Oh I think you are giving them a little bit of credit there I have my handful of guys that I adore (I have small hands) the rest are certifiable.
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I just got a charge back rom NF from one call .Has this happened to anyone?It was a $20.42.
I haven't to date (knock on wood) but recall a few years ago there was a guy buying cam shows and paying with fake credit cards so several flirts had chargebacks. His were big though, he was from the UK and always had 'boi' as part of his user names. It caused a big scare among flirts, hanging up and not taking calls from guys with Brit accents for a while there. It was always cam girls with dom listings if I recall correctly.
So it can happen but so far in my experience is rare on NF.
He sounded foreign.Thank god it was only a 4 minute call.To protect myself.i will not accept shows from new callers.I BLOCKED HIS SKYPE so he cant find me on my other sites .
I wouldn't suggest you turn down shows from new callers. You'll be missing out on a lot of money trying to avoid a very rare situation. You may want to post on the forums and see if anyone else has been dealing with this recently (esp. cam girls) but I'd think it would already be on the forums if this was prevalent.
Chargebacks are just part of the business dont be scared of them they are just going to happen. NF does a very good job of helping us avoid them much better than most but sometimes it just happens. If you are concerned because you are on a tight budget then build a cushion into your hold back so you dont have to worry about no having rent money till you get better established.
I have a couple of questions for all the NF ladies out there. I'm having an AWFUL week (been sick, had construction in my apartment, I'm facing tuition payments.... blah blah blah) and while I'd like to rant all about it, wasting my keystrokes on a bitch rampage isn't going to make it any better. Finding information will!! Onward with the post!!
There has been a lot of chat about Goodies, some girls are having excellent luck with them, other not so much.
For those of you who are doing great with them, what are your top selling goodies? Fetish? Masturbation? Mistressy type stuff?
For the girls who do the phone only lines, when are your peak hours? What are your most and least popular lines?
Now for the long questions:
For Mistress/BDSM/Femdom ladies, I've always had trouble figuring out what to do with a caller who will not tell me what he's into. I then resort to doing whatever I please with him, but this results in a lot of hangups (guys who won't tell me what they want usually end in hangups anyway.)
Are there ways I can either be generic in the type of domination I'm delivering or is there a better way to get them to clue me in as to what they want? Maybe I can write my listings differently so that I'm more specific about what I'm offering from the get-go??
I'm a great in-person Domme but when it comes to pretending I'm Miss Cleo, I am an epic fail. I'm very experienced BDSM, but doing it on the phone is a completely different animal.
I'm killin it with cam shows but I have no Goodies as of yet (been on NF 5 years w/o selling pics or vids.. yikes!) Basically I've been solely doing live shows with NF and I'm missing out on a lot of potential income. Any help you lovely ladies can give would deserve the highest of fives. Thanks so much!!! <3 <3 <3
Hello JusCammin,
I can asked the phone only lines questions.
1. My peak hours vary from character to character. My Domme characters' peak hours are in the daytime and my submissive characters peak hours are between midnight to 5 am.
2. My most popular lines are my Asian switch/Ebony submissive lines. These lines are popular because my customers are into raceplay and I milked that fetish.My least popular line is Latina Transexual.
3. I would say that you need to highlight your domme talents in your listings. Cater to fetishes that interest you and your subs would follow.
I am increasing my goodie line this year. I would say the best thing to do is pick out a few fetishes and work those. Trying to be all over the place is just too much work. My busy hours vary but generally day time is good for me. If you can do hypnosis that is very popular I looked into it but decided I just didnt have the patience for it. Guys that dont know what they want hang up that is just the way it is. I have some guy flirt friends and they run into the same thing. I dont even fret it anymore I just move on to the next thing. Decide who your character is and keep her there do not deviate just because you want to make that one dollar right now. If you stay in character it will pay off in the end. Doesn't mean you can not have additional characters. ;) If you can not get a guy to talk which is what I try and do. I ask him what kind of porn do you watch, what kinds of things do you think about, what is your most memorable experience etc. Guys that want to explore will talk with you others there is nothing you or anyone else can do to get them to that point of opening up they are just not ready. It is different in person than on the phone in person you dont have to tell them I am pinching your nipples you just are :)
BTW I adore your signature that is so me. I dont care if I fail as long as I try.
Hi everyone!
I had a quick question and didn't see it answered anywhere. Is there a way to send an automatic email to people who look at my page\favorite me? I looked at a cam girl's page the other day and the next thing I knew, I had an email. Am I crazy?
THANKS!!
Sarajules
To my knowledge there is no automatic way. I put my favorites in one folder and then divide everyone else up to email them. People that favorite me get a little more special attention even if they have not bought anything yet. YOu probably clicked on a girls profile and she just sent out a mass email. WE all do it. :) Some girls get mad when they get stuff from other flirts if I feel like looking I will if not I just click and delete it never upsets me. All of us email because emailing works. :)
I just wanted to say that I am not new to doing skype shows booked through camsites (CMD, AW) and scoured this thread and the NF forums before offering cam with phone there but FUCK ME if I didn't just do my first show there for only partial payment. I was so shocked to finally get a call on that line that I didn't realize once we put the phones down to do the session he could hangup part of the way through. FUCK ME! I mean he tributed afterward but it still didn't make up for the lost $. Guess I paid my newbie tax. *eyeroll*
And of course my second phone with cam request is asking to prepay. Goodness they are slick!
Hi,
long time lurker and first time poster here.
I have read this entire thread and the wealth on information Is priceless :) Thank you for that. I have run into a problem however.
I have been on NF for about 4 months now. Yesterday, when I would click on my one listing, the call buttons appeared as if I were on a call, but I was not. I tried restarting the computer, changing browser, clearing cookies etc and nothing seems to do the trick. I am normally pretty busy, and since I didn't receive a single call yesterday I'm pretty sure no one could get through, they all thought I was on a call. I sent a help request into NF last night, but haven't heard anything back and today it's still stuck on busy. Any advice? I can ONLY receive my pay by check for the time being, so t would be great if I could work today and tomorrow and get two more days worth into my next check, as I have a lot of bills due this month. Thank you in advance.
-Dear
can you either send me your listing [email protected] or post it here so I can look at it. Also go ahead and submit a ticket to NF to have their techs look at it. If you are hung up in the server there is nothing you can do to correct that it has to be done through their side. It should at worse case fix itself every 24 hours when the servers reset themselves.
Sorry he did that to you = so irritating - I despise scammers -- but - you are not supposed to accept tributes for cam shows - the rules say you are supposed to have a call in conjunction with your cam show - I just wanted to give you a heads up so you dont get your account suspended - some ladies will report you for it if they see or know of you doing it -- I set my phone next to my screen with the volume just low enough so I can hear Madge if she comes on saying the call has ended or I can see the screen change
Thanks Dianne,
I will give it a full 24 hours in that case. If it's still like that tonight I'll shoot you an email. Thanks for responding so quick!
Dear
****just checked again and it's back to normal, yay!
It will generally fix itself and their servers seem to cycle several times a day. Logging out and letting it sit for a few mins can help. It doesnt happen that often maybe a few times a year. Sometimes rebooting your modem will help to because a lot of internet providers use floating isp so it can trick the server into thinking a different person is logging on so it uses a different port other than the one that is having the hiccup.
Can someone give me a quick dummies guide to buying clicks, cos I swear every time I look at the bid page It just confuses me even more.
Are girls actually paying 2.19 a click, are is that perhaps the limit they have set that I am seeing?
Maybe I m just being cheap but I need to know the magic that happens at this price that cant happen at .5 cents.
I turn off my MIC in Skype...so nothing is coming through on my computer....its all through the phone line that way I know when the dumbasses hang up and whatnot and when they need time to "add funds" I turn off my cam while so they don't keep going and then hang up lol....they think they can sneak us but nope!
Haven't been on here in so long and I've been slacking on my NF time as well...def getting discourage :( How in the hell do I do these stupid ass goodie bags. I can read this shit all day long but I am still not understanding how it goes :(
You kind of have to just get in there and do them, the instructions are confusing.Deal with the 2257 info first, upload your pic with your ID.
I suggest having the Goody Bag Help up on one browser, and your NF account on another, so you can refer back and forth.
The way I do it is, first make folders in the File Manager for Goody Bag Clips, and Goody Bag pics. Then upload your files to the appropriate folders in the File Manager. Then tag them. Then add them to a Goody Bag, it gives you a blank one to create. Complete the 2257 stuff- its easy once your info is approved, choose a date to go live and boom.
Thank you all for your helpful suggestions on skyping with phone. I def knew the tribute for payment thing was verboten (and I wouldn't want to anyway) so I couldn't believe I got hoodwinked into it right off the bat! Maybe because my listings haven't had so many calls that they assume they can get one over on a newbie? Fuck that! How are my listings going to get feedback and ratings if they don't CALL THE LISTING.
Most of the cam custies so far have asked to tribute but will call the line after I say no, no and no. One was persistent (but I had a feeling he would relent) so I told him if the phone line is not busy it shows me as available to take calls and I am not going to log out of NF just to do a session with him and have to turn my lines off and back on. That seemed to tip him as he hemmed and hawwed then finally agreed, LOL. (It was funny that this convo took place on the phone with cam line, I will gladly discuss the pros and cons of payment option for that per-minute rate. Like, dude–we could already be skyping right now, but it's your nickel.)
Anyway, thanks and sorry for the rant. . . it was just frustrating after doing so much research and set up and patiently waiting for lines to ring just to have it be TOS-violating requests. But I am finally getting some legit calls from proper custies so patience pays off. It's nice to not have to monitor the length of the skype show and have to cut them off myself when their time runs out like on other indie platforms.