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I am sooo upset !!!!
I work on SM late at night usually form 1am till like 8-9am cause its really good for me, and i am a more of a "night time" person, I have been like this for a while.
I usually sleep daytime from like 8am till 6pm, I know its kinda a bad habit but its hard for me to change it, but anyway I live in dallas area in a apartment complex and one day around 12 noon pest control came to my house, well my didlos were on my couch in the living room, and cam was still on and all the lighting all over the place !!!! they guys were like what are you doing ??? i said its none of ur buissness .... after a few days My toilet got stuck and i went to the apartment manager so she can send some help !!!! SHe was like ohhhh Are u doing something illegal in your house???? Are you shooting porn??? U are not allowed to run a buisness from your house" I was shooked !!!!!!!!!! didnt know what to say damnnn I always pay my rent on time, never have a noises complains I am very carefull, Always kepp my blinds on, and i am not really loud but commmon,,,, i felt so ashame she put me down infront of few people there at the apartment office !!!!!! I am so upset i wanna move out of here !!!!!!!! I dont wanna live in a partment complex anymore, but not sure if i wanna rent a house..... any advice?
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for next, remember to put on your chain lock or the lock the lock with no keyhole. that's how i keep pest control from barging in. also it sucks she did that to you. i would ask for a formal apology or complain to a manager. and you are not shooting porn in your home, i would have to her that matter-of-factually. however be careful about them knowing you cam. most places will not allow you to run any kind of business in your apartment.
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UGH, that's so rude of her.
Does your lease say you can't work from home?!
Don't feel ashamed, you aren't doing anything wrong!!
Is your apartment complex owned by a large company, or is it personally owned?
If its a large company I would either call, or write a letter (or both) to them explaining what she did. That she purposely embarrassed you in front of several other tenants, and that this interferes with you're 'reasonable enjoyment' (not sure if this is called something else in the US...Im in Canada) and you consider it harassment. Im not sure of exactly where, but Im sure there's a sort of privacy law where she can't be telling other people what kinds of personal items are in your unit.
If it IS in your lease that you aren't allowed to 'run a business' from home, say you weren't. A shit load of people have webcams and dildos, lol.
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Also, I would imagine that camming on SM would not count as 'running a business' from home, since you don't OWN the business.
I mean, would they tell, say, a telemarketer that they can't work from home?
No.
However, I wouldn't start shit with them about THAT, I would still keep camming on the d/l cause you don't want to have to PROVE anything to them.
I would DEF. make sure you raise a stink about her talking about it in front of other people though.
I would be fucking LIVID.
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It is, technically, triple-y illegal. You're not allowed to run a business from home where you are renting, you are not supposed to run a business without a business license (in some places), and you are not allowed to film porn in a place someone else owns without their permission. Of course most people get away with it because its very hard to prove, but yeah the manager is right and its grounds for eviction. Hopefully he/she does not care that much. I would move if I were you, as soon as possible.
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Wow, what a fucking bitch.
Now that I got that out, seriously, COMPLAIN. And if that doesn't work, pack up shit and move on out to a place with BETTER staff. Unbelievable! You better get free rent from their asses for an apology.
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Okay, so it looks like camming WOULD count as running a business! lol, since it's like being an independent contractor.
Soooo, if you go the apology route, you might want to be able to back your income up, to prove you aren't doing that.....
Do you do any vanilla work at ALL?
Worse comes to worse, Im sure you could 'fudge' documents saying you do telemarketing or transcription work so you don't get evicted.
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thanks for your support !!!!!!!!!!!
i am so stressed out and u have no idea no one put me down like this !!!! I feel like a slut in their eyes !!! U know i am a good person i help my friends go to college.... and yea i am a camwhore...... damnnn I am kinda scared they will call police an me and get a search warrant or smth, my apartmet complex is owned by a large company and in the contract it says that i am not allowed to run a buissness !!!! but fukkk I am not running anything, i am just working, but they might have an idea that i produce movies, or maybe even bring guys over and shot porn,,,, omg they were serious and it kinda scares me !!!! They cannot prove me anything cause how they would do it... and plus I am NOT doing anything ILLEGAL, u know webcamming is 100% legal and as well being a stripper we all pay taxes!!!!! prostitution is ILLEGAL but I would never do anything like that, ......
I will be scred the next few days but as soon as my lease is over in may i will move out !!! I have learnt my lesson now !!! We learn our mistakes everyday !!! when one problem is over, something else comes up !!!! SOmetimes i am thinking is it just me ?? or everyone else dmmm I just wanna live peacefully, I am not hurting anyone they only thing that i do !!! I get to pleasure myself and have a good time on cam !!! and it only shows where we cammodels stand in a society .... its sad but i hope it gonna change sooon !!!!
my regards thanks everyone for ur support
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Originally Posted by
lewandowskaewelina
my apartmet complex is owned by a large company and in the contract it says that i am not allowed to run a buissness !!!! but fukkk I am not running anything, i am just working, but they might have an idea that i produce movies, or maybe even bring guys over and shot porn,,,, omg they were serious and it kinda scares me !!!! They cannot prove me anything cause how they would do it... and plus I am NOT doing anything ILLEGAL
Camming is running a business, and running it from home. If its in your lease that you can't do that, and they know you are doing it and don't approve, they will likely try to evict you.
I would try to move asap, because you are now are their radar and they have expressed that they are displeased with what you are doing.
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I'm going to go read my lease now brb
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Pearl_Sugar
I'm going to go read my lease now brb
But even if its not in your lease, you still need written permission to 1.) run a business from home, and 2.) shoot porn in a rental unit that does not belong to you.
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well they told me to come tomorrow morning to the apartments office !!!! and talk about it !!!! well if they want me to move out I will, but if there is a way of me making an excuse (boyfriend gift) or whatever I will try to convince them, but My apt looks seriously look like a studio :( well we will see tomorrow I know i wont sleep all night till 9am tomorrow !!!!!!!!!! :(:(
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I am afraid the most about being sued buttt my mind is freaking out now, maybe wont be that bad !!!!
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lewandowskaewelina
I am sooo upset !!!!
I work on SM late at night usually form 1am till like 8-9am cause its really good for me, and i am a more of a "night time" person, I have been like this for a while.
I usually sleep daytime from like 8am till 6pm, I know its kinda a bad habit but its hard for me to change it, but anyway I live in dallas area in a apartment complex and one day around 12 noon pest control came to my house, well my didlos were on my couch in the living room, and cam was still on and all the lighting all over the place !!!! they guys were like what are you doing ??? i said its none of ur buissness .... after a few days My toilet got stuck and i went to the apartment manager so she can send some help !!!! SHe was like ohhhh Are u doing something illegal in your house???? Are you shooting porn??? U are not allowed to run a buisness from your house" I was shooked !!!!!!!!!! didnt know what to say damnnn I always pay my rent on time, never have a noises complains I am very carefull, Always kepp my blinds on, and i am not really loud but commmon,,,, i felt so ashame she put me down infront of few people there at the apartment office !!!!!! I am so upset i wanna move out of here !!!!!!!! I dont wanna live in a partment complex anymore, but not sure if i wanna rent a house..... any advice?
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Originally Posted by
lewandowskaewelina
well they told me to come tomorrow morning to the apartments office !!!! and talk about it !!!! well if they want me to move out I will, but if there is a way of me making an excuse (boyfriend gift) or whatever I will try to convince them, but My apt looks seriously look like a studio :( well we will see tomorrow I know i wont sleep all night till 9am tomorrow !!!!!!!!!! :(:(
Hide all of your stuff right now and request that they do a walk through right then, right after the meeting. Lie and say you were skyping with your boyfriend for his birthday. Have fake documents showing you do some other sort of independent contract job.
If they are having a meeting with you though, I suspect they will try to evict you, or give you a formal written warning. If they accuse you of doing porn, tell them to prove it and show you your porn work because you don't have any. Just don't admit to anything and if they keep questioning you, you should say that you would rather them speak to your attorney if they want to question you on such matters.
In the end, if they want to evict you, they will. But they will have to prove what you're doing. Its not impossible, but its a good amount of work or being creepy around your apartment.
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One thing I want to add, is if they ARE going to try and evict you, it will take time.
No clue how things work where you are, but don't let them just scare you into moving sooner than is comfortable for you ($$ wise, that is)
Ive been in a situation before, where I was embarrassed because they wanted eviction, and moved before I had to, into a place I didn't like as much.
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You didn't mention whether or not you were given notice that pest control was going to be entering your apartment. If you weren't you may have grounds for some recourse (or at least it would be worth mentioning when you go talk to them.) Landlord/tenant laws vary by state so you would need to look up the law concerning illegal entry for your state- but if you are informed of the law and let them know this, at least you've got something to counter with.
Good luck!
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I wrote this big thing but realized something: How did you react when she said you had to meet with her bc you make porn? I realized without knowing what you coped to or your reaction in the moment - we may be giving overly broad advice? Also are you in the US**?
Small comments:
-Go to sleep soon so youre refreshed tomorrow for the meeting. You dont want to stay up all night then be cracked out during the meeting, ykwim
-Look up tenant's laws and rights for your state**, read everything you can find, print everything you can find and highlight anything relevant
-There are usually landlord/tenant dispute hotlines you can call for legal advice. Just have your situation as succinctly prepared as possible. Theyll definitely want to know if you have children or live in subsidized housing as thatll impact their advice.
-Practice your answers
-Practice being calm, collected, and unphased, if they have this big ole discovery about you and demand a meeting in 24-48hours - I doubt theyre super prepared for a tenant who is calmly answering (and posing) questions and more hoping youll be hysterical and apologetic
-We arent lawyers, lol, and this is your shelter, so dont just rely on what you read here. definitely read up your state's** tenants/housing rights stuff and contact housing advocates specific to your state** for support.
-Read your lease like it is a love letter from your celebrity crush. Then read it 10 more times.
**if youre not in the US, I wrote this US-centrically so I apologize!
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Originally Posted by
roast
I wrote this big thing but realized something: How did you react when she said you had to meet with her bc you make porn? I realized without knowing what you coped to or your reaction in the moment - we may be giving overly broad advice? Also are you in the US**?
Small comments:
-Go to sleep soon so youre refreshed tomorrow for the meeting. You dont want to stay up all night then be cracked out during the meeting, ykwim
-Look up tenant's laws and rights for your state**, read everything you can find, print everything you can find and highlight anything relevant
-There are usually landlord/tenant dispute hotlines you can call for legal advice. Just have your situation as succinctly prepared as possible. Theyll definitely want to know if you have children or live in subsidized housing as thatll impact their advice.
-Practice your answers
-Practice being calm, collected, and unphased, if they have this big ole discovery about you and demand a meeting in 24-48hours - I doubt theyre super prepared for a tenant who is calmly answering (and posing) questions and more hoping youll be hysterical and apologetic
-We arent lawyers, lol, and this is your shelter, so dont just rely on what you read here. definitely read up your state's** tenants/housing rights stuff and contact housing advocates specific to your state** for support.
-Read your lease like it is a love letter from your celebrity crush. Then read it 10 more times.
**if youre not in the US, I wrote this US-centrically so I apologize!
Thanks roast and thanks everyone else:) I didnt want to bother anyone but I am so happy i found advice here and support. U know i didnt have anyone in my reall life that i could talk about this situation, cause no one from my friends know that i am camming, so THANK U :) I am glad i have u here, and i will take ur advice. I will spend some time to search online, and I will practice and I will have to be very prepared for tomorrow. ONE thing someone mentioned in the post, they didnt give me ANY notice about pest control, they just knocked on my door, and thats why i was so suprised they came in !!! Also yesterday, the same guy that did pest control knocked on my door and I didnt answer the door and within like 2 minutes, he tried to open the door himself cause the apartments office propably gave him a keyes !!!! he thought i am not there !!! i opened the door and told him nicely to tell me ahead of time to come next time.
well, i will be prepared for the worst cause i wont get disappointed !!!
I had a glass of wine to calm down which i never drink just clear my head and i know this situation is really serious and i shouldnt make a joke about it but i will, I thought of telling them tomorrow "listen if i was shooting porn" dont u think i would be living in a house with a swimming pool, and drive a nice car? lol and I live in a cheap apartments and drive a shitty car :) Wow what a nice porn star AM i ???? hahha of course i wont say anything like THAT !!!! just tryna joke around,
but definietly i will post tomorrow how the meeting went !!!
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I am shocked and appalled that a fucking pest control guy can just go into your apartment!!!??? Why couldn't he just mind his own damn business? I always thought most women are the worst at gossiping and sabotaging but there are men out there who are absolutely horrible! Fuck him!
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yeaaa right !!! sometimes i feel like there are so many haters they wish they had pussy to do this job !!!!
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Or could afford some pussy!
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Originally Posted by
lewandowskaewelina
yeaaa right !!! sometimes i feel like there are so many haters they wish they had pussy to do this job !!!!
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Here, pest control is required to give a 24 hour notice at least. Usually they post a flyer on your door 48 hours ahead of time, or you call the manager and personally schedule a time frame where he/she OKs it with you that the pest control or maintenance will have your keys to get it. And they knock for like 5-10 mins before coming in. That is my experience. So print out laws about that in your city/county/state to use against them. Make a big file. If the manager tries to attack you in any way, throw that in his/her face.
Don't rely on the landlord/tenant help places or hotlines because they will only be able to help you after you have been served an eviction notice. Otherwise, they favor the landlord. That was my experience at least. The housing laws are in favor of the landlord except when the tenant has been served an evictions notice. That's the rule of thumb, but I guess I can see why, since as a tenant, you choose to sign the lease. I would look up laws in your area and print them out to add to your file. Also look for reasons you can break your lease and try to break it. If you break it for no reason, they can sue you.
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That is messed up that they came into your apartment without any warning. My neighbor upstairs one time complained about smelling gas and the next day
the gas company climbed through one of my windows when nobody was home to check on the gas. No damn gas was on! I was so mad! I would try to maybe if you can change the locks.