Has anyone in the UK gotten their Niteflirt cheque yet? Mine usually comes between the 12th and roughly the 18th of each month, but I still haven't received it yet. I'm not sure how long I should wait before contacting NF.
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Has anyone in the UK gotten their Niteflirt cheque yet? Mine usually comes between the 12th and roughly the 18th of each month, but I still haven't received it yet. I'm not sure how long I should wait before contacting NF.
Hello ladies,
I have my rates set to 3.99 per minute phone with cam on niteflirt
it seems on niteflirt I frequently get shows that only last 4 - 10 minutes
is that common? especially for my price?
Also how do the guys usually act ? what is the etiquette on skype?
I am getting a lot of guys just hang up after that time frame and not talk to me really after
Do guys on nite flirt have extremely high expectations for cam shows or are really demanding or something?
more than half the time I start a show on skype I feel like I am pulling teeth to simply get an answer of what it is they actually want to see. then when I just try to go with the flow and masturbate, they either get really into it and cum and stay a long time, or they leave after a few minutes.
I get the same types of situations alot on streamate too just not as frequently as niteflirt.
Am I just a bad cam girl ? Is this uncommon ? or do you girls deal with these frequently on streamate and niteflirt too ? Especially any fellow trans girls?
The only thing I can think of is maybe they just aren't used to interacting with a transgender woman, sleeping with one, or even doing shows with one before, so they get nervous or uncomfortable when they can't give me direction?
Also what is the skype etiquette? a lot of the guys try to talk to me on skype chat after a show, even days or weeks later, and I don't know how to respond unless they are straight up asking for a show with me. I usually ignore them, but sometimes if I am doing GFE I write to them a little and try to entice them to call me on NF. What do you ladies do ?
As always, thanks ahead of time for replies !
Its a shame that Niteflirt only offer cheque as payment for us UK Ladies. Has anybody ever asked them if they can pay via Paxum or Payoneer. TalktoMe will pay via Paxum but you have to request it as it doesn't seem to mention this option on their site. I just wondered if Niteflirt could be the same - You have to ask for it?
From what I understand, NF are very adamant that they will never do anything other than cheques to the UK. It's a big pain in the arse because I get paid once a month, and the cheque doesn't arrive until the middle of the month...then my bank charges me £12 to deposit a foreign cheque. I've considered signing up to to TalktoMe, but wasn't sure if they accommodated UK service providers. I think I read that TTM was fairly strict about missed calls and cancelling your account if you had too many. I don't miss that many calls, but it does happen occasionally.
I can only speak as a cis female, but I would say that the 6-10min time is fairly normal for cam. Every once in a while I'll get somebody longer, but they generally fall into that category for me.
As far as NF guys and etiquette...please don't see it as a reflection on you! I honestly think they just don't know how to behave, especially after they cum. They often just lean forward and cut me off without a goodbye, thank-you, or anything. I think they do it to anyone regardless of whether they're cis, trans, doing a good job, doing a bad job, etc. I often get guys randomly messaging me after a session, but I usually just ignore them. It's up to you. Some people use it as a means of trying to sell them another session, but I've found that most of them are just bored and trying to engage you for free. Every once in a while, I will politely respond that the best way to contact me is via NF mail as I rarely look at Skype unless I'm in a session. I tend to keep my Skype setting at "invisible" to avoid random messages. By all means, use it as a way to try and entice them into another session, but as soon as it appears that they have zero intention of doing so, I'd stop responding.
I work both Adultwork and NF cam and phone. I swear, even though I'm an American living in the UK, I find the predominantly American NF crowd to be much harder work. American men often come across as a lot more awkward than my British crowd. Just try not to let it get to you. It's no reflection on your abilities as a cam girl. xxx
Yes with TTM you need to remember to switch off your availability if you get another call - but it becomes second nature to do that once you get in the habit - saying that I sometimes forget to do that and miss the odd call and they've never thrown m off the site.
I get paid via Paxum by TTM but they offered it to me as an alternative to cheque. A cheque is no good for me because they automatically pay out once a week as soon as you reach $50. They do still apply a processing fee for paying you by Paxum though - its the same as the processing fee for cheque but for me its sooooo much easier and better than a cheque.
Yeah, I signed up to another site that charges a small processing fee to use Paxum. I haven't invested a lot of effort into that site yet, so haven't been paid, but I don't mind the small processing fee so might give TTM a look in. Now that payment processing is up in the air with Adultwork, I might invest more time into sites that pay via Paxum now! I literally just emailed over the Paxum form that you have to sign IN BLUE INK (ha!) to get my bank account verified. Ugh. I'd much rather be doing 1,001 other things on a Sunday evening.
Oh yes I remember the blue inked pen! Its worth itthough once you're all set up - I've never had any problems with Paxum & it sounds like you're near the end of the tedious verification process :)
TTM is definitely worth a go - its not AW money but its not a bad extra little egg in your basket. You don't have to be able to do HTML either to set up your profile on TTM - You can have HTML profile on TTM but the basic profile looks Ok - That was another thing that put me off NiteFlirt because I can't do HTML.
How does the cam with phone option work?
I think on NiteFlirt you're supposed to sell them your Skype ID and then when they want a Skype show they phone you at the same time. That's how you get paid for the Skype show so make sure that your phone chat rate reflects that you're doing a Skype show.
If they hang up on the phone call then make sure you quickly end the Skype call x
First, thanks for such a helpful post! I'm new to NF and was wondering how do recorded listings work. Do they have to pend like live listings? Also are recorded listings as successful as live ones?
Yes, I wouldn't mind knowing this too.
Good new on the horizon for us UK providers is that Daily Pay Colin on the AdultWork forum mentioned that he was going to be opening a Niteflirt Daily Pay Group soon. It's on the back burner for the time being due to the current AW payment processing issues.
That would be fantastic a daily pay group for Niteflirt - so much better than a cheque
I've just submitted my second recorded listing a couple of days ago and it's still pending. They do have to pend like live live listings, I assume so they can actually listen to your recording and make sure you're not discussing anything out of the terms and conditions. I've only had 1 live listing before this and it wasn't hugely successful. I've had 59 calls to it in 2yrs, 5min length, priced at $1.50/min.
Yes you can use the same MP4 for a recorded call and a PTV.
That's a bummer. I just discovered how live listings work and I thought it would be perfect since I recently picked up another job. I'm not available as much, but I still want to tend to my customers. I'm finally building clientele!!!.....Thanks for the heads up, didn't want to put all my hopes and time in it for little to nothing!
So, with these PTVS...are the callers able to buy and download for their personal use? Yes 20% does add up!!! Lol
Niteflirt Rates/Prices Opinion, Tips & More.
I'm a new flirt and currently I'm at the 0.99 cent rate. This rate works for me. However, through research I see that this is considered a very low price. Often, I see that 1.49 is a standard rate. Since I'm new to NF I plan on increasing my rates overtime as my ratings increase. I read somewhere to be aware of the difference between being busy vs being productive. It was a good point... You may receive less calls with higher prices but you will be more productive with each call....So flirts, what's your opinions or advice for this situation?
Start as you mean to go on. If you're talking about cam with phone you definitely don't want to start cheap. Try 3.99+
I started out at $1.99 and charge $2.19 now. For cam, I agree with Susie at $3.99 or so. I'm in the UK so lose more in connections fees, currency exchange rate, etc. so I'm not willing to charge less than $1.99/min for phone. Charge what you're comfortable with, but I would definitely bump it up from .99/min.
What on earth is a recorded listing??
Like AW recorded erotica https://support.niteflirt.com/hc/en-...orded-Listings
Got it! I thought so, not my thing.
Thanks for clarifying, SS xx
Does anyone know if they are ever going to accept paxum or payoneer? None of their other payment methods work for my country unfortunately..