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Thinking of quitting
I might just be burnt out but lately camming is just getting me more and more down. MFC and it's ever increasing freeloaders, guys wanting a therapist and for you to spend 100% of your time with them it gets so exhausting mentally. I haven't been on SM much but am thinking of going over there and seeing if my mood improved. From what I remember it's a lot less of the mental stimulation shit, but a lot more of the physical lol. It's just so exhausting, the abuse seems to be getting worse too.
It's either that or have a break. Maybe go back and dance for awhile. The thought of getting a 'vanilla' job is scary after being out of the work force so long and thinking I wouldn't be able to get one with my history in the adult industry. Guess it's the choice we make in doing this job!
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Re: Thinking of quitting
A vanilla job made me appreciate camming. I took a break back in February and went back to working in an office and I lasted all of 6 weeks. I can't take people's crap anymore. If you can dance then do that and cam part time or vice versa. That way you won't get burnt out. No matter what job you do (stripping, camming, vanilla,) , you're always catering to someone and something or someone is going to get on your nerves. So weigh the pros and cons to see which one gives you the least amount of stress and the most gratification. Then go with it.
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Re: Thinking of quitting
Having a background in adult shouldn't prevent you from getting a vanilla job unless you're trying to work as a teacher or something or if you don't have a sufficient excuse for why your work history has such a large gap in it.
I often think about getting a part time job just to get me out of the house a few hours a week. My mental health starts to take a nosedive after being cooped up in the house and only talking to my computer screen for days/weeks at a time.
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Re: Thinking of quitting
Oh yeah I know that feeling! I'm becoming more and more of a hermit, a part time job just to get out would probably help. Not sure how i'm going to explain the gap in my work history yet, definitely not looking to be a teacher or anything like that so hopefully it won't impact me too much!
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cant u say to fill the gap that u were a private personal trainer or a freelance translator or consultant etc
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Re: Thinking of quitting
loli never wanna work a vanilla job again..
BUT I AM considering working part time at a sex store..cos...DEALS...and IDEAS..and relevant..lol
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Re: Thinking of quitting
I used to say that I never wanted to either lol. I think it's some kind of burn out, i'll probably appreciate it more after going to a vanilla job.