Girls with ADD/ADHD; Trouble with Concentration/Boredom/Anxiety during shows?
Hi there,
As some of you may know from previous posts of mine, I have a lot of issues related to my concentration/attention-span.
I'm curious if any other girls ever experience difficulty staying on-task during camming, or even with enduring prolonged shows due to issues related to focus, concentration, attention span, anxiety, etc. I absolutely LOATHE free chat, but the moment I get an extended private, I am incredibly antsy, anxious, hyperactive, etc., and find it very difficult to concentrate & stay engaged. A few times, I have even found excuses to end shows early due to this, only to go back to free chat! (Yes, there is very little method to my madness, at times.)
Can anyone relate?
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Lots of Loud...seriously.My attention span is all over the place,I have never been diagnosed but I am sure I have ADD.My Son is Adhd and takes hardcore meds for it,I am scared too because I am Epileptic,its been awhile since I have had a seizure and I am worried if I mess around with meds it will start again....I smoke Loud and try too focus...
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I can relate totally! For me the boredom/anxiety is a carry-over from being in free chat. I feel that after doing this work everyday for 3 years, it's become repetitive no matter how I change it up.
I never even had to look at a computer in all of my other jobs, so it feels so one-sided to me, if that makes sense.
I have always been a 'people person', and always very social, so camming has totally turned me into a hermit, which I hate. :yuck:
That's why i'm starting a new job today, being with people. Camming will just be part time, and hopefully I will come to enjoy it once again.:crossfing
I live in a very hustle and bustle city, which I hear right outside my windows. I want to be part of the excitement of going out again, and not be staring at a computer all day. >:(
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Prescription pills make me so happy and focused. that is when I make hella bank.
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I take adderall but not all the time. Trust me, it's hard to focus. :(
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It really helps to have a show "routine". Which makes it sound really boring but I haven't had any complaints. When someone new takes me private they all get the same spiel, the same rotation of positions, etc. I change it up a bit depending on what I feel like doing but I don't really have to concentrate because I just go on auto-pilot. There's nothing to feel anxious about because I've done it a thousand times.
If it's a regular we'll already have a rapport so it's a lot easier for me, if he wants a very specific or fetish show those tend to be more interesting so they hold my attention better just from trying to comprehend what they want.
If all else fails during a vanilla show: just masturbate, for real. Tune the customer out, fantasize about something/someone you actually like thinking about, and do you. I don't do this often, just when I have trouble getting into the swing of things. Obviously it only works with low-maintenance custies. As long as you give the screen enough attention to make sure that you're still in paid chat, they're not getting upset or issuing demands, and all of the relevant body parts are in frame, you're golden.
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I'm not diagnosed, but I'm often accused of being ADD/ADHD when in free chat because I'm so all over the place. I will often stop talking mid story to talk about something else that poppped into my head. etc. I work on MFC so 'free' chat is where I actually make most of my money.
I make my personality work FOR me instead of against me. I get bored quickly in private, so I avoid private. Guys LOVE girls with a lot of energy! They view my all-over-the-place personality as charming and fun. They love just listening to me talk about whenever. I use free chat to do whatever *I* want, and I just take tips and play games to get naked inbetween. I do whatever my regular hobbies are, and I just get people to pay me to do it naked XD