How can a beautiful black girl make money in a white club?
Ok so I really like white guys but they don't seem to like me. How can I, being a beautiful dark skinned voluptuous black girl make money in a predominately white establishment? I have a huge butt and nice boobs but I don't know how to seek myself to these seemingly racist white guys. They always seem to go for the skinny white fantasy girl. Help please.
Re: How can a beautiful black girl make money in a white club?
Think about how the top earners in your club dress and emulate them. Do they wear gowns? Lingerie? When in doubt, classy Barbie is usually a good look.
Also think about how you act and converse with your customers and change up what you're doing. Mirror their body language, touch them while you're conversing, make flirty eye contact.
Honestly, it's a little hard to give advice without knowing what you're doing now, so it might help if you describe your style and hustle a bit more than just being a beautiful black girl.
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Ok so I really like white guys but they don't seem to like me. How can I, being a beautiful dark skinned voluptuous black girl make money in a predominately white establishment? I have a huge butt and nice boobs but I don't know how to seek myself to these seemingly racist white guys. They always seem to go for the skinny white fantasy girl. Help please.
Help yourself. I think it has less to do with your race and more about your hustle. How many times are you going to post about race and others being "racist" which I think is unfair. Also it seems based on your last posts you spend most of your time feeling defeated instead of approaching customers or sitting with customers too long.
Edit: I'll actually stop being a jerk and be of some help. I was a little tough since I'm a minority as well but I never let that stop me and it irks me when some make excuses. What's that song by Jennifer Hudson "You're going to love me". You have to go in with that mindset. Being a minority you might not be a guy's first pick but you can win them over with the right personality and approach. You have to have that confidence.
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I agree With Dead! I know the struggle that we sisters have and YET I know many black women who do well with white men, myself included. I do have maybe a couple of bad nights every now and then but Ive also had the nights where Ive gotten the blatant racist white dude to take me to vip. You know how many white dudes ive had who never gotten a dance from a black girl (so they say lol) but yet I won them over. Or even the scared white guy who I coerce( in a sweet way of course) to get a dance because theyre too afraid to say no. Hell, Ive even pulled the race card and its seemingly worked, where they will say no no im not racist infact lets go get dances to prove it:) Im dark, small boobies and not a humongous ass but definitely a bubble that stands out. Youre coming off as youre intimidated and theres no reason to be, talk to them with confidence, hell be overconfident like you KNOW you can take all of their money. Youre probably just projecting all that your feeling therefore resisting them, change your mindset and youll do fine. When I first started back dancing i thought everything was wrong with me physically when it was really my mindset that was messed up.Men love voluptuous women long as its toned of course, no matter what color:)
Re: How can a beautiful black girl make money in a white club?
What Shanna Dior said. The black girls at my club are always in high demand because there's only a few working every shift. And they end up with more faithful regulars as there's not a bunch of girls with similar looks strutting around. Of course some guys only want dances from a certain type but that happens to all shapes, sizes, races, etc. and some guys will be assholes but if its not over race it will be something else. I notice the girls that do well know when to emulate a white customer's culture if its not natural for them. We all have to put on an act in some way to be a fantasy girl.
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If you walk out on that floor projecting the feeling 'I'm not good enough for these guys because I'm not this fantasy they have...' ,they will pick up on it and that kills it right there. I worked at clubs where thicker Brown chicks made more money than petite lighter skinned women and it was all in their hustle and personality. I watched them walk up to those guys exuding nothing but confidence and the men became enthralled with them. It's all about attitude. Are there other black girls who work at your club? Are they having similar experiences?
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I mostly date white guys in my personal life and I know they are majority of my clientele they aren't that big of a challenge I get them by me direct and a little flirtatious. plus you have to make them realize your the spice of life compared to the boring white girls.