Re: What's your angle/character on cam vs. you in real life?
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incantatious
the thing is, there is a world of difference between an underage child, and a legal adult behaving in a childlike manner, just like there's a world of difference between an actual paedophile, and a man who finds a legal, adult woman dressed as a schoolgirl, or speaking in a cutesy high-pitched voice, or behaving innocently, etc, hot.
If i - as a 26 year old woman - were to (unfortunately i can't go as full-fledged with this as i'd love to, on account of site policy), entertain a man by behaving more childlike way, dressing as a schoolgirl or something, i wouldn't think to myself, "i am entertaining a paedophile right now"...
I would think "i am entertaining a man who wants to see me - a legal, 26 year old woman - behave in this manner. If he wanted child porn, why is he not like... Watching child porn?"
there do exist men who find adult women behaving or dressing in various childlike ways arousing, whereas they are completely turned off by actual children... Adult female + kiddy clothes (or whatever.. Insert random kiddy-related-thing here!) doesn't necessary = paedophile.
But the thing is, even if a guy watching me do that wanted to, or would really prefer child porn, but is using my - legal, awesome (lol) - performance as a means of relieving himself from sexual frustration, and stopping himself feeding into cycles of child molestation or abuse because his desires are being satisfied and taken care of by performers like me, i would take that as a fucking blessing, and that is another reason as to why i hate that such role play isn't allowed.
i love you!bravo!!!!
Re: What's your angle/character on cam vs. you in real life?
I know this isn't an ageplay thread, but I definitely think it's worth signing up for FetLife if you aren't on it and checking out some of the ageplay groups. Sure, there are some creeps who are actually NOT into ageplay and ARE into kids, but mostly it's a perfectly harmless fetish because it's between consenting adults.
Ageplay = ADULTS roleplaying *consensually*
I think I'm particularly sensitive about this because I've dated two guys into ABDL and, though it didn't really work for me, it is so entirely harmless. ABDL guys are often very sensitive about it and might go to cam girls or other sex workers because they're afraid no one they meet IRL in a non-$ situation will accept them.
Of course, it's fine not to do ANYTHING you don't want to do for any or no reason. I do feel like a have a moral responsibility to not make anyone feel like shit about what they want if it's something legal and consensual, so if I don't want to do it and it is both of these things I try to be super polite and just say sorry, I don't do that!