even off cam, and in engaging with them they're getting what they want, for free.
This job really isn't that complicated, and the guys who want to make it so have an agenda. Yeah, that Davide guy is a scammer, in that I have no doubt he does NOT pay any chica naive enough to fall for that ish, but he's also bored and lonely. Based solely on the sheer number of chicas he's contacted (myself included) this is clearly his hobby, and the chicas who are actually willing to argue with him are indulging that hobby for free.
It's really simple...you book a show using LEGIT payment options, you get a show. End of discussion. No paypal, no previews, and no detailed discussion of fetish or fantasy before the booking is finalized. Honestly, even allowing yourself to get angry or frustrated is giving these guys what they want. Again, this is only my perspective, but I find silence really does speak volumes. I ignore guys who clearly want to run game; my attention is something a guy earns by booking a show and not being an asshole.
These losers want our time and attention for free. Hell no.