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$30k to quit stripping???
okay so i refuse to believe this but my insanely gullible friend reckons its true.
so this girl i introduced to dancing [and has been for about 6 months] allegedly got offered $30k to quit stripping and my friend who spoke to her reckons she got the money without fucking or anything like that. okay so if this was a real ball-buster veteran girl with a good head on her shoulders i would say unlikely but possible.
apparently this is a guy who was gonna fund her business and she got paid once for OTC dancing work. didnt tell me much just that she got paid well, did dances and heaps of coke and cocktails and the guy was creepy and kept trying to grab her and shes never seeing him again. i dont remember if she found him good looking or not.
she slept with a customer once before coz she thought he was hot but he basically got very rough with her and she regretted it and decided to not see him again.
i think shes either bullshitting about the amount of money [above $3k AT MOST is an unrealistic amount to be offered a newbie to quit dancing WITHOUT touching/dating/bjs/fs etc] or shes fuckin him.
what do you think? impossible? rare? common?
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Re: $30k to quit stripping???
Highly unlikely... even if she is banging him.
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No offensive but why do you hella care about it? Who cares. Someone just offered to buy my a Jeep, real talk. No, I'm not fucking him. But if I let him buy it it doesn't matter if I did or did not fuck him because everyone would think so anyway. Our perceptions are our realities so, doesn't matter.
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gullible [guhl-uh-buhl]
adjective
easily deceived or cheated.
Related forms
gul·li·bil·i·ty, noun
gul·li·bly, adverb
Synonyms
credulous, trusting, naive, innocent, simple, green.
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Originally Posted by
lokikola
No offensive but why do you hella care about it? Who cares. Someone just offered to buy my a Jeep, real talk. No, I'm not fucking him. But if I let him buy it it doesn't matter if I did or did not fuck him because everyone would think so anyway. Our perceptions are our realities so, doesn't matter.
i dont im curious and i just had like a half hr debate with my friend about it so now im just sitting here pondering. i dont care who she fucked and why i just wondered if anyone knew about similar instances happening to someone else. besides this girl used to be one of my best friends until we had a fight and she moved out of my house so im curious about stuff that happens to her. i got her into dancing and now i kinda feel like i created a monster....
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Sure this COULD happen... but it would only happen to some friend of a friend. It never actually happens to ME and I'm a vet. Some girls just have really awesome luck at finding some guy to shower them with stuff. Some don't. Just wait and see if she quits dancing?
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apparently she already quit. i just find this really hard to believe here, now, sydney aus 2012. some men would really hand over 30k to a stripper theyve met twice and not receive anything in return?
i really wish this happened before we had that big fight. or maybe thats part of the reason she moved out. she knew i wouldnt buy it and would think shes a whore. or something.
i WANNA believe it coz she used to be my friend [and this would mean i trained her well] and i want her to have money to do her own thing and not be broke and miserable but yeah.... im currently trying to believe it...... trying... nope impossible
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also shes not that attractive... i work at the top club [with several other sw members] and she got refused after an audition the first time and refused to even audition the second time. i worked one shift at a dive with her once and the manager told me to tell her to only return once shes lost weight [but since she was my friend i could do that i just discouraged her from going back].
just as a side note
im really not trying to be a cunt here im just... you know... o.0 ??
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Re: $30k to quit stripping???
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Originally Posted by
anouk.oui
i dont im curious and i just had like a half hr debate with my friend about it so now im just sitting here pondering. i dont care who she fucked and why i just wondered if anyone knew about similar instances happening to someone else. besides this girl used to be one of my best friends until we had a fight and she moved out of my house so im curious about stuff that happens to her. i got her into dancing and now i kinda feel like i created a monster....
Sounds more like you created a hustler..... and I've seen this happen before. My customer paid for my 8K boob job, another customer bought me a car a few years ago. It definitely does happen. Another friend of mine ended up moving to California with a VIP regular customer (a good looking young-ish one) and he put her through law school. He still worked in Dallas and only saw her like one or two weekends a month. Right after she graduated, they broke up and he moved back to Dallas permanently, she's a lawyer in Los Angeles.
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You keep mentioning sex. If it is true, good for her even if she did fuck him. Nothing wrong with it.
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true i mean even 30k for sex would be smart [and way smarter than eg. doing $200 fs ITC] for sex i just find it hard to believe.
i know she quit but since we dont talk anymore i dont know. i still have her on fb so if she did get the money im sure there will be posts about it [or at least about making extravagant purchases she cant afford or paying off her car in one go].
but if she did i can understand better why she just moved out of my house with a quick two weeks notice and quit dancing straight away. it all just happened so suddenly without any major reason i could understand at all.
im waiting for olivejardin to get to a computer and chime in. she knows her and has worked at her club.
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Re: $30k to quit stripping???
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Originally Posted by
anouk.oui
also shes not that attractive... i work at the top club [with several other sw members] and she got refused after an audition the first time and refused to even audition the second time. i worked one shift at a dive with her once and the manager told me to tell her to only return once shes lost weight [but since she was my friend i could do that i just discouraged her from going back].
just as a side note
im really not trying to be a cunt here im just... you know... o.0 ??
Don't hate me... but you *do* sound just a tiny bit envious..... I mean you're ragging on her looks. You're saying that you did a good deed by "teaching her well". You're in disbelief because your grasshopper wasn't supposed to out-earn the master (aka you).
That being said I am almost certain she is full of nothing but hot air. So don't get bogged down.
You two aren't on the very best of terms. She may be trying to make you jealous... or she may be trying to puff up her own persona with this nonsense.
Don't pay her any mind.
Keep your focus.
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^ i thought it might matter.... i could maybe try to understand a customer buying a girl out of the club if she looked like a victorias secret model but she doesnt. i didnt mean it in the whole 'shes too unattractive why am i not being paid that for being more attractive' way, it was simply for context.
i think what im gettin at is i prob wouldnt question it [as much] if the girl in question was top hustler/model/hottest girl at the club. it would just make more sense.
i think you kinda have to know her to know. trained her well as in gave her the 411 on what we do why and how to avoid douchebags and staying safe.
i dont know i thought about what i would do if someone offered me that kinda money for nothing. but to be realistic it sounds too good to be true. theres no such thing as a free lunch. especially after your 6th month of dancing.
however on her fb convo with another girl she says shes takin time off coz works been slow and shes burnt out but will be back in two weeks to work weekends. so who really knows.
oh well ill never understand any of this so i guess its a wait n see
it just has such a strong bullshit smell to it how could i not be curious?
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^ i guess that makes sense.
im over it just needed to express my daily wtf coz its soooo unlikely in this city. plus i needed to have a feel who knows how often this happens elsewhere to others. botm she sounds very similar to the type you described. especially since she hasnt seen this guy much at all and hes never bought her anything like a nice purse or jewellery [just fed her some free coke]
lokikola if it was under 5k i wouldnt question it. but i mean 30... that would pay to fly all the hottest escorts in town to party in some tropical hot spot and have crazy group sex with. ive heard of girls being given money to pay off loans, to pay for boobs etc but just this out of the blue... so many holes.
oh well if she did get it good on her
if not whatever whocares.
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Re: $30k to quit stripping???
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Originally Posted by
anouk.oui
on her fb convo with another girl she says shes takin time off coz works been slow and shes burnt out but will be back in two weeks to work weekends. so who really knows.
oh well ill never understand any of this so i guess its a wait n see
it just has such a strong bullshit smell to it how could i not be curious?
STOP! Stalking! Your! Friend!
Focus on your money. $$$$$$$$$$$
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Totally totally agree w/ BOTM.
Nothing much else to add except.... is 30k the lump sum to quit stripping forever???
I would be like.... psych!! deposit that $$$ and be back at the club after a nice little vaca. 30k is NOT retirement money, never has been.
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Let's say the customer did say that to her. Who knows if its his intention to follow up on it. On another note, the strangest things happen every day in the strip club world and just cause she's not hot to you, maybe she is to him. Guys have strange taste..
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May or may not be possible. I can't really speculate.
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I personally know a dancer in Melbourne that was given a brand new $35,000 car. She was very average looking and decided to retire because the club had gotten too sleazy for her and she said she was too old. A customer she had danced for only a handful of times bought it for her. She always did have a knack of finding the one guy in the room that was spending big.
Knowing that I'd say it's Possible.
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Okay BOTM I will try not to flame you! :)
BUT I disagree with some of the statements you made above..... "Guys that want to buy girls out don't care about looks. They want GFE. All of the girls that I know that have crazy dedicated regulars like this are very, very GFE, and very rarely top tier looks wise (often bottom tier). "
I get paid for GFE OTC and ITC, but I am also capable of bouncing around the room. I tailor my mode to the customer I'm with, sometimes you just sense the man has buckets of cash so you sit it out with him (not for hours but 20min-30min, yes).
I am not bottom tier lookswise, I only allow contact in VIP (30mins +) and even then they don't get boobs, bum, pussy. I don't do drugs at work (and once in a year TOPS outside of work). I drink hard if I choose to drink but hold my alcohol better than just about everyone I've ever worked with (very rarely can people tell if I'm drunk). I definately don't have a pimp (don't think my hubbie would like that!!!).
I also think that having Mr Regular (or 2 or 3) available can smooth over those rough patches we sometimes experience where custies are thin on the ground.
Maybe where you work that subset of dancer is the norm but not in my neck of the woods.
I know you qualified your statements by saying "in my experience" but it just rubbed me up the wrong way.
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I dig. But I wouldn't call those girls GFE I would just call them losers.
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in the end i still think its bs
plus im not stalking her
its on fb for all to see on her wall. if she didnt want to see me she could block/delete me with all the fancy ass privacy settings
its not like i went into her room and read her diary fuck
[and by the way when we lived together she did come to my room when i wasnt home on multiple occasions to go thru my stuff, use it whatever im lucky i have MOST of it back]
i still find it very unlikely.
apparently shes working again in two weeks. if i got donated that much money i would at least take a month off and do my own shit yaknow?
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Re: $30k to quit stripping???
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Originally Posted by
BringOnTheMen
Guys that want to buy girls out don't care about looks. They want GFE. All of the girls that I know that have crazy dedicated regulars like this are very, very GFE, and very rarely top tier looks wise (often bottom tier). Being GFE ITC usually means everything we remind each other not to do- sitting with customers for HOURS on end without getting paid, getting groped on the main floor, being very liberal during LDs, texting OTC real conversations (not just reminding them to come in that night). Girls like this are usually drunks that just like attention. They often leave with nothing but every now and then they get someone to fall in love.
It's possible to fake this too, but IME it's totally not worth it, especially if you are hot. Hot girls make lots of little money because everyone wants a dance or 1/2 hour with them but since they can make money just by being hot, they don't need to go overboard with contact, free time, and giving the true GFE, so these big kinds of regulars don't typically happen. Girls that are hot/hard hustlers/both get CRs and dances now, leave them, then move to the next.
I'm not saying it's impossible for a hot girl to get a regular like this, but IME these guys want GFE, not hot, and the only girls who are both hot and GFE have pimps so they aren't keeping the money anyway. Just my experience though...all you hot girls who have received $30k cash please don't flame me.
I have neverrr received 30,000 but I am one of those girls who have had some regs for years and years...Mind u it wasnt from groping or anything sexual..It was from texting etc and keeping n touch...It is alot of effort but I am def not a lower tier girl by any means..Id never be so bold as to say I am the hottest either...It seems the girls who r less attractive often get more attention from bar regs while I have my own regs..Its funny bc personally I feel less and less like working n the bars bc bar clientel r barely tipping ..last night the "best pole dancer" in one of my clubs was making between 15-20 halfway thro her shift..while i had my regs and had made much more than that..And honestly I dont dance hard whatsoever...In fact I do prolly less(dance wise) than 95% of the dancers I dance with and still do well...As Ive gotten older I feel Im worth so damn much lol...
But yea no 30,000..And thats fine w me..id rather not give the bjs or whatever else may b expected for that type of money..
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Originally Posted by
BringOnTheMen
Being GFE ITC usually means everything we remind each other not to do- sitting with customers for HOURS on end without getting paid, getting groped on the main floor, being very liberal during LDs, texting OTC real conversations.
^The dancer in question was still quite new and did/does all of the above. The poor thing has had a few stalkers in her brief career too, so I'm just hoping it wasn't one of these men who offered her the money (and that they don't have her bank acc. details and full name etc now :( ). It IS VERY possible that he offered her the money to start up her label, but, I find it a little hard to believe that he did it for nothing in return IMO (she's had some pretty creepy, older reg's who she's been quite liberal with ITC). If it's the case though-I hope she really does put it to good use and doesn't burn it away and end up back on the pole in a matter of months (because I could see that happening). It would be nice to hear her side of the story. Also, she has "quit" dancing a few times since she started-so that's no real shock.
And Anouk...you didn't create a monster...she was already a "little monster" lol!