For the guys and the dancers!! Is it Ok to have several favorites at one club??
How do you guys handle when both of your favorites are working the same day or night? And for the ladies.........Am I causing problems by have more than one of you as my favorites and taking different girls to the VIP?
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To be honest I prefer trying to keep it to one fave per shift or day of the week in a particular club but that's just a personal preference. Some guys like to graze and some like to visit a fave to chat, get dances from and then leave. I had a problem years ago with two dancers on my favorite club's afternoon shift who I thought were best of friends. Over time I gravitated to one more than the other and some ugly stuff happened. I go to a lot of different clubs and dancers move around a lot so you never know when you might walk in and see two girls that previously worked at different clubs sitting together at the bar when you walk in...
In a perfect world it's your money and no one should care who you spend it on. You are not owned by any dancer and the money you bring into the club with you was not printed with any particular girl's name on it. The only problem is that we don't live in a perfect world. A smart girl will be happy to get your money when you want to spend it on her and move on and keep working the room when you don't. A lazy girl will get possessive and bitchy when she sees you spending on someone else. Obviously the girls are all competing for a limited amount of customers and their money. That competition doesn't have to be ugly but sometimes it can be depending on the personalities involved. What you DON'T want to do is try to play head games with two or three different girls at the same time. Don't feed girls BS or lead them on when you are in the club. If you're a regular she is expecting you to spend on her and has a pretty good idea of how much it will be. Guys complain about possessive dancers all the time but, quite often, it's the customer who starts the shit storm by not being up front about his intentions in the club. Having two or three beautiful girls hanging on you in the club can be intoxicating but they are only hanging on you waiting for you to spend on them. Don't kid yourself.
Re: For the guys and the dancers!! Is it Ok to have several favorites at one club??
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readytotry
How do you guys handle when both of your favorites are working the same day or night? And for the ladies.........Am I causing problems by have more than one of you as my favorites and taking different girls to the VIP?
Have as many favorites as you like. Go to VIP with as many favorites as you like... whether you want them all together at one point in time or spend time with each girl separately... you can choose how you want to spend your time. Spend time with one girl. Spend time with another girl. Spend time with a bunch of your favorite girls. Whatever.
As long as you don't waste anyones time, I think you'll be alright.
Trust me, readytotry.... you are just a customer to strippers. Sometimes you'll spend on them, sometimes you'll choose another girl. If they are professional enough, they'll be professional.
Have fun. Don't overanalyze.
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As long as you are there to buy dances, and as long as you spend your time there buying dances, then have as many faves as you want. When you run out of money (or decide not to spend any more) then exit the club knowing you helped with someone's bills today.
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i don't have a problem at all by having my regular like a few other girls..but when you come in, let me know if you want to see me, her, or the other. it can get akward if i don't know who you came to see and i am NOT the kind of stripper to talk to a guy who is otherwise occupied..no matter how well we know each other.
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If you have to ask this question, you should probably stay away from strip clubs.
I would guess you're going to be one of those customers who finds a dancer, falls in "love" with her, and then insists on her staying with you every moment you're in the club. It's not a monogamous relationship, dude. Grow a pair.
CP
Re: For the guys and the dancers!! Is it Ok to have several favorites at one club??
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Chili Palmer
If you have to ask this question, you should probably stay away from strip clubs.
I would guess you're going to be one of those customers who finds a dancer, falls in "love" with her, and then insists on her staying with you every moment you're in the club. It's not a monogamous relationship, dude. Grow a pair.
CP
Oddly enough, https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...12#post2508112
Re: For the guys and the dancers!! Is it Ok to have several favorites at one club??
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Sophia_Starina
Oddly enough,
I guess I deserve that....... ;)
The funny thing is I am not usually like this, this the first time a lady at a club really got to me like that........ Oh well.........I will take my lumps and move on!!
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readytotry
I guess I deserve that....... ;)
The funny thing is I am not usually like this, this the first time a lady at a club really got to me like that........ Oh well.........I will take my lumps and move on!!
Well, everyone has a first time. The only reason I can babble-on endlessly about this stuff is because I went through my "I'm special" phase back in the 80's and 90's.
Still, if you are going to post about it here we are going to offer our opinions and yes, take our shots. This is Stripper web after all...we eat our young....:biting::yikes:
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readytotry
I guess I deserve that....... ;)
The funny thing is I am not usually like this, this the first time a lady at a club really got to me like that........ Oh well.........I will take my lumps and move on!!
I'm not bonking you on the head. I'm just pointing out that Chili Palmer kinda called it 100%. Nothing in THIS post particularly indicates (to me) that you're the sort of guy that Chili Palmer described. CP's spidey... spidy?... senses are strong. He kinda nailed it... don't ya think?
I was amazed.
Don't interpret this as a dig, readytotry. It's just a genuine "Wow!" moment.
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yoda57us
Well, everyone has a first time. The only reason I can babble-on endlessly about this stuff is because I went through my "I'm special" phase back in the 80's and 90's.
Still, if you are going to post about it here we are going to offer our opinions and yes, take our shots. This is Stripper web after all...we eat our young....:biting::yikes:
I am cool with that!!
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Can't say I disagree!! Sometimes you don't see something until you are "bonked" in the head!! And please feel free to bonk me anytime!! Someone has to talk some sense into me and I am glad you guys and gals have!
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readytotry
And please feel free to bonk me anytime!! Someone has to talk some sense into me and I am glad you guys have!!!!
*bonk*
I am not a guy... https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...GUYS-mini-rant
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simone87
when you come in, let me know if you want to see me, her, or the other.
^It's really as simple as that. If you are there to see one girl in particular and the other approaches say something along the lines of, " It's great to see you but I'm actually here to see *insert other favourite's name here* tonight". Then you won't waste that favourite's time and she won't scare off the dancer by hanging around.
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though I never have a favorite (since I never visit the same club consecutively), I would assume the easiest way is to just rotate. WHen one of your favorites is busy, you get the other. When you decided you want to hang with the other, let the girl know. I would assume nobody gets upset because it's still YOUR money and they're still getting it. Or just have one or stick with one the entire night.
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Sure most dancers would prefer you spend all their money on them but if you have favorites most won't care as long as you are generous to them.
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For a period from about the late 90's to about 2006/2007 I had one club I frequented where I had about at least 10 ATFs. It wasn't too much of a problem because these girls had plenty of other regulars too. Nowadays that same club there is may only one ATF I have there- and she works very irregularly.
I don't think I've come across more than two AFTs in one club in the last few years.
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To give a contrary point of view, in the context of "grow a pair", that also means deciding what kind of experience YOU want to have, and screw everyone in this thread if they don't approve. Obviously, if you're getting butthurt over your girl talking to someone else, or getting jealous and hurt, or nervous about her getting jealous, then it's definitely time to do some re-thinking -- the strip club is supposed to be fun, not stressful. However, I do some things that many people in this thread don't, and don't care one whit whether they like it or not. I like to have one favorite girl per club, and develop a client/stripper relationship where she and I stick strictly with each other, for as long as I'm at the club, whether that's one hour or four. Obviously, I compensate her fairly for however much time that is. If she isn't interested in staying just with me, I move on -- no anger or hurt, we just don't have compatible styles, so time to find someone else. Often, I'll text her to say "I'm coming in Wed, are you working?" If she says she is, or that she'll add on, we're together for the day. If she's not there, then obviously I'm a free agent that day, and usually I'm figuring out which girl I want to be girl #1's emergency backup :)There's a lot of things I love about this type of arrangement, I'll spare you the details, other than to say it meets my needs, it is not based on jealousy or fear of her getting angry or anything else .... when it works, it works, and I don't much care what anyone else thinks about it.
Whether you like to spread your $ around, or are a serial favorite-ist (like me), just find what experience you want to have, at the pricepoint you can afford, without getting into any drama around jealous, hurt feelings, unrequited puppy love, etc