I had worked Arousr in 2014, but I ghosted. Does anyone think it might be worth reapplying? I have a different last name now, so I'm not sure if she would remember me.
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I had worked Arousr in 2014, but I ghosted. Does anyone think it might be worth reapplying? I have a different last name now, so I'm not sure if she would remember me.
I guess I spoke too soon because I've been on for 4 HOURS and not had ONE guy contact me. I am talking to a couple other girls and it is the same for them. Really sucks. I did so well on there my first week and even the second even though it wasnt as good.. dont know what happened this week but I've only made a few bucks :(
Also I'm scared to use the app now because the app still isnt pushing messages through. Its not just me either I have had a couple other people say that the same thing is happening to them... I sit on the app and get no messages then go into my chat logs and see a bunch of highlighted names with 3600 response time, meaning I missed them. But they never showed up... So now I cant even use the app! Which is half the reason I bought this new android... ugh!
^Mistress X, did you get paid on time?
Yep I have gotten paid really fast both weeks I have been on there. Now as for the app Linda called me and spoke to me about the app issue. The app has only been out for 8 months she said so theres bugs I guess. I told her what was happening.. the app isnt pushing messages through then it will log you out due to "excessive delayed responses", but when you look there are no messages showing up. It seems to happen only on certain phones. I have an LG V20 and its a pretty new phone so maybe thats why. It probably has something to do with the android operating system.. But as a result my response time has tanked and I've missed a lot of potential money.
I notice on the site my placement seems to bounce around a lot. I'll be at the top at one moment then way down buried under all the girls the next.. I dont like that because guys are stupid and dont scroll. I am wondering what factors play into placement? Right now it seems to be pretty wonky. If any of you sign up and get on there I recommend putting a LOT of hours in the first week. I have noticed a huge drop in traffic after my first week. I know Linda gives us more when we first start to give us more regulars which is totally awesome.. but I didnt know how long it was going to last. Also it seems like you really have to be consistent every day with hours because if you take a couple days off it seems to really hurt.
That's hard for me without being able to use the app. I hope they fix it soon. I hate being tied down to my computer. I am going to work as much as I can the next few days because I just had to shell out a ton of cash for a vet visit. I notice a lot of the time the site is completely dead for me, like not one person for hours at a time. They just fixed the camming feature and I am going to try that soon. The guys have to buy block time and you get paid for the whole amount even if they disconnect before the time is up. And then when the time IS up, they automatically get disconnected. So that to me is awesome! I'll try it out this weekend and see how it goes.
I guess I'm not what they're after as I applied a week or so ago and not heard back. Oh well.
It took a few weeks when I applied.
So when I am in paid chat with them , can I send more than one response to add more to the sexting convo or is that a no no? I worked for an hr last night & really liked it but when a guy would say something I'd try to get a sexy response in quick before the 30 sec thing then i'd add something a bit more after that before his next response.
You only get paid for his texts to you as far as I know. you can only send 4 messages to him before the system will tell you that you are flooding the customer.
I've been logged on the computer for almost 3 hours and not had 1 guy message me. So yeah.. feast or famine right now. After I got off the phone with linda yesterday I made $70 in a pretty quick time so I really dont know. It's been REALLY dead lately.
Oh shit :( I hope it doesn't stay that way bc I'm hoping to only have to cam at my leisure since free chat is draining the life out of me. I started last night & really like it but holy shit when you get multiple ppl messaging you at the same time trying to make that 30 sec thing lol stressful. Is there also a way I can keep a check on my dashboard as to how many hours I've done? How do you check to see how much you've made total? Sorry for so many questions x0x0
Oh shit :( I hope it doesn't stay that way bc I'm hoping to only have to cam at my leisure since free chat is draining the life out of me. I started last night & really like it but holy shit when you get multiple ppl messaging you at the same time trying to make that 30 sec thing lol stressful. Is there also a way I can keep a check on my dashboard as to how many hours I've done? How do you check to see how much you've made total? Sorry for so many questions x0x0
I got inundated when I first started too. No more.. still on and still no one messaging me. Not sure whats up.
you have to log out to see how much youve made... which is kind of annoying. I have yet to find out a way to see how many hours youve been logged on. i dont think there is a way to do that tbh. I am also wanting to do this so i dont have to worry about camming but looks like even though it sucks big monkey balls I am going to have to go back to streamate.
Well you can always keep it open while you are on SM & that way it's splitting it as a side egg & it still has potential. That's what I'm gonna go if it slows down for me after my first 2 weeks on there. I usually keep phrendly open in another browser if I'm in free chat & bored bc sometimes I'm getting messaged on there & making at least some chump change lol whereas while camming I don't make shit just sitting & waiting for a private. Maybe it'll pick up when everyone gets paid again, that's something I've noticed on Phrendly. It's slow & dead until the 1st or 15th then for a few days it gets crazy.
So after they are in paid chat & they stop responding , do I close the chats to help me keep up with my other guys messaging me or ?
you dont have to close them... sometimes theyll buy more credits when they run out.
I wouldnt recommend splitting with SM. if youre in a pvt on SM and youre typing to someone else its going to look bad and your customer might get mad. On Arousr you have 30 seconds to respond to guys messages and if you get into a conversation with a guy you cant leave. If you close the chat and he is still talking to you I notice that when you log back in, on the computer anyway, his message still comes through and it will count against you as a missed message. So if you already have a chat open with a guy, he can end the convo but you cant. If he chooses to keep the conversation going and youre not there.. it will show up in your chat logs as a missed message with 3600 as the response time and it will be highlighted in yellow.
Just my experience and observations. The platform definitely could use some work, I'm just not sure how open Linda is to suggestions. It makes business sense to try to prevent the girls from prematurely ending chats... but sucks when you have guys who are asking for illegal stuff or being harassing or whatever. I'm not sure how to block screen names, you might have to ask Linda to do it for you. I hate that you cant just do it yourself.
oh ok thanks :) good to know! Ya I worked 3 hrs last night & omg did i get overwhelmed, it said my avg reply was 20 sec but still my brain def needed a break after that much time on there. I'm still not at 15 hrs yet for this week so I dunno how in the hell I'm gonna pull it off by tm at midnight when she told me to send in my payment request. I'm on my period, feel like shit and just can't handle the stress that site demands right now. I only closed them if they hadn't replied back after awhile & after it said customer needs more credits to message me. I just logged off bc I literally had a headache from trying to keep up with everything.
How do you handle when guys want a pic of a specific thing right then & there when you don't have one uploaded in your pvt gallery to share? I just told them I was new & couldn't upload one just yet. I'm scared Linda will can me though since I'm still trying to just keep up & not miss any messages or piss any custys off. Maybe she'll not be too hard on me lol
My experience was the same. However I think after your first week youll want that to continue, youll be wanting to be inundated with guys and wont be. I have been on for many hours the last few days and hardly had anything. They really need to start paying for some advertising...
Thats a problem I have too and I cant really give you an answer. I've had guys get mad and leave because I couldnt upload pics on the fly on the computer. I think its really short sighted not to be able to have a picture upload feature while you are online chatting. Makes no sense.. Just try to take a lot of pics and upload a ton of stuff you think guys might wanna see while they are talking to you. If they ask just tell them the system makes you log off completely in order to upload pics. Usually they understand.
An FYI - Linda doesn't want us talking publicly about Arousr (it was in a message a year or so ago, though we have every right to do so, of course), so I would suggest we revive the private group "PSO Land". Just don't want anyone who might have the same name there to get in trouble.
I I'm thinking of signing up but wanted to know is it literally setting from your pc as I don't have an android phone. Do you have to offer cam and phone sex too or can you choose to just text? Thanks x
I didnt know there was a no discussion clause. Wonder why that is.. I am not in any groups currently but am up to join one
How do you guys handle when you get calls & texts at the same time from different members? I'm trying to reply to everyone but when I get slammed it's hard to keep my sexy focus on the phone & worry about the 30 sec thing.
I have tried to apply here twice and got no response both times. Bummer because I signed up with Dreamlover a week ago and have gotten nothing yet, and nothing lately on Sextpanther either.
I literally JUST signed up with Phrendly. Who knows what will come of this?
https://www.phrendly.com/tf/kmLo28
Does anyone know if we can raise our rates on here for the phone calls? Thanks
I was just checking out that site but it doesn t say girls get paid to sext there... or u just signed up to find new custies?