These guys are NOT the boss of us!
I'm writing to remind you ladies, these guys do NOT tell us what to do. Specifically in free chat. Last night I had a guy DEMAND that I look for my panty hose and ballet flats and ORDERED me to put them on. I kept up my fake flirtiness and kept saying "how bout a nice tip for me baby" and he just responded "we will have a nice long private" and surprise, surprise, we never had one! so i half assed put them on and showed him, only because I was on enough Xanax to tranq a horse, or else I would have told him to fuck off long before. He then came back to take me to a 3 minute private that he still hasn't paid for.
So some reminders:
NEVER trust any of the members, even the guys you've had nice privates with in the past.
NEVER do anything for free. Why the hell should you? Would these guys walk into a restaurant and bully the waitstaff into giving them freebies? NO! and if they did, they would get their asses kicked out. Don't give these losers any opportunities.
In free chat, you want tits, you got to tip. Sorry your wife won't give you any but without any cash neither will I.
Above all we are businesswomen, trying to make a living and a better life for ourselves. You are your own boss in the cam world. The female body is beautiful and ultimately priceless and YOU are worth your wages. Anyone who doesn't agree doesn't even deserve to admire your ankles and should be bitched out promptly.
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I don't do anything without a tip in free chat, I won't even stand up!.. i wont smile, i won't blow you a kiss, They ask for ANYTHING i ask for a tip!...period.. I stand up if i want to.. not cuz some jerk told me to.
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By now I think we all know that "do this for me bb first, then I take you private" is a crock of sh*t and I tell the guys "well if you are coming private anyhow, why do I need to do it first?"....mmmhmmm...
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kittykrane
By now I think we all know that "do this for me bb first, then I take you private" is a crock of sh*t and I tell the guys "well if you are coming private anyhow, why do I need to do it first?"....mmmhmmm...
ALWAYS bullshit. ALWAYS. If a guy "doesn't believe" you have a certain toy or clothing item or whatever for private, he can stop the private after a minute. If he can't afford that extra minute (or more likely 20 seconds) he can't afford private.
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caseychambers
ALWAYS bullshit. ALWAYS. If a guy "doesn't believe" you have a certain toy or clothing item or whatever for private, he can stop the private after a minute. If he can't afford that extra minute (or more likely 20 seconds) he can't afford private.
So true.. In my early days, I actually indulged this idiocy a few times. It was time-consuming and made me feel like a complete retard (I was, lol!)
"Okay I'ma ya yup get my shooooes then we go private as you promised? :3
*comes back after 10 mins of off-cam rummaging....*
AH GOTS DEM! ^.^ LOOK AREN'T THEY CUTE?!
*gives free show, showing off said shoes, gleaming softly with a mix of ignorance and stupid pride*
You take me private now....?
*confused face turns into sad face*
....
*looks like an idiot*
*removes shoes and pretends like nothing completely embarrassing just happened*
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Incantatious
So true.. In my early days, I actually indulged this idiocy a few times. It was time-consuming and made me feel like a complete retard (I was, lol!)
"Okay I'ma ya yup get my shooooes then we go private as you promised? :3
*comes back after 10 mins of off-cam rummaging....*
AH GOTS DEM! ^.^ LOOK AREN'T THEY CUTE?!
*gives free show, showing off said shoes, gleaming softly with a mix of ignorance and stupid pride*
You take me private now....?
*confused face turns into sad face*
....
*looks like an idiot*
*removes shoes and pretends like nothing completely embarrassing just happened*
You're so adorable I can just picturing that reactions from you.
*heart breaks*
Hahah. I am glad I don't have to live stream....chances are I would have done that in the beginning.
Now they think they can outsmart me...but they have another thing coming. :wife:
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CanadianRuby
You're so adorable I can just picturing that reactions from you.
*heart breaks*
Hahah. I am glad I don't have to live stream....chances are I would have done that in the beginning.
Now they think they can outsmart me...but they have another thing coming. :wife:
Ahawhh!
http://images2.wikia.nocookie.net/__...ittana-hug.gif
You're so lovely. :)
Plus, I would NEVER doubt your abilities when it comes to outsmarting freeloaders! You're like The Freeloader KO Queen! ;D
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I don't know why you even gave him any attention.
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JoJoX
I don't know why you even gave him any attention.
+1 yeaaa.... bc:
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KikiGem
I'm writing to remind you ladies, these guys do NOT tell us what to do. Specifically in free chat. Last night I had a guy DEMAND that I look for my panty hose and ballet flats and ORDERED me to put them on. I kept up my fake flirtiness and kept saying "how bout a nice tip for me baby" and he just responded "we will have a nice long private" and surprise, surprise, we never had one! so i half assed put them on and showed him, only because I was on enough Xanax to tranq a horse, or else I would have told him to fuck off[ long before. He then came back to take me to a 3 minute private that he still hasn't paid for.
What site is this where he can do a 3min pvt but not pay for it?
Sorry I cant follow this story - he demanded certain clothes, you got them, he demanded you put them on, you asked him to tip you, he didnt, you put the clothes on anyway, and he got a show... without paying for it?
Did you give him a free show + free preview?
?
Gurl.
IDK if this is a cautionary tale or youre reminding us to mind our Ps and Qs bc you didnt (we all have this moment, I had a minor one last week Im still shaking my head), but dont let guys do this to you. This feels like the mantra of the summer bc I think we have a lot of new signups, but, gurl.... dont let guys do this to you.
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I put the clothes on in free chat, he kept bossing me so I kicked him out, he came back to my room and immediately took me prvt and said nothing and did nothing, then left and I was dropped back into free chat. I'm on iFriends, where members *can* put money on their accounts (called being a Video Chat Wallet customer) but for the most part they can take us prvt. and we don't know if they will pay or not after the fact. It's stupid and I've bitched them out before but they insist it's fine when it's not.
Plus, I gave him attention because we had one long prvt before.
So no, not a fake story. Unless I took way more Xanax than I thought!
Jokes aside...
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Cant u use GPO (guaranteed payment option)? I really hate that site, if u work standard pay chat u risk loosing money cause guys wont pay, if u work GPO the site kicks out members cause their credit cards 'smell bad'.
This issue is baaad on some sites, we 'spoiled' on SM ans few other sites to get all the money we working for but i know i lost soo much money on Ifriends and Imlive over the years (ifriends introduced GPO in the last few years only).
Anyway best is to do things for tips or in pvt and dont let these guys fool u.
Problem is they try to take advantage of unexperienced, new or too kind girls
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GPO would give me only 35 percent though. Which is PITIFUL. I'm also a member of SM but the night I worked was completely dead so I didn't go back. I'll keep looking into it, iFriends for the most part does suck, and like I said I'm usually the first to stick the boot in an annoying customers ass but being over medicated I figured it would be a great night to work but it turned out not to be.
He did finally fork over my 6 dollars for his little 3 minute prvt so I guess no harm no foul
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Do y'all remember a long time ago I came on here complaining about a free show I had given some guy on iFriends? And then another SW model was arguing with me about it and talking down at me like I didn't know what I was talking about? LOL...
I remember being confused as fuck over iFriends, and - as a result - giving some guy on there a 30-minute show for free. I specifically made sure to select the 'Pay-Per-Minute' paid chat option (or whatever it was called back then) because I did not want to do free video chat if I didn't have to. So this guy came in, and because I had selected the Pay-Per-Minute option, I thought "Cool...my first private show!" So obviously I thought I was in a paid private show, and so I did a 30-minute naked show...later on thinking WTF?! when I noticed that I still had $0 in my earnings.
I had made the payout minimum on there like once and then decided to quit the damn site.