I personally don't ..and when they ask. what do you think? sometimes they look good though...mostly no.
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I personally don't ..and when they ask. what do you think? sometimes they look good though...mostly no.
Because you're supposed to be horny and desperate for cock?
I'm sure I.ve seen that avatar before :/
If they think you want to see their cam it means you're doing your job well. Pretending that "show tits now bb, i'm a milionair" makes you hornier than ever is an under appreciated job.
I swear I could have made it as a B movie Hollywood actress.
the reason they visit us rather than hitting up a tube site for free porn is because we offer personalized one-on-one interaction, and knowing that the chica can see him is part of that interaction for many guys
I recall reading over in OW about how part of being a successful escort is finding something enjoyable in every client, and I think the same does hold true for us. If a chica can't connect with her customers, the quality of her shows tends to be diminished and the guys will be less likely to return
Some chicas do really well and refuse to view cams, so in writing the above I'm not intending to imply that 'one must love a faceful of cock or you'll fail'. Far from it. There's as many ways to run as a business as there are chicas working in it. All I'm saying is that cam2cam is something highly desirable to a portion of our target market, in that they equate cam2cam with interaction. That's ultimately what we're selling.
I think successful chicas who hate cam2cam find other ways to create that personalized interaction. It's all about negotiating one's own comfort level with the desires of one's customer base.
That said, I find dudes who use cock pics as avatars to be simultaneously creepy and hilarious.
In private or exclusive I love watching their cams. Love the interaction. Love to see their smile when I unleash my boobs. Lately, my c2c are HOT, like model hot guys in their 20s with huge dicks. So I don't mind at all.
Keep in mind those who do c2c become my best spending regulars.
Smooches,
Sam
I prefer when guys turn on their cams. It's much less boring and I find that it gives me more to "work with" thus making the private longer, but feel like it's moving quicker since there is more interaction.
I don't care if they are "hot" either. Most of my most favorite regulars are overweight or old... doesn't matter to me. In fact I tend to find the hot ones who turn on their cams are cocky and idiotic and thus annoy the fuck out of me and make me want to just end the show.
A lot of guys have this hope that if we see them and think they're sexy then we'll start giving them sessions for free or want to hook up. I've had quite a few guys tell me this.
But I do enjoy c2c because I prefer seeing their reaction rather than waiting for them to type feedback. I like to know if I'm doing a good job or if I need to tweak my performance.
I also really enjoy cam to cam. I dare say, I actually prefer it. From a practical standpoint it helps me to see where they're at so I can pace myself better, either slowing down or speeding up at the right times for maximum enjoyment on the customer's part. Also, I really, really love penises. I think they are beautiful. I always enjoy my shows much more when I get to see one. Then again I've been really lucky that I've never c2c'ed with anyone who's hideous or deformed or something, knock on wood.
I like when they turn their cams on too... it makes it easier for me because I generally do domme work and I can humiliate them easier when I have something to comment on.
In general, though, I think because *they* get off on watching *us* on cam, they project their desires onto us and assume that we must love watching them as well.
I actually love cam2cam! I find it makes it easier to do my job because it helps me gauge how well I am doing by their reactions on cam. Whether they are attractive or not doesn't really matter to me. My job has nothing to do with my own sexual satisfaction. It is to present the illusion of 'the perfect girl' for them to get off to and then forget about.
Just like the others said, I like it cause I can see their reactions etc. I don't mind if they are old, fat or whatever.
And oh come on I love to see expressions like these: =D
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But I have a dude, he always purchases blocks, and he looks at me something like this:
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I hate it! I cannot get used to it. First I always thought I'm gross, he is horrified or I don't know. And suddenly he bursted out: why don't you live closer, so I could be your sex slave, you are so fucking hot!!! And he continued looking at me like I was the most disgusting thing ever... lol
Edit: why my attachments don't work properly? o.O
I like C2C too. I mean I don't "like" it like they do, I don't get off on watching them or anything. But it helps to see what an effect I'm having if you know what I mean ;) I also kinda keel if I can see him wanking and ogling me, he's unlikely to also be fiddling with recording devices. It actually makes me feel uncomfortable when the guy is younger and attractive though, I don't show it of course (hope i don't anyway!), but I feel very self conscious and a bit silly, and almost assume they must only be watching to laugh at me... paranoia much lol?
Dick pics on the other hand, or asking me to view their cam in free... well i have to fight hard not to scream at them through the camera!!!! Honestly I could kill when they do that. I have been know to bluntly tell them unless they're paying I don't wanna see their ugly maggot.
I like cam to cam as long as they don't start with the tongue thing :D
^^ Ohh...the tongue thing!! Guys used to do that to me as a dancer as well, and I HATE it...it is just creepy.
Anyway...most of my c2c requests are for SPH, and I much prefer it that way. There is something really frustrating about attempting to humiliate a cock without being able to visually react to it - hearing "oh, its tiny" just isn't the same.
As for the rest, I like working with c2c for longer sessions, or sessions when there is some talking going on as well - like the others have said, it helps create a connection. HOWEVER - I am not a fan for short sessions that just follow the standard suck'n'fuck - I don't need to see a close up of a cock for 2 minutes.
As for why they like it - well, I personally think that for most of them it is the interaction thing - I have one guy who (hilariously) likes to position his cam to give me an approximate view of being fucking missionary style. It's like he is really trying to make the webcam sex thing as real as possible. Luckily he's pretty cute, so it's not a hardship, it just cracks me up. For dom guys, it is often so that we have something to use to personalize abuse. And for many, well, I guess that the assumption is that they want to see us come, so why wouldn't we want to see them cum? IF you have done your job well, and convinced them that they are special and you really care if they get off, it makes sense that they would assume you want to see it.
If it bugs you, just don't look!
My favorite all-time cam to cam session was when a (very hot) regular took a shower for me :)
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I also really like C2C and the phone feature. I thrive from the interaction and feel like my shows are much hotter (and always much longer). I cannot stand to perform with no interaction. It is much more exciting to me when they utilize the features.
I'm sorry I hate c2c for the vast majority of the time. And when they do that fucking tongue thing I want to rip it off, shred it with my cheese grater, make it into a smoothie, and make them drink it through a straw. The tongue thing is my personal cam girl insta-trigger lol.
Because they want to see our cams, so of course we must want to see their cams. They're here because they're horny, therefore we must be here for the same reason (that's why we get so many, "Don't you want to show me your tits for free?" guys)
Also, Loveshooks, triple thanks if I could for your comment!
Is the tounge thing is when they stick it out and act like they are licking? If so I like it lol! I immediately push very-very close to the cam ANYTHING that made them start the licking thing, at least I can make bored face etc. while they are entertaining themselves.
Hahahaha the tongue thing!!! YES!!!!! It is so entertaining to me when my customers try to give me oral through my webcam. I swear some of them try harder than I do, bless their little hearts <3
And I really am an exhibitionist, and also a voyeur at heart, so I probably get off on camming more than I should. I don't know. It makes me feel incredibly sexy when I see someone orgasm for me. It's like, "Aww, I Did That!" Because you know how sometimes you get those two minute guys who don't leave you a rating after the show and you sit there scratching your head wondering if you are Really Good or Really Bad? Well if I can see their cam it's like okay, I'm still really good, nothing to worry about here :)
I am in a long distance romance so that probably colors my perspective but I absolutely LOVE watching my sweetheart perform for me! Sometimes when I am in a cam to cam at work and all the guy gives me is a cock shot and not his face/body, I like to pretend it's my sweetheart there with me and I get Sooo into it! Who says you can't love your job???
I don't like C2C. But it is part of my job and part of my job is being an actress and pretending that I like looking at overweight hairy chest guys jerking off to me. I've been camming for a over a year and I have yet to ever enjoy or been turned on by C2C but I think part of that has to do w me having a BF. But anyway just be an actress and smile for the cam and tell em "Oh yeah I love watching you stroke that cock". LOL