drama with another model brought on by a regular... (mfc)
Hey girls,
I had one of my regulars tell me something strange tonight, that he had "accidently" told another model that I said something about her (which I didn't & would never). I'd never heard of this model before tonight, never seen her and certainly never been in her room. Now I'm getting 1 star ratings, and so far 1 post on my wall calling me a bitch & saying I'm rude to both models and members alike. Obviously, I'm going to drop this regular like it's hot- I didn't realize that he was into causing random drama. But how do I go about healing the "damage done"? I don't want this model to continue to send members my way to ruin my reputation, rating & profile. I'm not sure what this member said that I said (hearsay!), doesn't really matter since I didn't. I support my fellow models and if I go in their room, they know! (and are usually from this forum). This whole thing is ridiculous! Anyone else had to deal with some member started drama? Is there anything I can do to get the comment removed from my profile? Again, this is ridiculous and I can't believe I'm posting this embarrassing b.s.
Re: drama with another model brought on by a regular... (mfc)
Provide the chat log where he tells you he said what he said, apologise and let her know (and do) report the member for harassment?
Re: drama with another model brought on by a regular... (mfc)
Just another ugly old loser that's pissed that he can't fuck either of you. Just copy pasta the hell out of the drama and contact her telling her this guy is trying to create bullshit drama. This is the very reason that if a customer talks in my room about another model I either tell him to shut the fuck up or he gets insta banned for 60 days. One guy tried this on me about a week ago and I just played dumb and showed complete disinterest. Then I ignored him while he went on and on and someone took me private. He was dropped from my friends list when he started playing games with how he didn't know how to initiate a private. He was a good reg but now he's just broke and angry because his bed is still empty.
Report and Ban.
Re: drama with another model brought on by a regular... (mfc)
go to edit profile, then go to 'customize', then go to the button that says something like 'edit css directly'. you'll see a white box full of text. inside the box scroll to the bottom of the text. copy and paste the following red text into it. .friends_value {display:none;}. then press save. now no-one can rate you 1 star.. next... go to "manage posts" it's in the left hand of the screen (if you're still on the customise profile page otherwise if you're back at the front page hit edit profile again and then look for it to the left hand side) its a speech bubble with a giant red X on it. delete the posts you dont want anymore.
edit. if you want to disable them from posting on your wall you can also put .wall_options {display:none;} same place you put the other one. it will disable the text box where people write so they wont be able to. when your finished with all this business and want the stuff back just hit "return to basic customisation"
Re: drama with another model brought on by a regular... (mfc)
I had a similar situation recently where my crazy ex (who thought he was being anonymous but really was quite obvious based on what he was saying) came into my free chat and started harassing me and insulting me. When my regs stood up for me and asked what his problem is he claimed that one of the top girls on the site had paid him to come insult me. Lol Crazy, right? One of my regs (without my knowledge) went to her and told her what was being said. Within two minutes she was in my free chat PMing me and apologizing for what was said about her, and also assured me that none of it was true. While I knew she didn't pay a customer to come ruin my night (what kind of sicko would even think to do that???) just the fact that she took time out of her shift to come talk to me and clear the air really meant a lot to me and gave me a certain level of respect for her than I ever would have had otherwise.
It sounds like you need to talk to this girl directly to clear up anything that was said. Also, that's why I make it a rule to ban anyone who comes in talking about another model, good OR bad.
Re: drama with another model brought on by a regular... (mfc)
I had a reg start random dumb shit. He told her something he said but told her I said it. I cussed his ass out put him in his place and he behaved after that. Since she didn't go with the drama I didn't say anything to her but you should at least drop her a msg and tell her he's a fire starter.
Re: drama with another model brought on by a regular... (mfc)
thanks, all of you! I appreciate everyone's time and replies so much! I've banned and reported the user, fixed up my profile (double thanks teenageannie!!) and don't know what I'd do without all my fellow cam girls!