About a month ago I met a girl in my new local club and, about 20 minutes into our conversation, she starts pushing to "hang out" sometime and we exchange numbers. Now I believed, at that time, that this was a normal and customary stringalong gambit and treated it accordingly - meaning I ignored it. However, I enjoyed my time with her enough that I tipped her barside over the course of an hour and a half - perhaps $120 all-in, though that 90 minutes included two stage sets and a couple of circuits around the room. When I left, she echoed her offer, which again I simply assumed was an effort to put me on the hook for future club visits.
I was wrong. In fact, the few times I texted her over the next four weeks to find out when she was working again, she instead tried to steer me towards dinner or other social meetups. And each time, she tried to lock me in for the very next night. The first time she did this, I countered with seeing her in the club again first and she lied to me about when she was working again. Indeed, I have been in the club a few times since and, between her absence and her dodging of my schedule questions, I am convinced that she is no longer working there. Yet she continues to push for a meetup.
I don't know. I am not clear yet as to how she expects to earn from me. I hate these ambiguous social meeting situations. Now given the fact that she has already lied and has been dodgy about her status at the club, I would normally be inclined just to write it off, but she was very sexy and had a hot ticket personality, so I am seriously chewing on the meetup angle.
Anyway, I'd welcome any thoughts from either side of the aisle. :)

