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To MILF or not to MILF? That is the question.
So I'm not actually a Mom, but I'm definitely way into MILF age. Does anyone find that promoting yourself heavily in the MILF niche works well? I could put my age as quite a bit younger and get away with it, but I'm kinda proud of my appearance at my age. I'm thinking maybe it's time to swallow my pride and make some money off of it....but I'm scaaaaared. I don't want to turn off potential dudes by shouting the fact that I'm an older lady, and also because I'm on AW, I have a smaller pool of potential MILF lovers. Anyone?? Anyone??
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I think you need to embrace this. I have been a MILF for 20 years now. And my age is attractive to many people. today Alone online I had numerous 20 y/o's very interested in pvts with me, wanting to know if I liked younger men. I say go for it.
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sexysusie
No no no no no! I.m actually in my 30's but i'll be 23 forever in camland. Whatever anyone says, you will make more by appearing youthful
No no no no no! Seriously you are spot on WRONG on this one! embrace your age, people will respect you more and love you more for it. Trust me.
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Im mid 20's But im Actually curious to see how i do when i hit "MILF" stage. I have a friend who's under that Niche and she Baaanks!
its comes so easy to her! So im Excited for that.... I mean i know its not just that but idk i think guys like it!
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not sure about AW but the milfs on SM who look like they take care of themselves seem to do pretty well in their gold shows. I can see AW guys being kinky enough to appreciate that niche but hopefully some more girls who cam on that site will comment.
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I work the "MILF" Niche on SM, advertise my actual age and do...ok, eventually we all become "MILFS" :)
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I'm a MILF on AW...I've been honest about my age but am thankfully younger looking. I haven't experienced what it's like aging up into MILF status on cam but I get guys of all ages, and your maturity can work for you too.
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I would base whether to brand yourself as a MILF on whether you look the part. If you don't LOOK like a MILF (regardless of your age) then advertising yourself as one won't benefit you.
I'm thinking of one chica in particular on our forum who works aw and is honest about being 40+, and she's fucking supermodel gorgeous. I can think of a several other top earners on sm who are hot as hell and label themselves 40+. One of them shares a customer in common with me, and he adores her. We're nothing alike, but many guys like variety. Labelling themselves as MILFs hasn't seemed to hurt them in the slightest, because MILF is not a synonym for old and fat.
Since 20 year olds are perfectly capable of procreating, the whole MILF concept is preposterous anyways. I think of it as a descriptor for chicas who are sexy, have tits and ass, have that sorta 'I'm living an enthralling life and loving every moment of it' vibe, and look like they have experience to share in all things, including the sexual. They don't look old, but they don't look 25.
Just look at yourself and be objective, knowing that there's nothing inherently better or worse about being 30+
If you look like what you'd think of as a MILF then go for it. If not, then don't. It's about marketing, not any 'embrace your age or you're insecure' crap . Labelling yourself as a MILF if you don't look like one won't do you any favors, (why deliberately target a segment of the population who won't want what you're selling?) but if you do feel you fit the part, go for it. The market for MILFs is huge :)
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Man, this is a tricky one, but I think Loveshooks answer makes the most sense for me in particular. I don't feel anything like the "MILF" category, so I think I'll keep the age I have listed but just focus on other aspects that I do relate better to. Maybe I'll change my mind in a few weeks. Lol I'm already listed in the 30s category so if the youngins' want to find me they will. ;)
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I showcase myself as a milf on sm and I attract all kinds of guys, not just young guys into milf's but older,fetish etc. I am well into my 40's and I am just going to be myself not pretend that I am this young woman.I do look younger then my age though and the guys that come in my room always say that.
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Rosexxxx
I showcase myself as a milf on sm and I attract all kinds of guys, not just young guys into milf's but older,fetish etc. I am well into my 40's and I am just going to be myself not pretend that I am this young woman.I do look younger then my age though and the guys that come in my room always say that.
me too Rosexxx. It's more about personality anyway. And that I GOT! LOL.
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I am a bit confused here, i knew MILF means Mom I Like to Fuck, is that right? Which means a mother of any age especially a "fresh" mother that is eventually lactating, just gave birth or an older mother. That is what members are asking about, if i am "fresh" or "older" mom.
Then i know about Cougar which is normally a lady over 45 that loves younger guys.
Why u talking about MILF's as older women? Please enlighten me, i dont get it ;)
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I'm 44 and and put myself in the MILF category, I do texting too for a uk company and from what I see...those UK men LOVE MILF's they love grans.. I mean 20-30 year olds asking for 40's, 50's and 60's. Try it for a while, If it makes you money, stick with it.
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sexysusie
It's a fact that sexiness is linked with looking fertile ie young, wide hips, pert breasts and good skin and teeth. As the majority of guys on camsites are looking for this, it makes no sense to take yourself out of that market unless you physically can't pull it off anymore. Some girls have an angle or niche they are working which can help them beyond looks, but the horny vanilla guys are our bread and butter.
I guess you could always try out another category and see how you do. But it's going to look mighty confusing if you then shift back again..
Well, Susie, I guess we're going to have to agree to disagree on this one. Most of MY clients are horny vanilla guys, I had two pvts with 20 y/o's yesterday, also a 50 y/o, they love this MILF just fine. And to the bolded, that just doesn't make any sense!
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AliceFun
I am a bit confused here, i knew MILF means Mom I Like to Fuck, is that right? Which means a mother of any age especially a "fresh" mother that is eventually lactating, just gave birth or an older mother. That is what members are asking about, if i am "fresh" or "older" mom.
Then i know about Cougar which is normally a lady over 45 that loves younger guys.
Why u talking about MILF's as older women? Please enlighten me, i dont get it ;)
And, technically I am actually a GILF, but according to your math, I'm not even a cougar yet! lmao, funny.
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Men love women, they love young women, they love cougars/milfs, especially the younger generations. The good thing about older women are their experience....they have experience which sells, they can have intelligent conversations not saying young women cant but older women have a lot more to talk about. Sex sells, women sell, so as long as you have a vagina and tits, you're goooood to go ma'am :d
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Oh and im a milf as well, been one for almost 4 years now, and im in my early twenties. Just saying
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I dont know if putting yourself in the MILF category would hurt. I mean youre in the 30s category right now. Do the youngins searching search for 30+ or do they search for MILF? To some young guys they assume they are one in the same. And MILF is a popular term amoungst the youngins so it could up your traffic.
Maybe give it a trial run and see. If theres a tremendous boost to your traffic and increase in profits you may want to consider altering your cam persona to include the MILF tag, otherwise you can just write it off to your regulars who if they noticed and commented on the new tag as a site glitch.
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Honestly, U can ROCK the MILF label at any age. Im 27 and have a child, which all my regs know this. Im constantly called a milf..they are all amazed at how my body looks after having a child. You don't have to be old to rock it. But yet u don't have to rub it in their face either. That way the guys that love it know..but the guys that hate it can still see u as what they want.
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Alice, I was kinda thinking of going that route as it seems to signify maturity (not always of course) and I'm not old enough to be a cougar. But like Annabellz said, I think most young guys group 30's and MILF together anyway.
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Re: To MILF or not to MILF? That is the question.
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Originally Posted by
AliceFun
I am a bit confused here, i knew MILF means Mom I Like to Fuck, is that right? Which means a mother of any age especially a "fresh" mother that is eventually lactating, just gave birth or an older mother. That is what members are asking about, if i am "fresh" or "older" mom.
Then i know about Cougar which is normally a lady over 45 that loves younger guys.
Why u talking about MILF's as older women? Please enlighten me, i dont get it ;)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MILF_pornography
MILF pornography is a genre of pornography in which the actresses are usually women ages 40 to 50 and some of the actresses have started making pornographic movies at 35 and older.[2] Central to the typical MILF narrative is an age-play dynamic of older women and younger lovers
Another term used in the genre is the cougar, which implies an older woman as predator.[10]
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Im only 21 with two kids, my regs know im a mother and they love it and call me milf all the time! I make more money when i say it. So i have to disagree with some comments on this forum. Personally just do whats best for you. What will work for one girl might not work for another. Personally i feel my custies like knowing im a mother cause it shows theres more then just being a cam girl to them. Im a grown adult i have a loving and caring side but also able to be sexual. That to them is sexy. Most guys fantasy is a good girl on the streets and a freak in the sheets. and being a mom helps them know that. Im proud of my c-section on my stomach when i first started camming i was scared to show it now i embrace it and u know what no one has mentioned it EVER in the 4 years of camming. So embrace what you have dont hide behind steriotypes u are not. U R U there will always be money if u show ur real guys dont like fakeness
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Well IMO the more categories youre in the better. Not everybody searches by age. Some just search for Blonde, or anal, or 'MILF'. If were relying on the average man to know the proper genres of pornography and the correct classification of his fetish then um.. yeah God help us all.
As far as I know to enter yourself in the MILF category, it does not have any specific show requirements of the host as would the anal category. (ie- the host in the anal category is expect to perform anal shows- all that is expected of the host in the MILF category is that they appear to be at least 30 years old, because that is the MILF fantasy. Teenage boys fantasizing about sexing their friends mothers. Its irrelevant if the host actually has children or not. If a 19 yr old guy is searching for MILFS and comes across a young perky 20 year old, hes going to be disappointed. She can insist she belongs there because she has kids and is a mom, therefore a "MILF", but shes not, atleast not in his eyes. Its all subjective.
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Exactly my question. If by claiming MILF status I could be making lots more cash, then I was gonna go for it simply because my age is already listed as 30's. I'm happy to hear different opinions though, because honestly, I'm not that comfy with that label, so as long as I can work it I think I'll not be yet. Quite frankly, the only time I see great $$ from MILF fantasy is the incredibly large amount of naughty Mummy fantasies I get on Phone Chat, but I personally believe it's because I have just really gotten skilled at the hot buttons of that roleplay, not my age.
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Speaking of age, if you're over 30 with a youthful look, you're gonna get guys left and right saying "You look great for your age." LOL. I can tell one of my regulars gets annoyed by that comment (the "for your age" comment), because he'll either post the :eyeroll emote when a guy says it, or he'll PM me a message saying "Ugh." :P
I don't make a big deal out of it. Sure, it sounds a bit strange telling a person "You look great for your age," but I know the guy is trying to give a compliment...lol. But I like to kid around and be like "FOR MY AGE??? So you're calling me 'old', eh?" with a smile on my face.