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Problem with sweat pants?
While reading some of the other threads a few dancers said they would not dance for a customer wearing sweat pants. I wear workout pants when enjoying lappers because of an incident with one of my favs. While doing her thing on my lap, she stopped and removed my belt. She said the buckle was chafing her. The buckle was not one of those giant slabs of silver but just a normal small buckle. Her observation seemed reasonable so I now always wear workout pants that are neat and definitely not sweaty. So what is the aversion to sweat pants assuming they are not still sweaty from a visit to the gym? I really respect your opinions and don't want to offend you by the way I dress.
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some girls dont like it cuz obviously the guys boner sticks out more, and they feel guys do it purposefully ( which some do) to get off quicker. i personally like soft pants, even light grinding on rough jeans with a big belt hurts..guys who wear those get air dances from me! lol
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Because when guys wear sweat pants I can feel every nook and cranny of their boner on my ass. I do not appreciate this, and it just comes off as a way of trying to get as much out of me as possible which spending as little as possible. To me, it says this customer does not have any respect for me and only cares about getting his rocks off. Generally, men like that do not see me as a person and have no respect for my boundaries and will try and get away with whatever they can, my comfort and consent is irrelevant to them. It immediately puts me on guard, and definitely changes how I dance for them. I am not relaxed and in the moment having fun, I am too busy being hyper vigilant about where your hands/mouth/boner are.
My comfort aside, sometimes when guys were loosing-fitting stuff like sweatpants it's hard to give a good dance because their junk is flopping around every which way. It's just stupid.
If your real concern is the belt, I usually ask guys if I can take it off if it is bothering me. If you're really worried it's going to bother her just ask before the dance if you can take it off so it doesn't dig into you or her. I have a feeling there is more to your motivation for wearing sweatpants than just the belt thing, though, because it seems like this would've been the most obvious solution. "Oh, my belt might bother the dancer? Better wear sweatpants then. Not like belts are easily undone and removed or anything."
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I will dance for a guy with sweat pants on, but I don't like it really. I think, if someone's on a night out, going to be surrounded by desirable women, then they should wear something a bit better than what is basically their pjs....It gives me certain opinion of them. Then again I never work a dayshift-maybe I'd feel different if I did.-and also from my experience, many guys who come in the club wearing sweat pants actually ARE sweaty and unkept an smell-I won't dance for a smelly guy!Seriously-there's a guy who comes into a club I work in almost weekly and I'd rather be £50 down than dance for him because in the past, I've done it and then couldn't get rid of the scent from my nostrils!
There are exceptions though.
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You could just wear slacks, you know or remove the belt. Please we all know why you all so noble men wear sweats into the strip club. Call it "work out pants" if it makes you sleep better at night lol.
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...Why not wear regular pants without a belt? Why not wear slacks or khakis? And I'm trying to picture giving a lap dance for a guy wearing a belt...unless he was slouched real low in the seat and had his jeans super baggy and hanging off his ass, the belt buckle wouldn't be in a place that would be affecting my dance performance.
Any guy who comes in wearing sweatpants is going to get the suckiest dance with like zero contact, cause I'm not getting on his lap for anything.
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ive never had an issue with a belt or stiff jeans. guys in thin slacks and sweat pants get air dances and I usually end them early too.
yuckiness aside, I know you guys are paying us and all but dont you want to participate in the fantasy too? just like we get all dolled up and laugh at your terrible jokes and call you smart even when youre not, wouldnt you want to play into it a little by practicing good hygeine, showing up well dressed, being chivalrous, etc?
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Yes, it feels like I am dancing on a guy with a boner while he is naked, it feels just too close for comfort and dirty. One guy I was dancing on with his sweats on and I literally had to check to make sure he had pants on he felt too close..
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So basically Billy, They are saying you're the cheapest Gentleman with the thought of your sweatpants as the answer to their comfort. What kind are they?
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Whenever I have danced for a guy in sweatpants I feel nothing buy grossed out the whole time. I hate men that wear daizy dukes to the club too.
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sierra.
Because when guys wear sweat pants I can feel every nook and cranny of their boner on my ass. I do not appreciate this, and it just comes off as a way of trying to get as much out of me as possible which spending as little as possible. To me, it says this customer does not have any respect for me and only cares about getting his rocks off. Generally, men like that do not see me as a person and have no respect for my boundaries and will try and get away with whatever they can, my comfort and consent is irrelevant to them. It immediately puts me on guard, and definitely changes how I dance for them. I am not relaxed and in the moment having fun, I am too busy being hyper vigilant about where your hands/mouth/boner are.
My comfort aside, sometimes when guys were loosing-fitting stuff like sweatpants it's hard to give a good dance because their junk is flopping around every which way. It's just stupid.
If your real concern is the belt, I usually ask guys if I can take it off if it is bothering me. If you're really worried it's going to bother her just ask before the dance if you can take it off so it doesn't dig into you or her. I have a feeling there is more to your motivation for wearing sweatpants than just the belt thing, though, because it seems like this would've been the most obvious solution. "Oh, my belt might bother the dancer? Better wear sweatpants then. Not like belts are easily undone and removed or anything."
Ouch! That hurt. But I did ask and thanks for all the responses. The jury is in and the unanimous decision is that guys who wear sweat pants to a SC are trolls. Geez, I hope you don't consider me in the same category as the turkeys who wear shorts in a SC hoping to get a cheap hand job. Anyway you can be sure I will never set foot in a SC wearing sweats again. In fact, my ego is so low now that it is hard to imagine setting foot in a SC period. The ultimate test will be the next time I'm in Tampa. :)
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Some clubs around Raleigh when not allow them. Few months ago I had black Dockers on and the stupid doorman said I couldn't go in with my sweat pants. I showed him they were Dockers not sweat pants then he showed an attitude. I almost turned around and didn't go in. No need to be a jerk especially when I was following the rules!
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In summation...guys who wear comfy pants for the girls' comfort are a very rare breed. So while your intent may be quasi-altruistic, just remember that 99% of guys wearing pants like these are trying to get their boners as close to our asses as possible. Therefore, it's best to stick to thicker fabrics that are still fairly soft.
On the other hand, if you tend to return to the same girls repeatedly and have time to ask them about their preferences and explain your choices, then I'd say go ahead and dress accordingly.
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BayouBill
Ouch! That hurt. But I did ask and thanks for all the responses. The jury is in and the unanimous decision is that guys who wear sweat pants to a SC are trolls. Geez, I hope you don't consider me in the same category as the turkeys who wear shorts in a SC hoping to get a cheap hand job. Anyway you can be sure I will never set foot in a SC wearing sweats again. In fact, my ego is so low now that it is hard to imagine setting foot in a SC period. The ultimate test will be the next time I'm in Tampa. :)
Well, this is not a customer-based Forum. And as for the ethics of wearing sweats to a strip club, I would say don't do it. Your intentions might be "pure", but the risk of being pegged as a SPBM (SweatPantsBonerMan) is too great.
For what it's worth, I personally have never seen a customer wearing sweats in any clubs I have visited. It must be at certain times of day on weekdays or something (or be a Northern thing?). I can see myself getting turned away at the door if I show up wearing sweats lol. I'm sure some clubs actually have an enforced dress code?
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Bayou, I am highly skeptical about the purported altruism of your motives, particularly in light of your other recent posts on this board. Now if your fav is cool with it then what happens between grown adults is nobody's business but yours and hers, but let's stop the nonsense already and just call it what it is.
We all know that there is a whole sub-group of club customers who do exactly what you do and many clubs are staffed with dancers who are more than willing to accommodate. Shit, there are plenty of girls out there who will lend a helping hand. Now I wouldn't be caught dead in a club, restaurant or most other entertainment venues in sweats, nor do I have any interest in blowing a load in my pants, but that is due to personal preferences rather than moral objections. Given what I do with a number of dancers in a given year, I am in no position to judge anyone, but enough already with this spin doctor nonsense. Not only do you know exactly what you are doing, but I am just as sure that the feedback that you have received on this board isn't going to change anything that you do.
So go yee forth, cum stained sweats and all I suppose, and enjoy your time with the dancers who are willing to deal with it for what you are willing to pay. But don't expect to receive validation from the caliber of dancers who populate this board, nor should you expect to easily get a rise out of this savvy group if entertainment was your real goal in posting this, which frankly wouldn't surprise me either.
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charlie61
In summation...guys who wear comfy pants for the girls' comfort are a very rare breed. So while your intent may be quasi-altruistic, just remember that 99% of guys wearing pants like these are trying to get their boners as close to our asses as possible. Therefore, it's best to stick to thicker fabrics that are still fairly soft.
On the other hand, if you tend to return to the same girls repeatedly and have time to ask them about their preferences and explain your choices, then I'd say go ahead and dress accordingly.
Thick but soft - got it. Thanks Charlie. At home with the favs it's not a problem. Out of town in unfamiliar SCs is I was concerned about.
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rickdugan
Bayou, I am highly skeptical about the purported altruism of your motives, particularly in light of your other recent posts on this board. Now if your fav is cool with it then what happens between grown adults is nobody's business but yours and hers, but let's stop the nonsense already and just call it what it is.
We all know that there is a whole sub-group of club customers who do exactly what you do and many clubs are staffed with dancers who are more than willing to accommodate. Shit, there are plenty of girls out there who will lend a helping hand. Now I wouldn't be caught dead in a club, restaurant or most other entertainment venues in sweats, nor do I have any interest in blowing a load in my pants, but that is due to personal preferences rather than moral objections. Given what I do with a number of dancers in a given year, I am in no position to judge anyone, but enough already with this spin doctor nonsense. Not only do you know exactly what you are doing, but I am just as sure that the feedback that you have received on this board isn't going to change anything that you do.
So go yee forth, cum stained sweats and all I suppose, and enjoy your time with the dancers who are willing to deal with it for what you are willing to pay. But don't expect to receive validation from the caliber of dancers who populate this board, nor should you expect to easily get a rise out of this savvy group if entertainment was your real goal in posting this, which frankly wouldn't surprise me either.
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I could care less if a guy wears sweatpants, as long as they look/smell clean and you are wearing underwear.
I don't like when guys wear tiny little shorts or rough scratchy Carhartts.
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I have danced for a long time in a grindy club environment and maybe ONE belt in all that time has bothered me. I prefer jeans.
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Clean soft jeans, clean soft shirt, and I'll remove my belt if the dancer asks, which has been most of them.
Rather than think about 'what would feel best to her', think about 'what won't be creepy'. Way more important.
No shorts, no track pants, no sweats and no jean-shorts unless you're from 1978.
Don't TRY so hard to get as much as you can, and you'll get more than if you had tried.
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Rather than think about 'what would feel best to her', think about 'what won't be creepy'. Way more important.
Haha. This whole thread is starting to sound like we're picking out condoms instead of pants for the OP. Should he double-bag it? Ribbed for her pleasure? Should the pants be blue or glow-in-the-dark? Do today's strippers prefer strawberry-flavored or vanilla?
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charlie61
sound like we're picking out condoms
Be sure to get a size Small (you want to minimize the "baggy" look). We are talking about sweatpants right? :)
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How do you all feel about customers wearing meggings?