Possibble $$ Crossdresser/sissy
I had a guy contact me on a dating site of all places when it is clearly marked lesbian on my profile. He asked me if I am into crossdressing males. Does that mean he wants the sissy type treatment if so I have no idea what to do and how to get him on SM. Help!
Re: Possibble $$ Crossdresser/sissy
LOL!
He may honestly be looking to date - I know a few trans/xdressers who find it really difficult to find straight women who want to date them, so they just cast the net REALLY wide in the hope of finding someone...and lets face it, the standard dating criteria of "straight/gay" doesn't really take into account subtlety of sexual orientation like this.
I would e-mail him and tell him that you only DATE women, but that you (giggle, tee hee, are such a horny slut) love to "play" with sissy boys on and he should come show off his sexiest lingerie for you!
Re: Possibble $$ Crossdresser/sissy
I told him I am Lez and gave him my link. I think he wants to be dominated.
Re: Possibble $$ Crossdresser/sissy
I don't necessarily see all cross-dressing men as "sissies", so it could be a variety of issues. I don't really like to speculate on people's gender identities so I'm not going to try to guess, really. He's a (presumably) cis-male who contacted a cis-female lesbian on a public dating site, in hopes of what? A date? Unless he mentioned fetish play, specifically, I would have no reason to assume that was what he wanted. Based on your post, he sounds like a cross-dressing male who's barking up the wrong tree.
I'm not sure how or why you wold spend very much effort trying to turn him into a paying customer, on SM. He's on a dating site, which means he's looking for IRL women to date, correct? If anything, he's just being annoying, trying to reach out to gay girls by way of just being a gender-bender. Unless that's your thing (which is what he's asking), I would simply ignore it and delete the mail. If you try to start a dialogue, he may just end up begging you and harassing you about dating him, for free. This would not be out of the question because it is a dating website. If you absolutely have to respond, send a single sentence telling him that you aren't interested in dating men and if he wants further contact with you he can find you at (insert SM model link here). Then delete the email. Problem solved.
Re: Possibble $$ Crossdresser/sissy
I told him if he wants more to contact me on my site.