Do you think....being personal w/ customers will help me make more $$ or no??
I usually lie about where I'm from, my age, and just try to get them to do all the talking....but ....Is it possible...that being emotionally intimate could make me more $$ than saying "you look like you have a huge cock" cuz I usually just say whatevers dirty and roll w/ that
Re: Do you think....being personal w/ customers will help me make more $$ or no??
Agreed, 20% about you and 80% about them- always closing though. 3 songs max with a guy (depending on how busy club is) if you think he could be a spender (not hope he could be a spender) when using this technique; after that he need to be paying, in VIP.
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i give some fake information if they ask..with some it makes them feel like they're more intimate with you and that you'd tell them things you wouldn't just tell any customer, and that you must feel comfortable with them. almost every guy asks me my real name, i always tell em "jennifer" or "veronica" whatever the hell i feel like that night..thats if they ask tho most guys just want to talk about themselves haha. you have to read the customer, some like "i can't wait to grind on your huge cock" porno talk and others like the intimate personal convos.
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yes, i find its helpful for me, i've gotten more reliable customers since ive been more personal. i've made up a whole fake life that i tell to everyone, the SAME. that for me is KEY. fake "real" name, fake "home town", fake degree, fake college... the thing is, i know a lot about my "fake" town that i live in, so if they ask "oh have you been to xyz restaurant?" i can know what they're talking about and not look like a lying idiot. now that i have so many customers they might call me my "real" name in front of another customer--you want it to be the same one and not "blow your cover", ruin the trust, and ruin the girl-custy relationship.
they feel like they KNOW you. they are "one of the special ones" that not a lot of ppl have the privilege of knowing about. ALSO, remember their personal things. even if you have to write it down. i use the memo app in my phone, put it under their name, what they look like (if i just met them), and things they told me that will be important to remember. such as, they have a big deal coming up next week. so when they come in next time, ask them how the deal went down. etc etc.
the biggest thing is to maake them feel important in your life. even when only the money they give you is important. lol
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Personally I cannot for the life of me do the talk dirty/ act nasty thing. I don't look down on it, honestly I wish I COULD, because I know a lot of girls make money off it. I get very personal, and it's great because you can make up this entire world of lies. Honestly most big spending customers I get spend big BECAUSE we get personal. Of course there's some time wasters who want to talk, talk, talk, and get maybe $60 worth of dances.
If you don't want to lie, or be real, there's a lot of conversations that can get "deep", that actually aren't personal. A lot of guys love talking about music, their hobbies, the city (depending on where you are), where they're from, what they do, where they went to school, how they know their friends, ect.
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I also find a lot of guys like to talk about where they have traveled. That can get very personal. :)
Re: Do you think....being personal w/ customers will help me make more $$ or no??
Number one thing that works for me, is be sure to make eye contact while talking not looking around the club, and be sure to smile anytime you repeat his name.... Guys are amazing that I remember their name 5 min later