viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
hi everyone!
so im in a little bit of an awkward situation right now. I work on MFC and I have a ton of regulars. There is one particular regular who likes to come in my room and chit chat and he is fun to talk to with everyone and he does tip generously, but, he likes to tell everyone in the room thats he likes this other particular model he fancies instead. for example, he will be talking in my room then all a sudenly be like "Oh this (models name) is online now, im going now to go to her room now shes so perfect bye!" then he comes back into my room when that particular model leaves and talks about how beautiful and how perfect this other models show and room was to everyone in my room, then everyone else in my room starts talking about how perfect the model he is talking about is.Also im more of a talker in my room, i sit and talk naked but i make great money usually, sometimes when people tip me for just doing that the regular who im having troubles with says things like "why are you tipping her? shes not even doing anything".
I dont really get it, this regualr tips me well usually but then says things like that when others tip me? I have never had anyone else talk about other models in my room until this particular guy. I just find it SUPER rude going into someones room and talking about other models you like more and better.
is it just me or am i sounding too rude? i just think if you want to talk about a different model, go into THERE room instead and dont talk about them in mine...
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
There is someone on SM, who came into my chat room to tell me that I should do a 'Fuck-a-Fan' contest like (and he mentions the models name:biting:), because she really makes 'bank' doing them!
i tell him that that is against the rules on SM, and i do very well without having to do that.
i notice that he is going from room to room telling model's this same thing.
Annoys me, but all I can do is block him!
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
Luckily, I've only had this happen once on SM, but I saw it happening a lot more when I was on MFC (possibly because the guys seemed to interact with each other a lot more on there). For me, that gets them an immediate ban. I don't care who it is, if they are going to try to take MY hard-earned traffic elsewhere, that ban hammer is coming down.
He sounds like a real jackass, especially with the "why are you tipping her" BS. If you want to try to keep him around, maybe send him a PM (or just call him out in front of everyone ;)) and let him know that his behavior is not ok and you'll ban him if he does it again.
You deserve better!
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
I find this incredibly rude. Especially if he's encouraging other people not to tip you!? Ban his ass. He's not a very good "regular."
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
serena, i would tell that guy he is disturbing u with his attitude, in case he wont stop i would block his sorry ass, HE is rude and not helping ur business, u might get tips from him but u loose when other guys go in other models room and maybe tip HER instead of u. it might be that he is manipulating u and ur members in favor of the other model, he tips so u wont block him but he is taking money away u. just get rid of him sweetie.
edit: i was just typing and i see now other girls giving u the same kind of advice, make him stop pls
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That is really rude. I would ban his ass.
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
Don't tell him shit! BAN - that's exactly what it's for so you don't have to say anything !
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
He's invading your room and telling people NOT to tip you. This is your job. If someone went into Starbucks YELLING to everyone "Oh thank god, Tim Hortons is open" then came back and said "boo Tim Hortons just closed... dont buy Starbucks coffee everyone! The coffee is BORING!"
He's be thrown out of Starbucks. Starbucks wouldnt be like "aw well, he comes in so that's good." They'd throw him out for causing a disturbance.
Just entering your room doesnt mean youre obligated to do.... anything at all.
I think we need to have like a "Camming Connection Definition for Who is an Actual Regular" lol, jk because there are no definition but if he just regularly comes by: he isnt a regular. If he tips the equivalent of a cup of gas station coffee once in a blue moon but is in your room everytime youre on: he isnt a regular. If he bashes you and redirects traffic from your room: he is getting in the way of your business and is your enemy, ban him.
Personally Im not ban happy really at all but guys like this dont sound like they will understand a talking to - it is super common sense to not do everything youre saying he's doing. Im all for guys complimenting other models but steering the conversation away from you intentionally, driving traffic AWAY from your room, telling guys NOT to tip, basically bashing your performance are all so way over the line that Im ... mildly irritated you feel like youre being rude by addressing it. Im sorry to sound harsh but: dont let customers do this to you - others will see how you allow it and think they can do the same thing. You have to be tougher. Just because someone pays you every so often doesnt mean theyre buying your sanity or control over your room.
This is a general comment but Ive lurked on some models this week who seem to be pretty newish to camming and guys run this kind of bullshit all over them --- dont let them do it or youll burn out and theyll jus move onto the next batch of new(ish) performers to drain. Seriously, one forum talks about how you should always check out new models before the 'grizzled' performers (lol) to get more bang for your buck and be able to "relax"..... aka take advantage. But like in this case, many still pay the 'grizzled' performers bc they know which rooms bullshit is tolerated more. Seriously, for some assholes this kind of shit is a strategy. Whenever I sign up for a new site I get a swarm of them. I know you said specifically youve been working for a bit so this isnt directed at you, just people need to not be afraid of customers. It is your business, your rules, your income, your survival and your sustainability. Anyone hindering those things are in the way and are not your regular, friend, fan, etc.
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^ Excellent analogy.
OP, have you ever heard the saying, "Sometimes money is too expensive"? Like you may be making money but it's costing you more in other ways? That is exactly what's happening with this "regular" of yours. Ban his ass, I promise you'll be much happier and you'll likely start earning even more.
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
Block him. Probably a boyfriend of that model trying to drum up business for her.
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
as much as i agree with everyone's comment above, because it IS rude. and inconsiderate. and just retarded. to be honest.
some guys on mfc have no common sense what-so-freaking-ever. like when they go "OH HEY THERES A VIDEO OF YOU ON XVIDEO HERE HERE IF YOU TYPE THIS THIS" and then the idiot wondered why he should stop when i asked him to next time just msg me that. because he genuinely believed he was 'helping' by advertising it to everyone in my room. -.-" anyways. i'd just bring it up, be all 'you know... i don't want to sound jealous or anything .. but i've noticed you bring up so-and-so a lot in my room and it kind of ruins my groove' or however you wanna phrase it. and the fact that he says 'why are you tipping her' is just ridiculous. sometimes they need to be reminded of common decencies. and if it continues after you mention it then ban him. his tokens are not worth that bs.
Re: viewers talking about other models in your room, rude or not?
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Originally Posted by
serena1
hi everyone!
so im in a little bit of an awkward situation right now. I work on MFC and I have a ton of regulars. There is one particular regular who likes to come in my room and chit chat and he is fun to talk to with everyone and he does tip generously, but, he likes to tell everyone in the room thats he likes this other particular model he fancies instead. for example, he will be talking in my room then all a sudenly be like "Oh this (models name) is online now, im going now to go to her room now shes so perfect bye!" then he comes back into my room when that particular model leaves and talks about how beautiful and how perfect this other models show and room was to everyone in my room, then everyone else in my room starts talking about how perfect the model he is talking about is.Also im more of a talker in my room, i sit and talk naked but i make great money usually, sometimes when people tip me for just doing that the regular who im having troubles with says things like "why are you tipping her? shes not even doing anything".
I dont really get it, this regualr tips me well usually but then says things like that when others tip me? I have never had anyone else talk about other models in my room until this particular guy. I just find it SUPER rude going into someones room and talking about other models you like more and better.
is it just me or am i sounding too rude? i just think if you want to talk about a different model, go into THERE room instead and dont talk about them in mine...
Sounds like you need to ban this fucker. He's criticizing other people for tipping you (saying you "not doing anything"), and pretty much advertising other models in your room. That is VERY disrespectful. I know a lot of men don't use common sense on these sites, but I still think that's mean. It's none of his business why guys are tipping you. And next time he starts running his mouth about other models, tell him "Well, we're in my room now, so....." I know you say that this guy does spend money on you, which is good, but you can't allow this to continue...money isn't everything. Maybe a ban (6 hours of 60 days...your choice) will smack some sense into him. If he's one of those guys who refuses to admit he's wrong (I hate guys like that) and continues to defend his actions, he's a damn fool...good riddance.
I don't tolerate men in my public chat talking about other models in my room. It's disrespectful to me, and it's advertising that other model. If they're so into this other model (who isn't online right now), then they need to log off and go jerk off to a fantasy of her or something...lol. A long time ago I learned that one of my MFC regs went into another model's room and told her "I'm just here because Fox isn't on." It pissed me off to hear this, and I was so embarrassed! Even if you are in a model's room killing time before your favorite is on, you NEVER blurt out something like that...that's mean! The spotlight should always be on the model whose room you're currently in.
I also don't care for guys making comments like "You should do a show with so and so." They see one G/G show that they like, so now they're in your room telling you that you should do a show with another model. Um...no, I cam solo.