Private v. Exclusive - Noob Question
I feel like a tool for having to ask this and I've looked everywhere to try to find an answer, but specifically what types of things do you typically do in a private show vs. an exclusive one (I'll be camming for SM tomorrow)? What is expected when someone takes you private? Do they get to make specific requests (say my name, do this, do that) even though others can buy into the show or do you just do what you think will get them off? Are requests reserved for Exclusive? I have NO idea what I'm doing or what to expect and as embarrassed as I am to have to ask, I know I will only be more embarrassed when I pull the inevitable deer in the headlights face when someone finally takes me private LOL.
I've spent days perusing SW and I am SO grateful for this site and all of you lovely cammers -I already feel a lot less nervous! :)
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This is what I have in my SM topic:
private = group show - fingers, toys, cum! (no requests / no name moaning / no anal)
exclusive = 1on1 and requests including anal/dp
Obviously what you do and don't do in your shows will vary from what I do. But, essentially I don't do any requests of any kind in private.
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Everyone makes their own decisions about this. You do what you are comfortable with. That's the MOST important thing.
However, I choose to take SOME requests in regular private and will usually pay most attention to the first person to come in. When he leaves, I move onto other people's requests. The scenario varies depending on who is typing/has requests. But I mostly just do what I want to do.
In exclusive I will do some roleplay, etc. I don't do anal, so it's irrelevant, but I've seen lots of ladies who will only offer it in exclusive. I will use names/moan names and watch cams.
Exclusive block session: Change clothes, phone, more-involved roleplay. Some ladies choose to only offer anal in block sessions (that way you're not doing anal for one minute before the guy pops out).
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I keep things pretty vanilla (stripping, teasing, some toy play) in private party to appeal to anyone who joins, and take special requests in exclusive such as moaning names, small penis humiliation, or special requests on positioning for toy play, etc.
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Do not go on there until you write down your limits/rules for private and exclusive. For example, anal in exclusive only. It's however you want to do it, but you should decide before you go on so you are firm on what you will/won't do. That way, when a customer smells new blood and tries to talk you into something, you can be firm and clear on your rules. Do not be afraid to say no. You are going to get some doozies of strange requests on SM lol. I suggest reading the thread "STUPID and Annoying Shit I've Heard on Cam." Not only is it effing hilarious, but it's informative of the behaviors you're going to encounter. Your first pvt is going to freak you out, but you should get comfy in no time. Good luck!
P.S. When you get requests like "show feet/ass/pussy/tits bb" SAY NO unless they tip you. Also, do not fall for "show me feet/ass/pussy/tits and I take you pvt bb" ... because they never do.
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Do not go on there until you write down your limits/rules for private and exclusive. For example, anal in exclusive only. It's however you want to do it, but you should decide before you go on so you are firm on what you will/won't do. That way, when a customer smells new blood and tries to talk you into something, you can be firm and clear on your rules. Do not be afraid to say no. You are going to get some doozies of strange requests on SM lol. I suggest reading the thread "STUPID and Annoying Shit I've Heard on Cam." Not only is it effing hilarious, but it's informative of the behaviors you're going to encounter. Your first pvt is going to freak you out, but you should get comfy in no time. Good luck!
P.S. When you get requests like "show feet/ass/pussy/tits bb" SAY NO unless they tip you. Also, do not fall for "show me feet/ass/pussy/tits and I take you pvt bb" ... because they never do.
I read that entire thread and I felt SO much more prepared afterward! :-p Oh man, some of those stories put me in tears!
Thanks so much for the responses, guys! Ginormous digital hugs all around! :)
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I read that entire thread and I felt SO much more prepared afterward! :-p Oh man, some of those stories put me in tears!
Thanks so much for the responses, guys! Ginormous digital hugs all around! :)
Nothing can prepare you. Prepare to be thrown some damn curve balls lol. Good thing you read that thread, it was hilarious right?? I laughed for days : D But it is veeery telling of how camming can be. Anyway, good luck on your first night. Come back and tell us how it went!
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Here's the description I put in my "About My Show" on my SM profile: "PREMIUM: Stripping, nipple licking, lotion, spit, big toy oral, pussy play with fingers and/or toys, dirty talking. EXCLUSIVE: Everything I do in premium PLUS role play, fetishes, and screaming YOUR name!"
I will honor a guy's request in premium as long as it's something generic that the majority of other viewers would probably want to see. If a guy asks me to get into doggy, sure, I will do that in premium, because if other viewers join they probably won't be turned off. But if a guy in premium asks me to, say, suck on my toes? Not going to happen unless we go exclusive. I have a hard time saying "no" to viewers because I don't want to lose them, so if a guy in premium asks for something specific I generally won't say no (unless it's a firm rule, like no anal an premium), but I may try to give them what they want in a different way. Example: I have a great reg who is super into feet. If he joins my premium show I will continue with my toy play, but I will reposition myself so that my feet are also in view and I will point and curl my toes while I go at my poom poom. That way everyone in the room gets what they want but it doesn't seem too fetish-y.
As far as what's expected when you first go private? Well, me personally, my standard is generally shorter more frequent shows rather than fewer but longer shows, so I start stripping pretty much immediately when they come in. While I am taking my shirt off in a sexy way I will ask what they are in the mood for. Some guys will say something specific like "let me see you deep throat that big toy" or "I want to watch you ride a toy," whereas other guys will be more general and just say they want to watch you cum, or they may not even say anything at all! If a guy is vague about what he wants I tend to have a sort of generic routine that I do: strip, titty play, bj my toy, and then pussy play in various positions. Sometimes I'll throw some lotion or oil in there, too, depending on my mood. The main thing is to have fun, and remember you don't have to do anything that you are not comfortable with.
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I put in my "About My Show" on my SM profile: "PREMIUM: Stripping, nipple licking, lotion, spit, big toy oral, pussy play with fingers and/or toys, dirty talking. EXCLUSIVE: Everything I do in premium PLUS role play, fetishes, and screaming YOUR name!"
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I dont take this approch....
from what Ive experienced, most of the times when my topic is " toys, lotion... etc" pretty much a listing of what I can do...
the guys will come in and type " toys please" " I want to see lotion show please"....
this gives me no room to... take my time;)
Evasive topics such as " I love having fun " or.." cant wait to do a 1 on 1 show"..... work better ( for me)