Originally Posted by
SarahTime
Well, I say if your husband is honestly that against it, then don't do it. It's not worth it to ruin/hurt your marriage. Also if he dislikes it there will be a constant huge source of stress in your marriage and you don't want that either. It's not good for you, your relationship, your kids, etc.
If he's bringing in money and there is disposable income to spend, he needs to be sharing part of that with you. You might need to sit down and have a talk about the family finances if he is not willing to let you cam and also not willing to give you money to spend (if there is even any to be spent to being with).
Bottom line tho... if he doesn't want you to cam, you have to consider what the things you want are "worth". Is having money for "nice things" or trips with friends REALLY worth hurting your marriage and creating a constant source of stress in yours and your children's lives?
You are in school full time, so you also have to think about what camming will do to your future career possibilities. Is it worth having money to spend right now while you're a full time college student working towards I assume a career? Could you perhaps hold off on the "nice things" in life until you are finished with school and have a job that your husband can support you in? If he is working and taking care of you and the family while you are in college full time, it seems kind of.... not right? to insist on going against his wishes just so you can have a little money to spend on "nice things" and fun trips with friends.
That's just my two cents tho.