Hello all!
I'm new here just now and have a question:
Without going into to much detail (or beyond my actual question), I went to the best club in the town w/a friend of mine recently, which I'll do once or twice a year. I usually go just for something different, hang out, have some drinks and look around, and I always tip the dancers, but never any lap dances. I have no problem w/girls looking and am fairly used to it, so it's not unusual for me. Anyway, as soon as we got in there, we ordered a few beers at the bar, then my friend took off pretty soon to say hi and make his rounds, leaving me at the bar alone, which was fine and I was just content to hang out.
Of course, very quickly an attractive dancer came up and started chatting w/me. However, from the getgo, I noticed it was very different then ever before and I keyed into this very quickly thru her non-verbals, etc...that while she was of course doing her thing (making rounds, etc), it was more than that. She seemed almost nervous, playing w/her hair, totally engaging me, and just talking to me. She also seemed very very genuine, interested and introduced herself w/her real name (I'm sure this isn't abnormal though but obviously doesn't hurt). I can't explain it, but I know the difference between business and someone being real...this was very real. At one point pretty quick she asked if I was married. This wasn't casual question either from my perspective...it was presented in a way that a girl would I met at Wal-Mart and was interested, and thus fishing.
This was not even close to the end of the night w/her and if I was to go into detail...just he tip of a very large iceberg.
My question is, is "Are you married" a typical question? Is it crazy to think a dancer is interested by just mere sight? Because if she's not, then all of my instincts which are spot on 99% of the time in everyday life are completely wrong and this girl should be at Scores or Hollywood.
Thanks!

