The other night, I had sex and used a condom for the first time in 3 years. (I'm just now exiting monogamy.)
Today, my inner labia started to burn and itch like crazy and the outer labia (toward the bottom, right where it meets my butt cheeks. Haha) is actually scabbed over! It's like severe chafing. Am I allergic to latex? Or was it from lack of lube? I'd received oral sex beforehand, so I was pretty good and wet. We abandoned the lube. Was it just not enough? Also, what can I do to ease the itch and heal the scabbing? Products like vagisil aren't helping.

