How long do you wait to go up to a customer after he rejects a previous dancer? One song? Or go to him right away?
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How long do you wait to go up to a customer after he rejects a previous dancer? One song? Or go to him right away?
You look at his body language.
Is he looking at his phone a lot? Does he look bored? Maybe even look at who he is focusing on, maybe he is looking at blondes etc
I find it helps to purposely walk past someone and see if they're looking my way.
I go up to him right away. A lot of times the girl just wasn't his type. He may be waiting for a blonde/latina/bustier girl. You never know a customer's type. Also, the girl might have had a different approach. Some girls are too aggressive of hustlers, or just ask "wanna dance" which will turn some guy's off who want a more personal experience. There's been times I avoided guys because they rejected girls and seemed stand offish, only to have them come to me later saying they rejected the other girl because they'd been watching me. Besides that some guys just need a bit of buttering up for them to get a dance, and the girl before them might just be an awful hustler. :)
^^^Agreed. I'm sure this may vary from club to club, but I go right up to him, say hi, give it my best shot. A lot of times they said no because the previous girl was just not their cup o tea somehow and they'll get a dance from me.
Hmmm, I do not like customers that turn away other dancers, especially if the one they turned away was very good looking and the one they get to dance for them is not.
Right away. This is one of the little games i play to make my night more interesting. At my club, a dancer (hot or not) will wanna dace a customer. He rejects, I move in with my softer, but not time consuming approach. The "yes" is considered a win for me:-) Ahh, boredom......
So last night was my first night at a new club and from being out of the clubs for 2 years. I feel like a baby stripper all over again lol . For some guys, they weren't worth going up to; after I find out that they were just there to babysit their drinks. Another guy, that I actually got a dance from, I waited. I watched him, from afar. Didn't know if he rejected the previous girls or if they were just making small talk with him. I assumed he was a regular. When he was finally alone and settled in, I went up to talk to him. I had to hard hustle him, which I don't like to do, but he seemed like he wanted it. We went to VIP though.