Real Life vs Stripper Life?? How do YOU deal with handling both?
Really have become obsessed with the idea of dancing! And really considering it but trying to come up with ways where my dancer life and real life don't collide. I'm a teacher during the day and health aide on the weekend but still need the extra income.. but no one around me can find out! i figured one good way would be to find clubs outside of my hometown... but what other ways can i conceal my night job??
Anybody with a similar situation?? Id love to hear your story and how you're dealing with it, if you dont mind:)
Re: Real Life vs Stripper Life?? How do YOU deal with handling both?
Re: Real Life vs Stripper Life?? How do YOU deal with handling both?
If you want to keep teaching it might not be a good idea. I know NY is infamous for not actually reprimanding their teachers at all, but I still don't want you to wind up in a rubber room.
Re: Real Life vs Stripper Life?? How do YOU deal with handling both?
Don't have sex with or date or make friends with anyone from work. Be friendly, don't make friends. That includes coworkers, management, owner and customers. It's easy. Only be with work people at work. Use a stripper name and when necessary a fake real name. Wear hair extensions or switch up your look somehow at work. Use a pay-by-the-minute phone at work, not your real phone!! Don't tell people where you live. Don't tell people anything, always make stuff up no matter what. Have fun with it. You are selling a fantasy and if your coworkers are too curious about you amuse them with lies.
Re: Real Life vs Stripper Life?? How do YOU deal with handling both?
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lifetravelergirl
Don't have sex with or date or make friends with anyone from work. Be friendly, don't make friends. That includes coworkers, management, owner and customers. It's easy. Only be with work people at work. Use a stripper name and when necessary a fake real name. Wear hair extensions or switch up your look somehow at work. Use a pay-by-the-minute phone at work, not your real phone!! Don't tell people where you live. Don't tell people anything, always make stuff up no matter what. Have fun with it. You are selling a fantasy and if your coworkers are too curious about you amuse them with lies.
this is what i was thinking of doing! just didnt know if it was fool proof enough.. thank you!
Re: Real Life vs Stripper Life?? How do YOU deal with handling both?
If this is what you really want, I don't think it'll be hard to disguise yourself if you really put in the work.
- wear wigs
- draw fake tats, stick fake piercings
- put on an accent
- YouTube how to look like your fave celeb with makeup etc.
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yasminestarr
this is what i was thinking of doing! just didnt know if it was fool proof enough.. thank you!
Nothing is 100% fool proof when you're trying to hide working. There's always some way you can get caught. Someone finds something from work (shoes or outfits) in your home or someone could see you. You are gonna have to drive far away. Also, the real struggle begins when you have "real life" people (friends, in laws etc) who try to make plans with you Thursday-Sunday and you NEVER can. I'm 6 years in and that is STILL the most difficult part. Because of this, I have zero friends from the "real world". It's too hard to keep up appearances so I stick to my work friends.