Lap dancing. How far is to far and how do you know when you get there?
i have never been to a strip club, had or done a lap dance. but i am very curious about stripping so lap dancing is some thing i definitely need to learn. i am just wondering what is and isnt ok and what is to far. i dont wanna do something and look stupid or get taken advantage of because i dont know what is and isnt ok. i know they cant touch you. but what all can you do to them? or on them lol
Re: Lap dancing. How far is to far and how do you know when you get there?
Well, where are you located? It varies.
Re: Lap dancing. How far is to far and how do you know when you get there?
Texas, ill prolly be working in the dallas area
Re: Lap dancing. How far is to far and how do you know when you get there?
The manager will probably tell you what is and isn't allowed, and also try to watch the other girls and see what seems to be the norm.
Re: Lap dancing. How far is to far and how do you know when you get there?
google your state laws, you can't be too careful, especially in the south where they seem to periodically go arrest strippers/shut down clubs for not following laws to a t. There might be some wierd rule or something that you have to be 3 feet away at all times, I think that might be missisippi, not too sure, but I know from following this board for 2 years that every state has different laws and you need to check them out lest you get a fine/arrested for breaking some dumb rule you didn't know about.
Re: Lap dancing. How far is to far and how do you know when you get there?
The club will go through their rules with you when they hire you. But, visiting the club you are interested in as a patron would be a good way of gauging what kind of club it is and whether or not you really want to work there/in this industry (seeing it first hand before you through yourself in the deep end). Or, if you check out a few of the clubs in your area, maybe even get a dance, you will soon see what is appropriate or expected i.e. whether the club allows touching or not and to what degree etc. If you are worried about how to move/dance for a customer then again, going to a club and watching the girls will give you an idea, and youtube may also be a good resource for "how to lap dance" kind of videos. Also, a lot of pole studios these days do "lap dance" classes.