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PixiieGirl
Im just honest and say its time of the month, if it;s an issue I let them know when Ill be doing them again. It does lose some business but I can still do well tbh
I take my birth control pills back to back I know it doesn't work for everyone, but it definitely put things on a consistent schedule so I could work all year and I am taking less time off because of my period
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minniesoporno
I take my birth control pills back to back I know it doesn't work for everyone, but it definitely put things on a consistent schedule so I could work all year and I am taking less time off because of my period
I also do that for health reasons and it is life changing. :D
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minniesoporno
I take my birth control pills back to back I know it doesn't work for everyone, but it definitely put things on a consistent schedule so I could work all year and I am taking less time off because of my period
I did that once. Caused a yeast infection. Never again.
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SapphireXO
I did that once. Caused a yeast infection. Never again.
That’s odd, I wonder if it was the type of pills? Mine are monophastic and were prescribed for taking continuously (although they are not normally taken that way)
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Maybe I'm super tired but I cant find the thread on splitcamming. I have a HD 1080p logitech and would log to split cam. Can we with SMconnect? And which program is the best to use? I only want to split two sites.
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izshadow
Maybe I'm super tired but I cant find the thread on splitcamming. I have a HD 1080p logitech and would log to split cam. Can we with SMconnect? And which program is the best to use? I only want to split two sites.
thread on split camming https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...de-for-newbies
personally i just do one live site and run 3-5 non-live sites at the same time. that way i can focus on the live chat and also make money between indie shows.
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Does anyone use a TV as a second monitor? Tried this today and the TV said "no signal hdmi1, check source". And the computer was not detecting it) in Display settings, Windows. Any ideas?
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Hey girls. Okay this a somewhat legal question, but here goes, Do you need to trademark your name? I'm curious. My end goal is for THIS to happen: say I die tomorrow, I want my husband to still make $$ from my pornhub/manyvids, xvideos those things. So, would trademarking my name help with that happening. (We are have our wills done this year too)
If trademarking my name doesn't matter, no big deal.
I just really want my husband to still make "my money" after I pass away. sorry it's talking about those kinda hard to talk about life events, but it's a real concern in protecting myself/$$. thanks for any input on this.
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JessRyan
Hey girls. Okay this a somewhat legal question, but here goes, Do you need to trademark your name? I'm curious. My end goal is for THIS to happen: say I die tomorrow, I want my husband to still make $$ from my pornhub/manyvids, xvideos those things. So, would trademarking my name help with that happening. (We are have our wills done this year too)
If trademarking my name doesn't matter, no big deal.
I just really want my husband to still make "my money" after I pass away. sorry it's talking about those kinda hard to talk about life events, but it's a real concern in protecting myself/$$. thanks for any input on this.
Trademark law is very complex and specific. I'd contact a lawyer and ask them. fair warning, legal zoom is kind of a shit show so i'd avoid it.
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Hey girls . I always used my paypal account ONLY to buy stuff , never sold anything . Now, there is one guy that want a customized clip ( im not yet selling content anywhere) and he suggested to pay for the clip through paypal. What he can see when paying me? Is not about him charging back his money , he is 100% thrust worthy BUT, i do not want him or anybody to know my real information: my name, my address or such . So what he will see when sending me money through paypal ? Thank you .
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Lola4u
Hey girls . I always used my paypal account ONLY to buy stuff , never sold anything . Now, there is one guy that want a customized clip ( im not yet selling content anywhere) and he suggested to pay for the clip through paypal. What he can see when paying me? Is not about him charging back his money , he is 100% thrust worthy BUT, i do not want him or anybody to know my real information: my name, my address or such . So what he will see when sending me money through paypal ? Thank you .
DO NOT USE PAYPAL FOR ADULT SERVICES EVER! they can easily get your name, paypal clearly does not allow adult transactions in the ToS, he can chargeback at any time, and your account will be seized by paypal (you will not recieve any funds you have on there either and will receive a lifetime ban). don't do it. no customer is 100% trust worthy and if he has your personal info (which, again, he will easily be able to get), you could easily have a stalker on your hands. don't do it. there are tons of xxx friendly payment methods that do not have chargebacks and where your personal info is secure: indiebill, manyvids, unblur, etc. just to name a few. no customer is worth risking your safety for EVER.
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caramelcraze
DO NOT USE PAYPAL FOR ADULT SERVICES EVER! they can easily get your name, paypal clearly does not allow adult transactions in the ToS, he can chargeback at any time, and your account will be seized by paypal (you will not recieve any funds you have on there either and will receive a lifetime ban). don't do it. no customer is 100% trust worthy and if he has your personal info (which, again, he will easily be able to get), you could easily have a stalker on your hands. don't do it. there are tons of xxx friendly payment methods that do not have chargebacks and where your personal info is secure: indiebill, manyvids, unblur, etc. just to name a few. no customer is worth risking your safety for EVER.
Thank you ! This is , i guess, what i needed to hear to take my decision . I do not want my real information to be available to anyone for any money .
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Vlodina
Does anyone use a TV as a second monitor? Tried this today and the TV said "no signal hdmi1, check source". And the computer was not detecting it) in Display settings, Windows. Any ideas?
Just saw this. Hopefully you got it figured out by now.
I have had this issue in the past.
This is what I have done to fix it.
1) Check the cables in the back of the computer and the television
2) Check Display settings in windows
3) Check and possibly change the source on tv
4) Check graphics card drivers and the display sources.
5) Power off pc and tv and turn back on
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Pornhub Insights says Fridays are the least busy days but I just can't believe that. Is Friday really usually dead?
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naomi_doll
Pornhub Insights says Fridays are the least busy days but I just can't believe that. Is Friday really usually dead?
It depends I guess, it’s usually one of my better days
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naomi_doll
Pornhub Insights says Fridays are the least busy days but I just can't believe that. Is Friday really usually dead?
I love Fridays! I’ve had at least a couple of my record days on a Friday
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What’s the best way to deal with guys who come into your room and start offloading or talking about really depressing stuff?
I’ve had two today and it was really draining. They weren’t paying and never have but I didn’t want to just ruthlessly ban or mute them as that might upset them even more! They are human after all! But I also don’t have the energy to listen to it lol. I just logged off but that doesn’t really help me as I’m trying to money haha. What’s a nice, tactful way to say something?!
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gbjenna
What’s the best way to deal with guys who come into your room and start offloading or talking about really depressing stuff?
I’ve had two today and it was really draining. They weren’t paying and never have but I didn’t want to just ruthlessly ban or mute them as that might upset them even more! They are human after all! But I also don’t have the energy to listen to it lol. I just logged off but that doesn’t really help me as I’m trying to money haha. What’s a nice, tactful way to say something?!
Tell them to go seek therapy, :) then block them... Just another form of energy vampires, if it's draining you eject them or block them. If you don't they'll take you down with them with no remorse. They're obviously too "depressed" to spend money / hit the tip button to spark some serotonin while being emotionally draining why bother?
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gbjenna
What’s the best way to deal with guys who come into your room and start offloading or talking about really depressing stuff?
I’ve had two today and it was really draining. They weren’t paying and never have but I didn’t want to just ruthlessly ban or mute them as that might upset them even more! They are human after all! But I also don’t have the energy to listen to it lol. I just logged off but that doesn’t really help me as I’m trying to money haha. What’s a nice, tactful way to say something?!
Strategies to deal with that:
1) Redirect the conversation
2) Take a break to save your sanity
3) Focus on other members entering your room and hustle them, or pretend you are having a conversation with someone else.
4) Let them know in your way- that you are there to work. They can tip you for your time and energy.
5) Offer for them to go for a show where they can talk about it
6) If they keep pushing after you have set your boundaries- kick, block (you are not therapist.)
7) Ignore- pretend you are messaging someone.
8) Adjust the angle of your camera- taking it off the face, or the eyes in particular.
Hope this helps. I have had to deal with this issue and it does come up from time to time.
We teach people how to treat us- Boundaries are crucial in our line of work.
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^Minimum human thing you can do. Tell them therapy and finding the right medication is the way to go, then proceed to ignore that draining nonsense.
Hun, you can't save them all, so don't worry about it. Some of them just want to put models in a bad mood. Venting on a porn website about mental health is not quite an adult approach, unless they are actually close to you and spending time with you makes them feel better.
I have a widow customer that tells me all the time: "You are good for my depression". Thing is, he does spend and always tries to find entertaining subjects to forget about his mental state, so he's not a bargain for me.
But talking negative left and right, no boy. I already have my own shit to deal with, I'm not responsible for other's state of mind.
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gbjenna
What’s the best way to deal with guys who come into your room and start offloading or talking about really depressing stuff?
I’ve had two today and it was really draining. They weren’t paying and never have but I didn’t want to just ruthlessly ban or mute them as that might upset them even more! They are human after all! But I also don’t have the energy to listen to it lol. I just logged off but that doesn’t really help me as I’m trying to money haha. What’s a nice, tactful way to say something?!
I acknowledge their mood however state that type of energy isn't permitted in my room. It may appear calloused, but my mental health is just as important as theirs. When they refuse to cease I kick. If they come back upset: block (this rarely happens).
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So I'm looking into making a Skype number to sell texting / pso call packages on Indie Bill & was wondering if it'e even possible to do so so they can't see my real number? Has anyone done with with success, if so could you please give me insight as I'm new to indie stuff. Pm's are welcome :)
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I have a couple of miscellaneous questions and hope there not too ridiculous.
1. When split camming with multiple sites and somebody wants to C2C on one and I want to still stream on the other sites and their audio is, well audible, can those other men on the other sites hear it? I don’t want them hearing this of course, so at the moment I’m muting the others just in case.
2. I have a few guys who skype and pay me direct and I’m building these indies up slowly but surely but they randomly message me to see if I’m available to cam at all times and I’m missing being able to cam with them. Would it be wrong or indiscrete to message them on skype weekly my availability?
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Carmel57
I have a couple of miscellaneous questions and hope there not too ridiculous.
1. When split camming with multiple sites and somebody wants to C2C on one and I want to still stream on the other sites and their audio is, well audible, can those other men on the other sites hear it? I don’t want them hearing this of course, so at the moment I’m muting the others just in case.
Yes, they will be able to hear the customer with his audio enabled. Muting the freechat site or whichever isn't paying is probably the best choice in that scenario.
2. I have a few guys who skype and pay me direct and I’m building these indies up slowly but surely but they randomly message me to see if I’m available to cam at all times and I’m missing being able to cam with them. Would it be wrong or indiscrete to message them on skype weekly my availability?
No this is not wrong at all. This is exactly what I do. I don't wait for them to contact me. Instead I hit them up first. It's even better when you can get an email address for newsletters. Create a shout-out message with a link to your payment page and maybe a video/pic teaser. If you have a website then create a blog update with your availability times. Think about how stores like Sephora send out messages and then work from there.
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Thank you I will start doing that.