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Strippers that caress custies' crotch to entice them into buying dances?
In the strip clubs where I frequently go to enjoy myself, each time I go there I would experience at least one stripper that would try to entice me by putting their hand on my pant (crotch area) to get a feel of it, and some of them would actually caress it after the dance is done and see if I'm excited.. for a $20 dance before they walk away. I know they probably felt the erection with the grinding and all.. but almost all of them never come up to ask me for another dance, so why the extra touch? Is it to validate themselves for a job well done? Or to feel they have the sexual power to get a man excited whenever they want?
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This isn't going to go well...
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you're still here?
still here to spin tales about your special strip club where you're specially treated by a sea of non-financially motivated nymphomaniacs?
It is incredible the massive time and care people will invest to attention whore their sexual fantasies.
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^ I knew you wouldn't let me down!8)
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LOL
If I was a stripper I'd probably check somehow..but not like rub it blatantly haha
type of person who likes to check their work.
Must be like spell check for strippers?
Or hmm...maybe just the cash in my gstring would suffice xD
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yoda57us
^ I knew you wouldn't let me down!8)
What he said. 8)
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Don't be offended but are you clearly a male? I only ask because a dancer told me she had a transvestite customer once. She said the guy looked so good as a female that she checked for herself - same kind of "erection check" you mentioned. It freaked her out so much she wouldn't give him more dances. You said these dancers don't want another dance AFTER that final caressing of your crotch, so something you got going on down there is turning them off. It can't be the erection itself. They're used to guys getting excited.
Dancers who caress crotches are doing it to add to the excitement and get more dances, not get an ego boost and then run away from more money. You say they don't want more dances - that's what's throwing me off here. Are you tiping well? If there's no mistaking your gender and you're tiping well, then I can't crack this one.
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LOL @ transvestite comment..
No, I don't think so simply by their pushy/excited attitude to ask me for a dance and plus she kind of pushed for the private dance at first but was disappointed when I insisted that I only wanted a bikini dance. Even though she mentioned that "but you can't touch me for $40", she still take my hands to caress her boobs and her thighs, etc. so i highly doubt she thought I was a transvestitle.. by the end of the dance, she just got up and caress my crotch, and say "ohh.. you're getting excited" and walked away... never to see her again afterward..HMM.
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Ill bet she was really into you and was thinking about asking you out for OTC after closing time. After copping the cheap feel she figured you were not packing enough punch to ring her bell and she lost interest. From now on when you go to the club put a big something in there to keep her interest up, by the time she finds out its not really you she may still give you a mercy fuck. Its worth a shot anyway
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LOL BTW If "the guy" looks so good as a female, wouldn't the stripper thought "she must be a tomboy" and check whether or not she got a dick.
If she thought he's a transvestite, then I think it'd be more like the woman looks so good as a guy, well either that or ewww.. I am not dancing with a transvestite, which from your text, the reaction was more like the latter. LMAO
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asianlover1028
LOL BTW If "the guy" looks so good as a female, wouldn't the stripper thought "she must be a tomboy" and check whether or not she got a dick.
If she thought he's a transvestite, then I think it'd be more like the woman looks so good as a guy, well either that or ewww.. I am not dancing with a transvestite, which from your text, the reaction was more like the latter. LMAO
She suspected it, heard it from someone else, he told her - who knows. She just didn't believe it, so she checked. She couldn't deal with the pretty face+man parts stuff when it became a reality. Well, anyway, I was just spitballing. One of the other responsonders may have nailed it.
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"Caressing" a customer's genitals to try and sell him for a dance sounds trashy, in my opinion. I'm sure if you do extras that's a clever way to start off a sale for VIP though, lol.
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What a bunch of crap.
So was it a bunch of dancers or just the one dancer? I think you're exaggerating numbers.
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NotPepper
"Caressing" a customer's genitals to try and sell him for a dance sounds trashy, in my opinion. I'm sure if you do extras that's a clever way to start off a sale for VIP though, lol.
It is not uncommon unfortunately. Even in more controlled environments, there are some dancers who will dip into this well in order to sell their services. In fact, there are some girls who actually approach guys cold and use this in their opening pitches.
The funny thing is that, in some places, this is the most action that the guy is going to get. Unfortunately for him, he doesn't figure it out until he ends up in the LD/VIP area and realizes that nothing more is going to happen. ;)
I agree that it is a trashy way to sell dances. As a general rule, I won't spend my money on a dancer who does this in the opening rounds. In fact, it pisses me off when some girl who I've never met before thinks that it is ok to casually reach down and hold/caress my nuts or penis. When this happens, I usually remove her hand and send her away. After all, if she is grabbing my balls in the first minute of meeting me, how many other nutsacks has she had in her hands that night? :O
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Girls who do this are lazy, IMO. They'd rather be trashy than sharpen their skills.
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Caress their crotch to entice??
Uh... More like I caress my own!
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:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
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Chgojoe
Ill bet she was really into you and was thinking about asking you out for OTC after closing time. After copping the cheap feel she figured you were not packing enough punch to ring her bell and she lost interest. From now on when you go to the club put a big something in there to keep her interest up, by the time she finds out its not really you she may still give you a mercy fuck. Its worth a shot anyway
Seriously, w/this thread:O? LMFAO!!!
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Welcome to the world of Customer Conversation Whirlez...
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Originally Posted by
asianlover1028
In the strip clubs where I frequently go to enjoy myself, each time I go there I would experience at least one stripper that would try to entice me by putting their hand on my pant (crotch area) to get a feel of it, and some of them would actually caress it after the dance is done and see if I'm excited.. for a $20 dance before they walk away. I know they probably felt the erection with the grinding and all.. but almost all of them never come up to ask me for another dance, so why the extra touch? Is it to validate themselves for a job well done? Or to feel they have the sexual power to get a man excited whenever they want?
I gotta give you props for the creative "logic". I work with some crotch grabbers and the reasoning for this practice is simple. They want to sell you another dance. They are caressing your junk to sell the idea that things are escalating and that you may want to spend more money to keep it going. Grinding with other parts of the body is more or less akin to painting with broad strokes. The hand, being a precise piece of engineering, is a better tool for maximizing sensations... the devil is in the details. It's also more intimate and personal, at least at the unconscious level. It implies that "there is more where this came from" but it's just another tease.
Hope that helps.
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whirlerz
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Seriously, w/this thread:O? LMFAO!!!
My first thought was to delete the thread but it's been slow in CC and a misguided perv thread is always good for a few laughs....
FWIW, I vote no on the transvestite angle. This is just a lazy-ass approach that some dancers use in trashier clubs to get your attention. At one club that I used to frequent in Providence the crotch grab is pretty much the standard greeting these days. As to why a dancer would leave after one dance well, who knows and who cares? If she's too lazy to work a customer without diddling his wee wee she's most likely too lazy to bother getting more than one dance from him...or maybe she just doesn't want you to jizz on her....
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A girl doing this to me = guaranteed lap dance.
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Wayne Root
A girl doing this to me = guaranteed lap dance.
Are you being sarcastic or serious?
If you are serious, can you explain why a crotch grab is so influential in your decision to buy/not buy a lapdance?
I tried to explain it before but maybe you have some more insight on the matter.
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Some of the eastern european chicks would grab crotches on the floor, they may have touched it after a dance as well... that was just the pushy ones' style, to make up for bad english i think
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Sophia_Starina
I gotta give you props for the creative "logic". I work with some crotch grabbers and the reasoning for this practice is simple. They want to sell you another dance. They are caressing your junk to sell the idea that things are escalating and that you may want to spend more money to keep it going. Grinding with other parts of the body is more or less akin to painting with broad strokes. The hand, being a precise piece of engineering, is a better tool for maximizing sensations... the devil is in the details. It's also more intimate and personal, at least at the unconscious level. It implies that "there is more where this came from" but it's just another tease.Hope that helps.
Agreed. I've had some chicks do this before the dance and some during, but never after. Usually its just a quick teasing caress, just playful and misvhievous tease, not a handjob. Still one time I had a lapdance from to girls and at a certain point both hand thier hands caressing my cock very vigously. Problably because thier was no room to grind thier asses against it, too many people. Still just a sales trick.
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You know, why limit it to the SC? I'm just gonna run around grabbing random crotches everywhere..gonna be a great weekend!:)