Originally Posted by
moneybags
Didn’t want to go in, but went anyways. I should’ve stayed home. A bunch of cheapskates-of course it only takes one guy, but our job is 20% of actually dancing and 80% of emotional labor. Next time my intuition tells me to stay home because I don’t have the mental capacity to deal with the club I WILL. I tried to push myself and ended up having a mini mental breakdown. There’s such a fine line between making yourself work when you don’t feel like working and when to stay home and self care to avoid too much stripclub stress.
I made enough money for groceries, gas, and to get my nails done at least, but I should’ve stay home and worked the next day.
The weekends are so stressful. It’s a complete numbers game where you talk to guys who play games all night just to find the couple of spenders among a crowd of cheapskates. It’s like mental Olympics to mental deal with the weekend crowd. Next time, I’ll prepare better mentally to deal.