I'm Asian but I don't do Asian men. I hate small penises. Does that make me racist?
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Not at all bb. We all have our own preferences. I dated a Vietnamese guy. Extremely intelligent, business owner...owned his own software company. However, his cock was so minuscule we couldn't even have sex and I was actually a virgin back then. He couldn't even fit it in the backdoor :( He took the term 'baby dick' to another level but I enjoyed his company. $ugar Daddy! That being said, I've had friends who were very pleased with their Asian men's cocks. I've seen a few pornos (Japanese) and they aren't very long, but thick and the mushroom heads are nice :)
lets just dead this racial thing here in the stripperhood darksnik vs lightskin i hate for us to be divided like that.....there are always going to be people that are color struck esp in our community.... but you have to sell your product so good that custies forget what color you are pop tht pussy do your tricks and thats what theyll remember what you did on cam last night not your color lets not fall back on this anymore and just work past it
To mimiboo69;
I'm not a Camgirl on SM anymore but I still wanted to answer on your thread. I kind of understand what you are trying to say. You could ask yourself 'How would SM be able to favourite camgirls soley based on their skin tone??' Sounds impossible if you ask me..
As a very dark skinned Camgirl (dark chocolate,people always assume that I'm African) I never in my whole camming career let my skin tone hold me back or something.I never think about the the percentage of melanine in my skin when im working. You shouldn't neither if you ask me.
Yes shadeism and colorism is very real and alive in the black community I won't deny it's existence (it's a false and worthless 'hierachy' if you ask me,but I will not burn my fingers on that) and yes lighter skin black women probably get more exposure in general,in the media etc, then the darker ones,but does that concern me or cross my mind when I'm camming? Never.
I'm not a BBW so I can not speak about that subject, but it can also be that SOME (dark skin) black women on camming sites,SM in this case, are more insecure on certain levels.
And a guy with a love/fetish for black women, he rather go to the one who seems the most approachable and happy in her body then the one who seems more distant/hostile/un-interested/agressive/bored/insecure/sloppy etc. Not saying this is true but who knows what a guy thinks/wants??
Fyi,if you just knew how many European white guys adore dark skin tone,one time on a German site a guy even told me I wasn't dark enough for him (LOL)
Just love yourself and shine positivity guys will feel that. Personally I never care how many (dark)black girls
are on a site and doing good,sure I check if there ARE any but that's it;after that I'm more concerned about my own hustle.
And about customers looking for the people who look like them or whatever; maybe because I'm in europe
and have more contact with European and UK guys;I have almost zero black male customers/regulars,go figure.
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Internalized/externalized racism , percieved preferences, race-fetishism, and its effects on us in this industry makes me cry. I'm pretty dissapointed how quickly people will jump to the conclusion of jealousy, "race card" usage (what the fuck is that, even?!), and cries for more rugged individualism (as in, "Come on, OP, you're obviously not working hard enough") before simply empathizing with a pretty glaring reality that women of color face in all aspects of adult work. The OP isn't hallucinating. This may not be a coordinated "conspiracy" within SM and its affiliates but these dynamics do exist. Can't we just acknowledge this frustration as something very real and show support for enduring it?
That is all.
"Playing the race card" is an idiomatic phrase that refers to exploitation of either racist or anti-racist attitudes by accusing others of racism.
See to me, that would be patronizing and racist... To see her bring up race, and just pat her on the head and be all like "Aw sweetie, yes, isn't it awful? I sure hope darker skinned black ladies become more accepted in this industry soon!" whilst I ignore seeing plenty of black women on the front page and the gal 1st place I mentioned and the other black women who are seeing the same as me and first-hand experiencing success on SM. That wouldn't make much sense.
I am outright not seeing what the OP is seeing, which is that lighter-skinned black women gain priority over darker-skinned black women, so you're saying I should just lie to her? - "just acknowledge this frustration as something very real and show support for enduring it?" Should the other black ladies also lie to her?
Our OP not only asked that, but she blamed her lack of success on the fact that she is a darker skinned lady, "not skinny and not a pornstar", which seems odd to me, being as there are plenty of dark-skinned ladies, BBWs and non-pornstars who are huge successes on Streamate, so it seems absolutely clear that those things don't make a huge difference. The only one I can think of making a substantial difference would be a history in porn, but even then that doesn't guarantee success by any means.
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And a lot of it might have to do with culture. Black girls who are lighter skinned are typically mixed race, North African (like Ethiopian), or Caribbean for example. Those cultures are all so very different and exotic to a lot of customers. So it would make sense even if they did have high placement, because of this. Its not like the "Ebony" category is just a cut and dry thing. No, within the Ebony category, and especially light skinned black girls, contains so many different groups. Remember, men can search for keywords, and they often do.
Theoretically, even if they were in the top of the Ebony category, its still probably not due to racism. Its probably due to the fact that they would be the minority in the Ebony category. The scarcity factor. Supply and demand. I mean, for example, if a guy searches "Caribbean" on Streamate, how many girls come up as a result? Five. So there would be a decent demand for Carribean girls for example, and not a lot of competition.
I mean, even the girls the OP or someone else mentioned in this thread (hey what happened to the no naming rule?), those girls are extremely rare. One is brazilian and the other has a strong british accent. They just so happen to be lighter or medium skin tone, but again its supply and demand. How many black british girls are there on Streamate? How many black brazilian girls with a brazilian accent are there on Streamate? See what I mean? I'm sure if there was a girl from Congo or Nigeria (where a lot of girls are darker skinned) with a strong accent, who kept being like 100% NIGERIAN GIRL, and she was also really personable and talkative, she'd probably be at the top too.
However, I still don't think this racism theory is true. There are several medium or darker skinned girls at the top of Streamate, and a few of them even post on SW.
dont mean to interrupt but I saw 2 beautiful dark chocolate skinned ladies on sm front page 1st and 2nd row! And They were gone in like a minute! Both taken to pvt!
Not in ebony but SM main page!!
I really think this theory is really complex. But I rather believe its about the vibe and the things ladies can offer than the colour of the skin.
And like the smart ladies told here not the place counts but how much you can make. <3<3<3
And what kind of personality you have.
A few thoughts on the cultural + the effects of media topic: all the top ebony stars have lighter skin tone like Beyoncé, Rihanna, Halle Berry.....
Guys fantasise about these ladies and i believe it can be a reason why they love girls who sort of look like them. But again it is just a fantasy.
And who is the most successful ebony lady? hmmm? OPRAH!
And why? Because of her personality!
Sorry if my theory seems a bit naive but I just cannot believe that the colour of the skin matters. No just cant but WON`t!
Because I dont see colour, I see the Person!
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We might be able to better understand your perspective on this if any of your posts were comprehensible.
...So you post a thread on StripperWeb posting your theory (and without proof, as many girls proved the theory otherwise), and then you selectively only thank the people who agree with you? Well then, this was definitely a successful thread! lol
Not only that, but you also said that the reason you will not be successful is because you're not light skinned, skinny, or a pornstar. So its like you wanted other people to confirm to you that you won't be successful due to these factors, even when there are successful girls on Streamate already who aren't light skinned, skinny, or a pornstar??? lol this whole thing is so weird.
What you don't understand tell me lol then talking shit just ask me
What I don't I understand is anything you type, at all.
I cannot continue to attempt to see your perspective on this topic when all you have to offer is seemingly random outbursts of text on the screen.
I mean, what did you even just say to me? I think you asked what it is that I don't understand... But the rest I'm just like huh?
Anyone with common sense can understand what she's saying, otherwise why even respond to the thread if you didn't understand what she was saying? Also, please read up on Dyslexia. Spelling Errors, punctuation, and structure are symptoms of Dyslexia in extreme cases. http://www.das.org.sg/sign-and-sympt...-dyslexia.html No need to be a bully about it when we all clearly know ALL of her posts are usually jumbled up. Also, using CAPS are a part of the disorder. A lot of Dyslexics spell Dyslexia like this: "DysLexia".
Lol trust me I have plenty of common sense... You tell me not to bully someone in the same post you try to insult my common sense? Seriously?
I am not bullying anyone here, from what it looked like she appeared to be put off that no one came running up saying "you're so right, damn all those white people!" when if she had taken the time to make her perspective more clear, she may have gotten a better response and would have been better understood. I am not unfamiliar with dyslexia, it is possible for extreme dyslexic people to still communicate using basic punctuation, if nothing else. This is a grown woman who has lived with dyslexia her entire life, no?
I responded to this thread because it is an interesting perspective and there are many insightful posts here worth reading.
But then I forgot, we are only supposed to reply if we are dark skinned and have something to say to reinforce the OP's theory on racism.