Newbie nervous about escorting
So, I called up an agency and I'm going to send her my ID and some pics tomorrow and she wants to meet me this weekend.
I'm so afraid of not getting hired because of my weight and my availability. I'm a single mom and I'm really only available during the day and select nights (when I can lie and say that I'm at a part-time job). I definitely can't just leave my house at a moment's notice at night, but I can during the day.
When I spoke with the owner of the agency, I fibbed and said I was a size 8 (my pre-baby size) but I'm really a size 10. My stomach is my problem area with the love handles, and stretchmarks.
I'm hoping that my big boobs, cute face, and my personality will get me hired. What do you guys think my chances are? I don't think the agency is very upscale. It's in the middle of Virginia and they don't have a website.
ETA: I removed my pic after 33 views and no replies -_- but I'll send it to anybody (who is an active member).
Re: Newbie nervous about escorting
I'm not sure it will really matter as long as the pictures are recent. I will say though any company like that with no website in the year 2012 has to be fishy.
Re: Newbie nervous about escorting
You should be fine, but until you are 100% sure about the company being legit, let someone outside the company know where you are at all times. It could be a a front for a pimp. Clients like all bosy sizes and shapes, so your size shoudl not matter and stretchmarks are not a problem... most men have seen them with no issue.
Re: Newbie nervous about escorting
Also... I caution you about sending ID's electronically, I woudl let them see it in person and if you want to work with them, maybe let them copy it, but ID theft is so rampant that it is risky.
Re: Newbie nervous about escorting
Did you think about independent escorting? It'll allow you to work on your own time, see only clients you are comfortable meeting after screening them yourself, & you reap all the rewards (no 50/50 or 60/40 split with an agency) of your own hard work.
Re: Newbie nervous about escorting
Quote:
Originally Posted by
KajaLeon
... Clients like all body sizes and shapes, so your size should not matter and stretchmarks are not a problem... most men have seen them with no issue.
I agree. I like more than one body type, and I've seen some very attractive post-pregnant women of various ages and sizes. Face and personality are more important to most of us, but of course an effort to slim down is appreciated, even if it's gradual. (I also think most women are very beautiful while pregnant as well.) Perhaps you are looking for just one or a few clients for now, until you feel more comfortable. I also suggest you should level with whoever about your current look, because they'll find out soon enough anyway. Everyone appreciates knowing what they're getting and it helps your agency to match you with the right client. I won't recommend any escorting forums--I'll leave that to others. But I know that most of the men on them are polite and would give you some useful feedback and advice as well, and it would help you to screen prospective clients and network with other providers.