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I have a problem with camgirls, because of the potential for interaction... which I also recognize to be slightly hypocritical, obviously.
Porn, I don't give a crap about, except that if he watches it too much, he gets to where it takes FOREVER for him to finish, and that sucks for me, because he is giant and it becomes painful after a while.
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DesuvsDeath
When you guys say 'hentai' do you mean to say that animated pornography in general is a weird fetish to you? or are you actually talking about, like, tentacle rape, eye ball licking, giant dick futa, dragons and insects hentai?
I'm just curious because I didn't realize it was considered 'weird' in general. >>;
The Japanese and their eyeball licking...lol shieet. To each their own yes I know but that is just bad for health.
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The rule of thumb for when to stop is this one: when porn is prefered over the real thing.
I don't usually have a problem nor my man has a problem.
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A guy's gotta masturbate, so no I have no problem with a bf watching porn. I have a little tinge of jealously but only if he choses it over me, knowing clear well I'm in the mood. I actually enjoy watching porn with an SO. It's great foreplay!
Mind you, there will be a 'talk' if I notice incest, bestiality or underage porn, racial play or anything similar. That's just borderline creepy.
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DesuvsDeath
When you guys say 'hentai' do you mean to say that animated pornography in general is a weird fetish to you? or are you actually talking about, like, tentacle rape, eye ball licking, giant dick futa, dragons and insects hentai?
I'm just curious because I didn't realize it was considered 'weird' in general. >>;
I do not know what genres of hentai he watched specifically, but yes when I mean hentai I mean lolicon, shotacon, things with tentacles and other sorts of things. What you think is not weird may be strange for other people.
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Bf watches tentacle porn and futanari etc in the bathroom at work when he gets bored at the college hes working private security for...I think its funny so I randomly tell his friends to see their reactions, it doesn't bother me though lol, I watch porn sometimes too, we use to watch it together but haven't had alot of time for that lately
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I really wasn't a fan of bfs watching porn. I used to wonder why do you need to look at more vagina?? Then I came to realize this behavior was a societal norm. After "cumming" across the ex bf's hidden collection we got into an argument. He felt like it was no big deal so I asked him would he be ok with me getting " big cock 5" or another " large cock type collection. He tried to act like it was no big deal and then upon ironing his work clothes I came across a penis pump. Ooops. guess he felt the fun only goes one way. I started doing marathon porn watching and masturbating and being too tired to do the real thing when he got home. Wasn't planned but I started having a bit of fun. I will say when he thought of watching porn together I honestly thought it awkward. I wasn't sure if we were supposed to duplicate the acts in the clip or learn technique. I was one of those umm ok so what are we supposed to do with this?? . Like ugg I want to fast forward to other scenes or the people in the clip weren't really doing it for me.
Fast forward later and I was watching a guy masturbate on cam and he flipped out. I realized the interaction was what made him upset. He said porn doesn't talk back or interact with him so I shouldn't be seeking such benefits either. Lol dude even called my mother and complained. Still I was honest and after really thinking about it I was in the wrong. It wasn't something I hid. When he came home I grabbed his arm to show him heheh:) But he blew up lol . My mother got a pretty good laugh out of the situation too.
We ended up breaking up for other issues later but that was a pretty funny moment to come across "le stash" ahah.
Porn doesn't really bother me now but at the time I remember feeling cheated on. Like wtf? Why do I have to fantasize about you when I could be fantasizing about some hunky studly guy right? Geeze .I think the issue for me later was that I wasn't really all that interested in sleeping with him at all. Having sex out of love isn't as great as having sex out of a combination of love, lust, desire, I have to fucking have you now!!! .
To me what I desire and who I may have fallen for didn't always match. Desire is a tricky thing so I only watch porn generally if I already know the person I'm with is. Once I do that it's flood gate for me but the guy I'm with better be one handsome guy or I'll probably think of what I could have not what I do. Also my tastes in porn have changed drastically over the years so ummm most straight guys wouldn't watch what I do either. :)
I always said in the past that watching porn is cheating. If you're fantasizing about someone else boom you're already cheated. If your relationship allows for porn watching ie you've agreed it's ok to do so then knock it out. It's not cheating at this point.
After time we have fun watching porn together but he wasn't the same after he saw I enjoyed seeing another guy's cock. Ohh well.
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DesuvsDeath
I'm just curious because I didn't realize it was considered 'weird' in general. >>;
No...i dont think its wierd.....
That stuff happens all the time. Just the the other day...i stepped out for a quick lunch and this slimy 18 armed thing grabbed me and ripped off my clothes, then started jamming one of his tentacles down my mouth.......and just when i figured he was about done, a giant flying salamander swooped down and mercilessly assfucked me, and while that was happening, the slimy thing dp'ed me for good measure. Then i went to Jimmy Johns.
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^^^ :rotfl:
WHY do guys think that is HOT?! Wtf?!
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^^^ :rotfl:
WHY do guys think that is HOT?! Wtf?!
I don't know but i have a raging boner right now.
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No...i dont think its wierd.....
That stuff happens all the time. Just the the other day...i stepped out for a quick lunch and this slimy 18 armed thing grabbed me and ripped off my clothes, then started jamming one of his tentacles down my mouth.......and just when i figured he was about done, a giant flying salamander swooped down and mercilessly assfucked me, and while that was happening, the slimy thing dp'ed me for good measure. Then i went to Jimmy Johns.
LMAO!
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I don't mind if my husband watches porn at all. I'd only care if it was excessive and interfered with our sex life. As for cam models, I wouldn't mind if he watches gold shows or group shows on MFC or something, but I'd get jealous if he went private and C2C with a model.
However my husband doesn't do cams and only rarely looks at porn. he says he considers it disrespectful to me even though I don't care.
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I never got the appeal of hentai, or eyeball licking what the hell is that.
Porn with your own dialogue can be fun. I prefer a gf with a high sex drive to porn, in those cases I hardly think about the stuff.
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I don't think it's hypocritical for sex workers to be hurt if their SOs pay another sex worker for their company. The overwhelming majority of us do it for money; customers do it to get off. Same thing for radically different reasons.
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My relationship with porn is different, I use it as a vehicle to real experiences I've had. So If I want to remember a killer BJ I use this to remember a woman that I've been with. I don't want to see a man drill a woman that I don't know, I'll use this to remember my own.