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Originally Posted by
vixenluv
Oh so thats why blacks get treated like crap because we treat other races like crap? LMAO ok girl. Again this is why non blacks need to stop commenting on the african american experience because bs like this gets said. EVERY time a black girl on here says something about racism in the industry, theres a stampede of non blacks that come in saying "ohhh no girl its not because your black, its because your not working hard enough, confidence etc etc" Like get the fuck outta here.
I'm a white person. I understand that I don't understand and there's no way for me to understand the life and experiences of a black person. I try desperately to keep my privilege in check, especially when talking about sensitive topics such as this. And therefore, I have nothing to say except that you're being extremely rude and this kind of behavior is uncalled for. Ain't no one attacking you here, why you pouncin' girl?
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I'm bummed because this could have been a fascinating open discussion about the very real effects of racism in the cam world. Instead it's a bumble fuck of personal insults, and it's going to be locked. I want to say before that happens that I perved some more and there is in fact a lovely dark skinned bbw who's up there with the big names and porn stars (in offline placement which is the best indicator I think). Keep your chin up Mimi! You're gorgeous, and kind, and good things will come to you in time.
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Sorry;long post warning
I do not think this thread goes out of hand and leading to nothing.
Why can't we talk about colourism/shadism isuess?
There seem such a taboo about this,everywhere on the internet I see the same reactions.
And this is not just racism as some of u confuse it with, personally I see this as an form of racism WITHIN the black community,worldwide.
There's a difference between denying something and then saying you are overreacting,or it's your own fault,
Or saying ok it does exist,it is a serious matter BUT how does it reflect to your own personal situation and hustle?Or better do you LET
it effect you?
I don't know about affiliates these are indvidual people,so some might apply favorism on their white label sites,I don't know. Most top girls aren't even pornstars
on SM,am I right?(regardless of their race)
But general speaking I just think that the more privates you have the higher placement on SM. There are some threads here about SM and their support is not on point etc ,so I doubt they even have a team sitting there selecting girls on skine tone and size. Maybe it even depends in which country you are and your IP;maybe if I fly to Colombia or South-africa I see all the colombian ebonies/south-african ebonies on the first page..
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Originally Posted by
Blovely
To those who are wondering how SM could rig the site to favor light skin black models over dark skin black models well....SM wouldn't be the one's rigging the site society would.
Yes,society plays a big role in it.Personally I do not believe in ONE standard of beauty btw,I just don't.
There are guys who secretly adore dark black women,but would never date one openly,because they are affraid of what people
in society are going to say or think about them.So he would openly choose the one everybody accepts.
In this situation it can be an advantage to be a dark camgirl on the interwebs.
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Originally Posted by
minniesoporno
who is to say that the girls in a low placement aren't making a killing of money on the site.
Agreed 100% Some girls bank silently
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Originally Posted by
GlamourRouge
Black girls who are lighter skinned are typically mixed race, North African (like Ethiopian), or Caribbean for example.
Not all light skinned black people are mixed and alot of caribbean peope are not light skinned. Some are, but I have a Caribbean/south-american background for and I'm def not,lol. Depends more on the region, island,family history etc. In general Caribbean people are very diverse in what I see around me.
On the whole african continent there are groups of people with a medium to lighter complexion,who are not mixed with white. And 'european' facial features can be found in all regions and skine tones througout africa.
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Originally Posted by
GlamourRouge
How many black british girls are there on Streamate?
I agree,the majority of camgirls on SM are from the US,so seeing a black british camgirl stands out I guess.
Once I saw a black french girl on SM her room was pretty full and she was on the first page.I also know this black camgirl from Belgium
and she originates from the same country as I do and she is always on the first page when she's working. I love to see more
european black camgirls on SM by the way. When I was on SM I cannot count how many times guys said or asked 'I didn't know there
are black people in Holland blabla'
Race-fetishism??
Maybe off topic but I don't have a problem at all with being a race fetish for white men,or other races for that matter.I know some black people don't like that idea or feel uncomfortable about it, but I personally don't care. I don't do raceplay though that IS one step too far for me personally,but I don't knock anybody who does this. BEING a 'fetish' itself just because Im a dark black girl has made me money and will continue to make me money that's all I care for at the moment.(Imo,If you are a dark skinned woman AND a BBW too and know your business,you can really bank)
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Originally Posted by
vixenluv
is that site a majority white site or black? If its majority black or young thuggish types, then yes I can totally see how being light skinned/dark skinned could make a big difference. But when it comes to white men they are alot less colorstruck.There are a few that only like the mixed or mixed looking girls, but alot of them dig chocolate skin especially the foreign guys.
Well said.
Even though I do not 'SEE' The things the OP Mimi sees. I still understands where her (fear/suspicion?) originates from. 2 words
shadism and colourism (coming from both slavery and colonialism) and because we talking about females,and dark skin males are totally spared when it
comes to shade and colour preference, maybe sexism too. So instead of denying that those dynamics exist in society/black community, just be realistic and accept it and do the best you can do for yourself. Too much focus on that is never good for business. But I also do not believe in acting like something doesn't exist and ignoring it totally. Nobody can be 100% jelly and happy all the time, maybe she had a bad day and made this thread topic out of frustration, who knows? Some reactions here are somewhat rude and blatant to be honest.I understand race,race related topics,standards of beauty etc are always controversial subjects.People tend to get very dramatic about it, fast
That still doesn't mean that we can not talk about this or adress it.I'm not the kind of person to think about my race all the time because im more then just my race.But through the 2 years reading this forum I read countless threads about incest,rape,BBW issues and other controversial things so whats wrong with this thread,as long as it is good and civil discussion I don't see nothing nonsens about this.
The last thing I want to say is that I became more race conscious because of camming on SM, americans seem to be so obsessed with race in my experience. In the Netherlands you ar judged on your nationality being dutch or foreign so to speak, so black,asians arabs etc are all 'equally' judged, so to speak. Europeans can be racist too of course, but they are also more open-minded. Again,my opinion.And I love my american admirers and custies btw:)
Sorry for the long post I felt bored.::)
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WOW! was busy makin my post and in the meanwhile this thread really turned in a real drama fest.
Too bad:( I'm outta here,said my things
ciao
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Originally Posted by
vixenluv
Like get the fuck outta here.
I think you need to eat your own words , coming from me, with hugs, motherfucking kisses, unicorns jumping rainbows, weed smoking, 40 drinking , food stamp receiving , only fucks black men bc I popped a black bitch out of my motherfucking pussy.
Dont you dare say we dont know what it is like to be judged so yeah GTFOH with your negative motherfucking ass.
Sorry for the thread jack guys.
This really could have been a informative thread
Vent over
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joining ya homie
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Originally Posted by
Shiney
WOW! was busy makin my post and in the meanwhile this thread really turned in a real drama fest.
Too bad:( I'm outta here,said my things
ciao
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
Did I say ALL blacks? Please reread my post. You are not good enough nor qualified to tell anyone what they should or shouldn't, what they can or can't comment. 'Like get the fuck outta here'??? Oh, that's nice! I'm sure a lot of us non-black girls have been told worst by better, much better!
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WTF are you even talking about? Actually dont answer because I really dont care. Id rather not waste another moment of my life reading your drivel. Bye!
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Originally Posted by
EphemeronXOXO
vixen!! wow you made me speechless! Seriously WOW! why do you have so much negativity? Your words like acid! WOW!
And how dare you talk about Kortney like that? When she is a beautiful chocolate skinned lady too???????????????????????
And all she did was being nice and understanding with Mimi?
And what do you mean a white person wouldnt understand the black issues?
What about emphaty huh?
I am white but Ihave a fat ass and no not because I eat junk food 24/7! In the near future I will need serious treatment sessions which include huge doses of hormones to be able to actuall fix that! So yeah people judge me because of something that is not my fault. People judged me because I am from eastern europe! Which is also not my fault and I could never change it no matter how hard I try. Because it is impossible!
After these I still tried to stay positive and I am still a fucking believer that there will be a world one day where judgement will be a huge NONO and noone will have to feel judged based on race, religion, age, built whatever.
My mom used to say that we are all came from a CUNT! And it is harsh it is rude but it is damn true.
And the blood in our veins are RED!
So what if we forget about stupid human jedgements and try to be the person who we supposed to be?
And yeah judge me english is not my native language! Booo for typos.
And GlamourRouge! Thank for that amazing article! <3
Thats sad, but what does it have to do with this convo AT ALL?! *sigh* How about if you dont like what I have to say put me on ignore? You and that flea quoted above are close to being on mine.
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Originally Posted by
vixenluv
WTF are you even talking about? Actually dont answer because I really dont care. Id rather not waste another moment of my life reading your drivel. Bye!
Thats sad, but what does it have to do with this convo AT ALL?! *sigh* How about if you dont like what I have to say put me on ignore? You and that flea quoted above are close to being on mine.
I just joined today, which means I read the Terms and Conditions today. I'm pretty sure being belligerent and hateful was one of the no-no's. I would clean my act up, were I you and wishing to remain a member of SW.
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vixen I wont put you on ignore because I wanna understand you!
Sad? What does it have to do with the convo?
You know what the sad thing is that you dont get it!
I just dont get it why do you have to be so damn rude?
And why cant you be openminded! Like get rid off the blindfolds and understand that you reaction just proves that there is a legitimate reason of existing stereotypes.
Edit: Oh and I could say really mean things but as an open minded filled with empathy person I rather not argue.
And I re-read the things I posted I hope I didnt hurt anyone with my thoughts. If so I am sorry it was unintentional.
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oh , well, damn, welcome aboard :)
This is just a occasional thing, most of us are nice :)
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Originally Posted by
Bitch
I just joined today, which means I just read the Terms and Conditions today. I'm pretty sure being belligerent and hateful was one of the no-no's. I would clean my act up, were I you and wishing to remain a member of SW.
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Originally Posted by
Bitch
I'm a white person. I understand that I don't understand and there's no way for me to understand the life and experiences of a black person. I try desperately to keep my privilege in check, especially when talking about sensitive topics such as this. And therefore, I have nothing to say except that you're being extremely rude and this kind of behavior is uncalled for. Ain't no one attacking you here, why you pouncin' girl?
oh well. like i said this happens every time black girls bring up racism on this site and im tired of it. if you dont like it too bad.
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Originally Posted by
temptingmodel
I think you need to eat your own words , coming from me, with hugs, motherfucking kisses, unicorns jumping rainbows, weed smoking, 40 drinking , food stamp receiving , only fucks black men bc I popped a black bitch out of my motherfucking pussy.
Dont you dare say we dont know what it is like to be judged so yeah GTFOH with your negative motherfucking ass.
Sorry for the thread jack guys.
This really could have been a informative thread
Vent over
bitch i dont give a fuck about you or what comes in or out of your wretched pussy. like i said if you dont like it join the other butthurt bitches and ignore all my posts from here on out. i promise i wont be hurt.
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Originally Posted by
temptingmodel
oh , well, damn, welcome aboard :)
This is just a occasional thing, most of us are nice :)
Thanks! I'm actually a vet lurker, and I've already cultivated a deep respect (and several girl crushes) for the fabulous ladies of SW. Keep doin' whatcha do!
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Originally Posted by
Bitch
Thanks! I'm actually a vet lurker, and I've already cultivated a deep respect (and several girl crushes) for the fabulous ladies of SW. Keep doin' whatcha do!
First of all welcome love! and sorry you had to see this! It is an amazing place to meet new friends and share experiences and I have to say YOU R GORGEOUS! <3
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I am profiling you as a ratchet project hoe , stuck in the mind set of pure ignorance and bliss.
I bet you are a southern chick? Most black girls from the south have a mental issue when uneducated
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Originally Posted by
vixenluv
oh well. like i said this happens every time black girls bring up racism on this site and im tired of it. if you dont like it too bad.
bitch i dont give a fuck about you or what comes in or out of your wretched pussy. like i said if you dont like it join the other butthurt bitches and ignore all my posts from here on out. i promise i wont be hurt.
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Originally Posted by
EphemeronXOXO
First of all welcome love! and sorry you had to see this! It is an amazing place to meet new friends and share experiences and I have to say YOU R GORGEOUS! <3
You're so sweet! I hope to make many friends here, and I can tell you'll be one of them. :)
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Originally Posted by
vixenluv
oh well. like i said this happens every time black girls bring up racism on this site and im tired of it. if you dont like it too bad.
bitch i dont give a fuck about you or what comes in or out of your wretched pussy. like i said if you dont like it join the other butthurt bitches and ignore all my posts from here on out. i promise i wont be hurt.
I hope your bb dont turn out like this, ignorant :)
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you will do great girl! <3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3 and thank youuu :)
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Originally Posted by
ABigNerd
This could have been a fascinating open discussion about the very real effects of racism in the cam world.
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Originally Posted by
Shiney
I do not think this thread goes out of hand and leading to nothing.
Why can't we talk about colourism/shadism isuess?
@ the bold
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I am doing the below to how this thread turned out.
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Originally Posted by
EphemeronXOXO
When she is a beautiful chocolate skinned lady too???????????????????????
Ummm just to let you and anyone else who may not be familiar with how black skin tones go Kortney isn't chocolate toned. She's light skin.
7-10 is light-meduim skin. 11-15 is brown/dark/chocolate skin.
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I hope her smile rubs off :)
http://i651.photobucket.com/albums/u...6/oprahgif.gif
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temptingmodel
this girl smiles tho bb :)
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Thank you so much I have learnt something new today but I really hope you know what I meant! And this was not the point!
Btw gosh I am soo pale I am the number one coloured. But I cant do a thing about it i tried to go to the tanning salon and after 2 mins I got burnt! After 2 damn minutes!:(((((((((((((((((
Anyway I have to accept it I will always look like I am sick or something. It is even worse in the winter. gooosh:(
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Originally Posted by
EphemeronXOXO
Thank you so much I have learnt something new today but I really hope you know what I meant! And this was not the point!
Btw gosh I am soo pale I am the number one coloured. But I cant do a thing about it i tried to go to the tanning salon and after 2 mins I got burnt! After 2 damn minutes!:(((((((((((((((((
Anyway I have to accept it I will always look like I am sick or something. It is even worse in the winter. gooosh:(
Lmao. Yes I know what you meant. I was just letting you know.
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Black, White, Asian, Polynesian, Indian, Japanese-Haitian whatever... We're all pink on the inside!
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Thank you actually I am glad you posted that picture. It is really interesting to see it like this. But goshhh I am soo pale:((((
I know I should try spray tan but knowing how luck i am i will be orange. Or look like a character from Jersey shore I dont want that lol.
But it would be great to have a colour plus because I am bbw my body would desperately need some colour to hide certain things lol:)
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yaaaaaayyyyyyyyy Pink is the prettiest colour:)))))))))))))))))))))))))))