We cant all be new to this!
So tonight, I had to deal with this huuuuge douch bag, it was like the last 2 songs of the night and I did this dance for this guy, during the dance he tried pulling out his dick and get a lil too freaky for me. I told him I wasnt down w this behavior or things he wanted to do, then the song was over and he paid me, no tip just the 60$ he owed me. I took it an began getting dressed to go back out and hustle when I hear him talking to the dance host who counts the dances I did. So I go over, bare foot and all and say "u never paid me for the dances we did!" So he tells the host he swears up n down HE did alardy. He did pay me, yes, but fuck him as he exited the dance rooom he kicked my clothes across the floor, he was mad I didnt fuck him or give him extras. So he paid me a second time(LMAO) then as I walk out he makes a point to fallow me out and says "u know u gonna get fired for this rt?!" THEN I say "Dude, fuuuuuck u!" and walk off, upon check out, my owner of club says"god bless u!"cuz I am known for my high dance sales even tho I only workedd here a week, that dont sound like a fireing to me!!!!I am happpy I got more $$ outta his bitchass! Who else out here likes makin these fucks pay when they do sum disrespectful shit!!!???? I wanna hear stories!!?lol.
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be careful... it might not get you fired RIGHT NOW but eventually it will catch up to you. I used to rip guys off left right and center. My new manager has called the cops on girls and has reviewed tapes to see if someone has ripped someone off. You never know how a situation might turn.
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i don't do asshole tax very often..it could be construed at accepting cash for sexual favors..just be careful!
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I have yet to have a mgr back me up on the concept of an asshole tax - I have actually had customers go to a mgr after dances, when they were trying to grope where I explicitly told them not to, & complain that I had the nerve to charge it. Also as Simone said I would be careful in bringing it up, for the reason she stated, but also if the guy gets it in his head that he can get one thing you're uncomfortable w/ for just a little more, it might embolden him to push you further.
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I just felt justified to more $$ from this guy cuz he was such a prick and I deserved more $$ from putting up w his rude ass. I told him no to alot of things during the dance and he then stopped but got mad at me for making him stop and as he walked out of the dance room, he kicked my bra across the floor!! what a dick! Who does that? that is something a child would do, So it decided "he didnt pay me" lol. So I was paid twice, ha. Thats what u get when u act like that. I have never actually done this b4 but the opportunity presented itself and I had to take it. He was so mad, hahaha!
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I don't disagree that he deserved it, but that doesn't change the fact that it could very easily backfire on you next time.
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with scumbags like that, you also don't know what they will do/are capable of. or what they could tell the manager..i'd just end the dance early, or get him kicked the hell out. i know charging money is more beneficial for a dancer for bad behavior, and i've been tempted myself but it could get very sketchy. they need to know that behavior won't be accepted, no matter how much they pay! he was certainly a little child..what a shit stain!!
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I Love you ava! You rock! do be careful though hun! Love it though!
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Originally Posted by
shanna dior
Oh asshole tax.
^This! I don't make a habit of "ripping guys off" like this, but in the heat of the moment it happens and some customers kind of deserve it-it's like compensation pay for us ;).
If a customer did that me, I would have had him roughly escorted out of the building! I know it was the end of the night-but if you are working at a decent club always alert a bouncer or manager if a customer is behaving badly. That way, if they don't get kicked out (which they should!) and try to cause any trouble-the club is already aware of the situation.
At least he didn't ask for a refund lol. I don't understand how ppl feel entitled to a refund when it was their fault the dance ended early ::).
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I felt I made it clear to him his behavior wasnt allowed because I made him stop trying his bs and he did stop it but he got all pissed off, plus making him pay more I think further got my point across that this shit isnt ok. I wasnt even gunna make him pay more till I heard him out there talking w the bouncer and just couldnt resist!lol. I saw my chance and took it, lol. It was like an automatic reaction to walk out there n say "you never paid!!" haha. You guys are right tho, this could get me into trouble so I wont be making a habit of this, I just like to get these douchs when they do stuff like this, making them pay me more makes me feel better about having to have the unfortunate unluck of having to meet such idiots and waste two songs of my life being naked for them. Honestly, I dont care if they are kicked out cuz I am not benefited plus the lights were coming on in the club cuz it was the end of the night and we were closing so he was on his way out anyways so this is no punishment. I really cannot get fired from this club tho so I'm being careful from now on
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And THIS is why I love you, AVA, you bad ass lol.
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agreed the a$$hole deserved to be 'taxed', but as other girls have posted these sort of business activities can be construed as ...
- ripping off the customer ( i.e. charging for a service not actually provided )
- demanding money in exchange for sexual contact ( i.e. act of prostitution )
- threatening to the club's reputation / future income
these days it requires 'walking a fine line' ...
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^^Yes, It could be viewed as those things even though my intent was just to be a dick to a dick and maybe teach a lil lesson so he doesnt do this to others later but I cant risk the job so I wont be doing this again you guys have good points. I kinda thought Id just deny deny deny if I was told on by this guy.lol.
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In the world of Yelp! (all the local clubs in my city are on Yelp!) something like this can have negative effects for your club. Most managers won't tolerate it. Sure, the guy was a douche, but the best way to handle this kind of situation is to either do a totally lame air dance or have the bouncer stand nearby to temper the guy's doucheyness. The guy may have been a big jerk to you, but maybe he has some sway with his circle of friends. Prior to the situation the worst he could have said about you is that you didn't do extras. Now he can accurately say you ripped him off and could paint all the dancers in your club with the same brush.
Also, this kind of behavior can turn dangerous for you in the future. Some guys are not nice, and will do horrible things to dancers they perceive as having ripped them off. I knew a girl whose tires got slashed by an unhappy customer she had ripped off. She did it often enough that more than one customer began stalking her. Eventually she just had to leave town (this was a small town, only two clubs total).
Be smart. You'll make more money in the long run.
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I still love that she did it..I had a guy rip me off, not pay me for a dance. I told mgr. & she said they'd take it off my house fee which they didn't do.