i need help reinventing myself
I miss dancing, especially making $800 a week (that’s not alot but for a newb….uuuuh yes). I originally said I was going to wait until I turned21 to start back dancing, or until I move out my parents’ house because hidingit was a pain. And I’m happy to say I’m moving out in less than FOOOUUUURweeks. I’ve been working out, peeling my skin, practicing dancing (more floorwork than pole tricks, transitions), ugh just been preparing in general. I’m excited.
I just need help with my look and name.
Working in an urban club every dance dances alike, dressesalike, and has those cliché names.
My signature piece are fishnets. My fishnets make my alreadyhuge ass look bigger, and my legs longer. Keeping those. But I didn’tparticularly care for what I picked to dance in, or what the girls at the clubwore.
I iike my fishnets and g string but tri tops annoy the crapout of me. I don’t know if I wanna do dresses or like one pieces, or if I wannatry lingerie. I just hate what the other girls dance in.
Shoes wise ive had my eye on these but im not sure if theylook to holiday-ish:
http://www.sears.com/shc/s/p_10153_12605_00000000000000020191000000000000TEE1 0GzRP?ci_src=184425893&ci_sku=SPM5990083208&sid=ID x20130125xMPFTWx023
I know ill stick with my name fallyn (guys loved it), but I wanta last name.
I liked fallyn LOVE (message in my name: FALL IN LOVE) atfirst but my sister told me it wasn’t black enough or whatever that means. Forgether.
I was thinking fallyn fox, but im not sure.
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most strippers don't have first and last names..it sounds kinda pretentious/corny and only porn stars or famous touring strippers need them. no need for anything but a cute, normal name that guys can hear, remember, and not ask " so what's your REAL name?" about! i love my fishnets as well, the super long ones with the large net :) does your club have a dress code?? if it doesn't then just wear what compliemnts your body while at the same time standing out..can't really give any advice as we don't have a pic and don't know what the average look is..
oh and i'd definitely stick to stripper shoes, those look very uncomfy! i like the red sparkles though, kinda looks wizard of ozz-ish..although it might be a pain matching those shoes to most of your outfits
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Is a last name like a common thing to do at your club? It just seems so unnecessary to me.
The shoes are very nice and they come in other colors if you're interested in that. I'm rather fond of the baby pink.
What about fishnets with a short club dress? I don't think a long gown would do well in an urban club.
What do you mean by "peeling" your skin?
Can you post a pic of what you wear now or what the girls in the clubs generally wear please?
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Urban club wear girls wear at the clubs ive worked at, or will potentially
http://kendrickbrinson.photoshelter....000gCcdyv.IQR0
and ive usually stuck to g strings and tri tops, but that’s getting boring.
This time around ill be playing around with jewelry. And dresses, and maybe something like this:
42 seconds
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffbpGhQT6ks
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I'm actually loving that look in the video ! It's kind of like channeling high-end stripper while still being urban enough to make money. I think you would do very well in that!! It's so cute.
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thanks..you put it into words. kinda sophisticated urban stripper lol
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That Wale link is pretty funny only cuz I just heard him on the Ricky Smiley morining show and he said that strippers were his weakness. Just look at him! He looks gone. HAHA But I do love that look at 42 seconds. It's kinda 80's retro but sweet,timeless and sexy. Go for it! Just curious is it essential for a Black dancer to appear "urban" in order to make money? Also I think fallynlove.com is a wonderful name for a website. Maybe you should buy it for a few bucks just in case one day you wanna spreadout. Currently its available and if you love the name and it makes you feel special or standout then that's all that matters.
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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
That Wale link is pretty funny only cuz I just heard him on the Ricky Smiley morining show and he said that strippers were his weakness. Just look at him! He looks gone. HAHA But I do love that look at 42 seconds. It's kinda 80's retro but sweet,timeless and sexy. Go for it! Just curious is it essential for a Black dancer to appear "urban" in order to make money? Also I think fallynlove.com is a wonderful name for a website. Maybe you should buy it for a few bucks just in case one day you wanna spreadout. Currently its available and if you love the name and it makes you feel special or standout then that's all that matters.
haha thats what i said, im like damn wale is off his ass right now. i dont thnk dancers have to appear URBAN to cash out. you know its just one of those things, to me its like a trend. but i dont want to be the same as everyone. last year when i was dancing i always got the head turns and compliments for being different . and the guys loved it. its was just the girls that looked at me like uuugh bitch, but who cares.
i wont be copying the look to a T but its just kinda an idea. the shoes ive showed i are reviewed on amazan and ebay. girls say dancing in them leads to feet pain and toe numbness. but to me WHAT HEELS ARE SUPER COMFORTABLE?
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WHAT HEELS ARE SUPER COMFORTABLE?
usually normally "stipper heels"..just the cheap pleasers are waaay more comfortable! they offer a lot more support and they don't take your heel off the ground in relation to your toe as much as normal pumps do. they follow the line of your foot while still giving you some height and make legs look extra long! i also always use dr scholls in mine..i don't want to get bunions and hammer toe!
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I've seen girls in my club wear those exact shoes but then again, we don't have poles and do not dance to the extent urban club dancers do. I def think you should also go the rhinestone jewelry look like she did in the video. :)
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i really really in love with the jewelry. it adds a touch of sex and class.
im kinda nervous, but excited to try my new look out but i have a great feeling all will go well.
what do you guys wear? whats your style?
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simone87
usually normally "stipper heels"..just the cheap pleasers are waaay more comfortable! they offer a lot more support and they don't take your heel off the ground in relation to your toe as much as normal pumps do. they follow the line of your foot while still giving you some height and make legs look extra long! i also always use dr scholls in mine..i don't want to get bunions and hammer toe!
i dont want bunion to either lol. i wonder if putting bandaides and or wrapping up my baby toes will help with that. ive never worn closed to shoes before.
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^ bunions are genetic, but if you are genetically pre-disposed wearing those kinda shoes that crush your feet will give you bunions like 20 year earlier than you would have gotten them. so if your mom or dad does'nt have them, dont worry too much! the plastic on stripper shoes will mould to your feet