Law of attraction and camgirls
I just read a thread in the stripping section about the law of attraction in correlation to the stripclub.
Manifesting your desires (the money you make on your shift) by expecting them (going on cam KNOWING that you WILL meet your goal...and not stressing about it)
Has anyone tried this and did it work?
I know it must be different since we camgirls arent face to face with customers so they cant really feel our vibe like that but I wanted to know if anyone else just gets on cam expecting to meet their goal without stressing over meeting it.
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it doesn't work like that all the time. sometimes I'm not stressed about making money and I don't make a dime. But being mad and in a bad mood of course is bad for business. I've had days where I was getting stressed and angry but not letting it show and I made more than I expected. It really just depends on luck.
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msmochaxx
Has anyone tried this and did it work?
It's more involved than that.
The 'Law of attraction' theory works on much older principles and is quite simply common sense. The universe is working all the time, opportunities come and go, but your state of mind can influence how you percieve the events unfolding around you. If your state of mind is rules by negative influences like stress, anxiety, and doubt, then you cannot see through the black cloud to the silver lining, instead noticing only the things which negatively impact you. This sets up a vicious cycle of noticing the negative and thereby coming to expect yet more negativity, which of course is fulfilled, and so on for infinity... unless you change your mindset!
Magick, NLP, Psychology, and more recently pop-psychology (which law of attraction books fall into), all do a decent job of providing some of the tools (visualisation, mantras, ritual, positive thinking) you can use to help do this for yourself. By actively noticing the positive things unfolding around you, you can physically create new neural pathways in the brain which quite literally change your thought patterns. Once you have begun to actively notice the positive, you can start taking steps to speed up the process and create new opportunities for yourself (or 'increase your likelihood of recieving abundance' is a more apt way of putting it), since you're not actually making anything happen per se, but rather putting yourself in the best possible mindset to notice, accept, and expect positive events. This counts for financial prosperity, health, happiness, any kind of thing you could wish to increase in your life.
Personally I believe it is too big a jump from reading "The Law of Attraction" to literally making more money, because you need to understand enough to really feel in your heart and soul that the opportunities are there, not simply wish and hope. However, if you take the principles of the book to heart, and research further into the areas I've mentioned above, and really gain a personal understanding of how your perception of the universe influences your life, then you will most definitely begin to feel this (call it the law of attraction, abundance, positivity, whatever you like..) working for you ;D
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LOL
ok, ok it's loosely LOOSELY based on Quantum Mechanics. The theory [that's lab proven but on a subatomic level] that it really IS mind over matter. At least for subatomic particles and the strange relationship conscious observing of them creates...
Anyways, I digress cos I'm a nerd...
Basically the science implies that if you think positive you get positive because our consciousness disrupts the subatomic level of the universe.
But it's not literal.
A positive attitude opens many doors for you period. It makes you more likeable and more motivated.
But ya thinking it works in a literal sense is kind of...madness. Remind me of "The Secret" fml I hated that debasement of awesome science. Even "What the Bleep Do we Know?" killed me....
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I find on days that I cam, if I feel really good and positive I usually do make more but I think that's just because when you feel good you look nicer, are more friendly and approachable. On days when I'm feeling negative I think it comes across on cam and my privates go down. Of course thats on free chat. I've been on AW with free chat off and in a great, openminded mood and ended up with 5 bucks at the end of the day ;)
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I basically DON'T cam if I can't kick a bad mood/vibe
I'm very manic in personality and very facially expressive...if I'm angry/upset/irate you can SEE IT all over me...
stupid...emotions...lol
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I personally like some of the stuff in that thread.. but when I go on cam I dont KNOW if Ill make my goal. I dont think the whole believe it and you`ll get it is my thing. But I have been working on having a more positive outlook in all aspects of life, and I do think if you give off positivity, you attract it in return.
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"It's more involved than that.
The 'Law of attraction' theory works on much older principles and is quite simply common sense. The universe is working all the time, opportunities come and go, but your state of mind can influence how you percieve the events unfolding around you. If your state of mind is rules by negative influences like stress, anxiety, and doubt, then you cannot see through the black cloud to the silver lining, instead noticing only the things which negatively impact you. This sets up a vicious cycle of noticing the negative and thereby coming to expect yet more negativity, which of course is fulfilled, and so on for infinity... unless you change your mindset!
Magick, NLP, Psychology, and more recently pop-psychology (which law of attraction books fall into), all do a decent job of providing some of the tools (visualisation, mantras, ritual, positive thinking) you can use to help do this for yourself. By actively noticing the positive things unfolding around you, you can physically create new neural pathways in the brain which quite literally change your thought patterns. Once you have begun to actively notice the positive, you can start taking steps to speed up the process and create new opportunities for yourself (or 'increase your likelihood of recieving abundance' is a more apt way of putting it), since you're not actually making anything happen per se, but rather putting yourself in the best possible mindset to notice, accept, and expect positive events. This counts for financial prosperity, health, happiness, any kind of thing you could wish to increase in your life."
Personally I believe it is too big a jump from reading "The Law of Attraction" to literally making more money, because you need to understand enough to really feel in your heart and soul that the opportunities are there, not simply wish and hope. However, if you take the principles of the book to heart, and research further into the areas I've mentioned above, and really gain a personal understanding of how your perception of the universe influences your life, then you will most definitely begin to feel this (call it the law of attraction, abundance, positivity, whatever you like..) working for you"
yes! this! i would like to add this. to help you get to that place, to that state of 'being'. i would recommend reading a book called "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. it was suggested to me by a girl from here. i am reading it now and i am in awe of how much it quiets ur mind down.
this girl explains the book quite well here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kG3IcxM-wv0
once you get to that state of 'being' then you can put the law of attraction into effect more successfully.
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to yall saying its more than that maybe i can just easily put myself in that mindset lol i made $70 in an hour last night and made a new fan....but ehhh thats just me
lmao
no but really thinks for your responses
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Originally Posted by
msmochaxx
I just read a thread in the stripping section about the law of attraction in correlation to the stripclub.
Manifesting your desires (the money you make on your shift) by expecting them (going on cam KNOWING that you WILL meet your goal...and not stressing about it)
Has anyone tried this and did it work?
I know it must be different since we camgirls arent face to face with customers so they cant really feel our vibe like that but I wanted to know if anyone else just gets on cam expecting to meet their goal without stressing over meeting it.
i just wanted to emphasize on this, by the fact of KNOWING that ur gonna make money on cam has ALOT of factors behind it. it isn't just about knowing but more so about having firm determination that you are gonna make that money no matter what! how do i know this? because i have waited a week to 3 days before rent was due to make money for rent in full. yes and i have done that more than once (yes i know bad lazy camgirl) but i always made my money even if it is was a little late (never more than a week for any type of bill). yes, my bills are always gonna be paid and i KNOW that i will be able to get the money made somehow. but this kind of process burns u out fast! you can't depend on law of attraction alone, you have to work with it to get it to work for you. meaning creating plans, goals, etc. and law of attraction makes it work out much more smoothly in a natural flow.
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The Law of Attraction is a very complicated way of saying "Quit stressing and think positively", so of course when you take it on board you'll have a better shift.
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o0Pepper0o
LOL
ok, ok it's loosely LOOSELY based on Quantum Mechanics.
Um, it isn't even loosely based on Quantum Mechanics. There is no scientific proof to date that shows the existence of 'mind over matter'.
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Me, personally. I choose to follow 'The Law of Kenny Rogers'.
You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em,
Know when to walk away and know when to run.
You never count your money when you're sittin' at the table.
There'll be time enough for countin' when the dealin's done.
(*grins*)
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Well for those wondering, the law of attraction is always working. The universe doesn't discriminate between good and bad vibes. If you deliberately focus on good vibes, then you will attract good events towards you - including the sensation to take a physical action. If you're not intentionally setting yourself with good vibes then you send out vibes on "default."
It's not for everyone, but definitely interesting to read about. I learned that simply you are what you think. I see a changes in the positive direction when I intentionally do all things that set me in good vibes.
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Ughhh...why have we got 2 threads going at the same time on this? I've posted on the other one...essentially the Universe is dual by nature, energy interacts with both the same and it's opposite...it's not like only attracts alike, we are what we are not what we think, positive thinking affects are actions not our energy or the energy of the Universe.